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Post on Tumblr: The elevator of success is out of order. You'll have to use the stairs...
Me: How well did that work out for the Baudelaires?
I've finally done it! I've succeeded!
Shout out to @softcats for the recipe
I FOUND IT!!! And I had to look through all of their vlives to do it. It is just as endearing of a hello as I remember. 😊😊😊 I am satisfied.
![[V LIVE] On our way to meet STAY](https://64.media.tumblr.com/ba1eb8a71e48ae933f8917643b7b562a/c8736fb6e5439b2e-89/s1280x1920/d3d18c5bfacf4fc7decde6a762c0db2a88addb08.jpg)
I am going insane. I cannot find the video of Felix yelling hello in korean at the top of his lungs in the car while on coffee. Gahhhhh! I’ve been looking for an hour... why can’t I find it?!?! I can see the smile on his face, hear the horrible australian accent on the korean word, and see the judgment in Seungmim’s face, but I cant find the video. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I don’t know who needs to hear this but I just wanted to remind you that life isn’t a competition or a constant self-improvement project. You don’t have to be better or “prettier” or smarter than anyone else and you don’t have to overwork yourself to be deserving of rest. You are not behind. And it’s totally ok to find happiness or fulfillment in a life that others don’t understand. It’s ok if success looks different for you than it does to someone else. I just wanted to remind you that you are enough. You always have been. 🩷
"If you had a friend who had no interest in writing, and they try to write and write better than you, a masterpiece. What would you do? If you had read and written and worked insanely hard and they are just so naturally talented that they are able to produce something so incredible. What would you do? Would you accept the difference between heaven and earth, a la prodigy and benchplayer? Would you retreat to the belief it is just luck or chance, that there are no masterpieces argument, or would deny it completely and ignore the difference and trudge onwards"
~YouTube, don't remember which video sorry. Quote is changed from orginal.
I have a really upsetting fic idea. ALSO TW for Suicide Attempt (but it's not actually a suicide but the Young Just Us and Batfam don't know that) sooooo, if you uhm don't feel up to checking on this, you can just ignore it!!!!!!!! Please!
After saving Bruce from the timestream, Tim is slowly becoming distant from the Batfamily. They notice, but no one had the courage (except Alfred because he's just awesome like that) to reach out, using having to deal with other things first as an excuse. Besides, Tim looked fine. He even said that he was hanging out with someone in his civilian life, and he looked hapoy about it.
Kon tries to reach out, even Bart tries to have a conversation with Tim. Cassie invites Tim on outings. Tim was... not behaving weirdly, but he was making death jokes more often. They thought it was Jason's influence. But the death jokes also become a bit more worrying, a bit more gorey. They tell him so, asking if he's doing okay, if he needs to talk to someone. Tim smiles at them and hugs them, telling them hoe thankful he was to have them and that he's never been happier. Of course, that causes alarm bells to ring in their minds.
Kon tries to tell Dick about this. He was brushed off. He tried to tell Steph. She said she'll check up on him regularly but also says that Tim was fine. Kon even tries to reach out to Jason. JASON! And HE seems to be the only one concerned! Jason says he'll talk to Tim, and talk to Alfred because Jason isn't as emotionally equipped for all this but he does want the Little Bird to be okay.
And then, one day, Kon hears Tim's heartbeat stop. He flies out of the Kents' house while sobbing, a small resignation in his chest but also denial because he knew, HE KNEW, that with how Tim was behaving, there was a chance that Tim might... Might...
He goes to Tim's Nest near Crime Alley, but he couldn't find him there. He goes to Tim's other safehouses, goes to high places, explores alleys, but he couldn't find Tim anywhere.
As long as there wasn't a body, Kon wasn't going to lose hope that Tim might be alive.
So, finally, he gives up, calls for Bart and Cassie for help, and then goes to the Wayne Manor to talk to Alfred. The old butler invited Kon in, and Kon began telling him everything thatvwas going on, his fears of Tim being dead, and his hope that Tim might still be alive. That maybe he was in some place where his super hearing couldn't hear through, or his supervision couldn't see.
Batman and Robin (Kon was a bit bitter for Tim), enters the kitchen, and Alfred relays everything Kon has told him.
No expression was on Damian's face, but Bruce absolutely crumples.
"He's not dead," said Bruce, clenching his fists and stomping away, probably to the batcave. "He couldn't be!"
But the Batcomputer couldn't track Tim's vitals.
But it did track where he had last been. Tim was at the top of Wayne Tower, standing at the very ledge. Bruce tried to look for video feeds. And when he found some, he began raging and cursing the security guards most likely sleeping on the job. Tim would never drug someone to his benefit. Lies and deception? Yes. And, he had always been sneaky.
Bruce played the video, and he could see and watch Tim... Talking? He was talking to himself, but the video feed was too grainy. Bruce knows that the security cameras were state of the art, always constantly upgraded to make sure he would get quality videos to look through. Did Tim know this? Why didn't the security guards report this?
But Bruce didn't have time to think of other things anymore, because Tim was falling.
"No..."
Tim didn't look scared, he looked excited for some reason, even through the grainy quality. He was laughing, he didn't have any gear on him, he was nearing the ground.
And the video feed cuts there, turning black. Alfred was in the background, walking up to Bruce's chair with a hand on his chest, having just finished a call with various batfamily members to check on the scene while he and Bruce and the young Kon watched Tim dive off the roof.
Bruce was searching for more feeds, but it was just the same. Oracle says that everything in WE during that time of Tim's fall turned off. But that's not what Bruce wanted to know. He couldn't bring his hands to see the next part after the blackout. He couldn't move his shaking hands to press play after the blackout.
"Bruce," Kon spoke softly. "I didn't see any blood around WE. This was minutes after I couldn't hear his heartbeat."
"B," Dick's voice echoed throughout the cave. "There's nothing here. I can't find Tim anywhere."
Where could Tim have gone?
a few months ago, days after returning from the time stream...
There was this interesting guy, you see. He was looking around with a Camera in his hand, taking pictures of Gotham's buildings/architecture.
Except, he was taking the pictures... Wrong. "How can you expect to take good pictures like that?" asked Tim, because he's an asshole like that.
The guy turns to him, raising a brow. Then, he chuckled holding the camera out. "How do you take them, then?"
Tim took the camera, made a grand show of how to position himself, how to adjust the lenses, and then took a picture of the man who might be a bit younger than him from how youthful he looked, which was accentuated from the orange sunset behind him shining like a halo behind his head, the gotham architectures looking like arches welcoming the man into the city, gargoyle statues paused in their roars, cars lined up in a solemn procession, and people faced towards Danny almost in an excited bow. Tim didn't know how he managed to capture such good timing for all this, but this has to be one of his best captures yet.
He hands the camera back proudly, and the man whistles appreciatively. "You're right, you do have the right to insult me, oh great photographer."
Tim blushes. "Can you send me a copy of that picture?" he asks instead of retorting. Then, he opens his wallet to bring out his business card, writing at the back with the pen he brought out to write one of his active emails (and phone number).
"I'm Tim, by the way," he said.
The man took the card, chuckling when he found Tim's initials for his last name. "Timothy Jackson D.W.?"
Tim shrugged. This man doesn't seem to know him, and he's not gonna change that.
"Well, D.W.," said the man, holding a hand out, "I'm Daniel William F."
Tim raised a brow. "Shall I call you First D.W.?"
"Please, call me Danny."
Tim smirked. "Only if you call me, Tim."
Danny smirked back. "Nah. Last D.W. kinda fits you."
"It's a mouthful, moreso than Timothy."
"It drives you crazy, I think it's worth it."
It all felt surreal. He was bantering easily with a... Well, he wasn't a stranger anymore. But, it felt nice.
More banters and conversations ended up with Tim inviting him for coffee, and then the two of them having a caffeine drinking contest (much to the horror of many staff and patrons), and then to Tim asking when Danny was free, landing another outing together, and they meet, and then there's another outing, and another, and another, and...
Tim had never felt so happy. So calm. So peaceful. Danny felt the same.
And then, Danny said, "I have a secret I want to share... I mean, since we're far away from what makes this dangerous, I just thought that I should come clean with you before I ask if we could... Y'know... Take this relationship to the next level?"
Tim trusts Danny. So, he readies himself to listen. And he listens to Danny's story.
He lives in a whole other dimension, where he fights ghosts on a daily basis as a ghost himself. That he came visiting other dimensions as a way to cope and escape his life in the other world sometimes. He has a family and friends, he's scared of his parents but he loves them, he went through various heartbreaks, but still managed to push through.
"If you want to run away, you can," he said.
But Tim hugs him, hugs him and kisses him. Danny kisses back.
"I love you," he said.
They kiss some more.
But you see...
When Danny said that he wanted to go bring Tim to meet his sister, Tim, in his sleep-deprived mind that makes the most horrible and dumbest choices known to man, blurted out that he wanted to sky dive from the roof of WE, and then fall into the portal and into Danny's bed. It sounded great, it sounded fun. Danny was all for it, as long as Danny is holding on to Tim while they fell. But keeping up invisibilIty while also trying to keep a portal open sucks so much power, so, Tim tells him not to bother with Tim. This was such a horrible idea, Danny made sure to keep up the ghostly interference with the cameras. He'll make sure to return Tim by morning, and he really cannot have people noticing Tim about to fall to his death.
Danny's aura lulls some people still within WE to sleep. And then, they jump.
The portal shuts all electricity off in WE, which awakens a whole bunch of people, but not fast enough to see a portal momentarily open and close.
Danny and Tim were laughing as they land on Danny's bed. It was still day time in Danny's world, so he and Tim naps for a little while.
Then, when Tim is more rested and more rational, they meet Jazz.
But it's when he's drinking coffee does Tim's eyes snap open.
"KON HAS SUPERHEARING!"
"Who?"
And that's how Danny found out Tim's secret identity.
[The portal caused WE to lose electricity because Danny was using a whole bunch of energy trying to keep Tim alive, trying to protect Tim from turning liminal, half-ghost, and whatever else could happen from being even slightly affected by the ghost zone]
Danny didn't have enough energy to return Tim, so now Tim was inwardly panicking what will happen once he returns.
But then, Dani suggests to just let Tim be liminal, that way Tim doesn't need to explain. He can just say that he couldn't remember, and his heartbeat won't even be telling them anything because it'll be slowed.
Tim could see the logic-not-logic of it. Except, he feels bad--nope, no he doesn't. The less people knows about other worlds, the better. Bruce just got back, Tim has added some stress towards him for being an idiot and doing that stunt, and he might as well just...
"Will it hurt?"
"Well, since you're being infected, it's like catching a stomach bug. So, you'll probably be miserably out of it for a week or two."
A day before Danny and Tim heads back, Tim gets the authentic experience of eating the Fenton's infected by ectoplasm food. Usually, you'd avoid it. But, well, Tim needed to do this no matter hoe much Danny says that he literally didn't need to do that, oh ancients, babe.
But, Danny's friends are liminal, Jazz is liminal, the Fenton parents are liminal eithout even knowing it.
Tim wants this.
And Tim eats.
It's only when Danny has laid Tim in his bed does Tim finally starts feeling the effects. His body starts sweating, and his head starts feeling foggy. His stomach wasn't aching, but it felt really numb.
Danny, invisible, shushes quietly into Tim's ear. And then disappears when Tim's door opens.
"TIM! Oh god, ALFRED! TIM'S HERE!"
Bruce? Why does Bruce sound like that?
They bring Tim into the medbay, taking blood samples to check if he's really Tim.
And he is.
But then they see something in his blood.
"It's... similar to the Lazarus..."
Tim will take the knowledge about this to his grave... Afterlife... When he fades...
Because Jason will definitely kill him for being stupid. Tim was feeling stupid.
And he was crying.
"It's okay, Tim..."
He doesn't deserve that kind voice. Tim feels like a fake. He shouldn't have done that. He shouldn't have.
Because he's only going to get worse from here. Jason and Damian would be able to tell how Tim's body was dying, or better yet, getting closer with death.
But Tim won't be dying once the transition is done.
He'll be liminal. He'll be in the middle.
And he was so stupid about it, and none of his family members will know about it and--
"You don't have to tell them about my world, Tim," said Danny. "I'll tell them that I had you swallow some of this... Lazarus water or whatever."
"I did it willingly," whispered Tim, knowing that Damian could hear him either way, evem if he couldn't hear Danny. "I willingly ate it. It's not your fault. Let me own up to it..."
Damian thinks Tim was talking to him.
He relays the message to the others.
Aaaaaaand I'm now out of ideas of what else could happen. I just wanted some Tim Drake whump-not-whump. What Tim did was not cool, not his best ideas, and was probably out of character, and if someone could do this better (more heartwrenching and angsty), PLEASE. DO IT. I just want the Batfam and Tim to suffer.
I-
Anon this is a masterpiece holy shit. Like truly and genuinely this is incredible.
I can’t add anything onto this cause I know if I start writing I simply won’t stop and my carpal tunnel will not vibe with that.
If anyone else wants to add onto this I beg of you to do so because the angst potential is just so positively delicious.
I feel so successful after being able to play the beginning part of black parade on piano
formula for success
part luck + part privilege + part hard work + part talent
Luck and talent cannot be controlled
Privilege can be influenced or bought
That's why we focus on hard work
But if we don't succeed, it's not always because we didn't work hard enough
And actually it's almost always luck
Be a good person.
“Nobody can change who you are, except for you.”
— Jean Kwok, Girl in Translation
NEDEN KENDİMİZE İYİ DAVRANMALIYIZ?
Öncelikle bu hayata neden geldiğinizi sorgulayın;üzülmek için mi?Boş boş oturmak için mi?HAYIR!Zihniniz çok güçlü,isterseniz ALIRSINIZ.Bu bu kadar basit. Birşeyleri imkansız yapmaktan artık vazgeçin. Bir sınavda birinci olmak veya herkesi kendine çekmek imkansız mı?HAYIR!Bunları başaran kişiler de aynı senin gibi insandı. Aynı beyin,aynı vücut anatomisi aynı dersler... Farklı olan zihinlerdir! Zihnini her daim güçlü tut,vazgeçeceksen en baştan kaybedeceksin demektir. Bu dünyaya isteklerini yerine getirip yaşamaya gelmediysen yaşamanın ne anlamı var? Bir ölüden farksız olursun! Madem hayatını özgürce yaşamıyorsun o zaman ne için geldin sen bu dünyaya? Mutluluğu haketmediğini mi düşünüyorsun?HAKEDİYORSUN. Sen her şeyin en iyisini hakediyorsun. En yakınına kötü davranıp umursamıyormuş gibi düşün,sen en yakınına böyle davranmak istemezsin di mi? O zaman kendine de öyle davranma! Er geç herkes ama herkes gidecek. Bir tek sen kalacaksın kendin için,tüm ÖMRÜN boyunca senin yoldaşın olacak kendine iyi davranmamak da neyin nesi? En başında anlayışlı olun. Kötü bir ilişki mi geçirdin? Birden ağzından küfür mü kaçtı? Tembellik mi yaptın? Anlayışla karşıla! Basit bir insan olduğunu unutma,kendini üzmek seni hiç bir yere götürmez. Her daim sabrını ve motivasyonunu yüksek tut. Hatalarını anlayışla karşıla. En çok da 'DÜŞMANLARINDAN' cesaret ve motivasyon al. En çok da başarılı olanları kendine rakip seç. 'ARKADAŞ'ların seni pohpohlamaktan başka bir yararı dokunmaz,anca yerinde sayarsın! Asıl rakipler seni bu hayata bağlar ve hırslandırır. Fakat asla ama asla kendini onlara ezdirme. Kendini yetersiz hissederek somurtmanın sana nasıl bir faydası olabilir?? Kendine inanırsan yapabileceğini düşünürsen deneme cesaretinde bulunursun. Kendine inanmazsan otomatik olarak 'ben zaten yapamam der' denemezsin bile! Başkalarının kalıplarına uymak zorunda değilsin,en önemlisi senin kendi düşüncelerin. Sahte davranarak bir yere varamazsın,gerçek cevher senin içinde ve başkalarının yetenekleriyle hiç bir yere gidemeyeceğini sen de biliyorsun! Sen bu dünyaya BAŞARMAK için geldin. İsteklerini gerçekleştirmek için daima büyük bir motivasyonun olsun,çünkü sen buna değersin. Anlayış ve adalete daima önem ver! Çünkü tam tersi davranmak kötü enerjiye sebep olacaktır,başkalarına karşı anlayışsız ve kötü davranırken kendine iyi olmayı mı umuyorsun? HAYIR çünkü sen de bir insansın ve mutlaka sen de bir gün o hatalardan birini YAPARSIN. Tembel olan insanlara iğreltiyle bakarsın,bir bakmışsın sen de onlardan biri olmuşsun. Bu hayatta hatalar da yapabilirsin,bu hatalar olmadan hayat çok bomboş olmaz mıydı? Kendi hayatınız kendi kararlarınıza ev sahipliği yapmalıdır. Herkesin kendi hayatı var,BİR ZAHMET onlar da kendi hayatlarına odaklansın. Bu dünya bir aptalın sözünü umursamak için fazla büyük,UNUTMA iyi şeyleri hakediyorsun♡︎♡︎
HOW I SHIFTED FOR THE FIRST TIME
I'm gonna keep this short and sweet. For some context, no, this isn't literally my first time shifting (we shift all the time, remember?) as I've shifted to countless parallel realities and a couple random realities. However, this was the first time I shifted to a reality where it was supposedly fictional (MHA).
So, what did I do?
This. Exactly what I'm doing right now.
You see, every time I was going to bed or idle with my thoughts (doing chores, walking, etc), I would imagine myself writing a success story or telling a friend (luv you @vixilic) about my successful shift. I'd think about how I'd decorate it, how I'd word my sentences, the feeling I'd get from it, things like that. In the time between my last post and now, I had managed to shift by (mainly) doing that.
Before you say, "Isn't that similar to the xyz method/a combination of abc and qrs?" Congratulations! You know so much that you can actually see the different aspects of Loa/shifting being applied. I'm not gonna pretend like I invented this approach, but it is what worked for me (and perhaps for you too).
So, for those who want a coherent, step by step guide on how to do this, look below:
1. Pick a reference Pick something that you're going to base your visualisation off of. Are you going to tell a shifting friend? Your favourite blog? What about writing your own post? Don't stress, you can use more than one
2. Do the damn visualisation Everyday, imagine what it'd be like to tell your success story. What did you do during the day? How were the people in that reality like? How did it feel? Were you nervous, excited, scared? Do this when you wake up and when you're going to sleep. Bonus points for doing this at other times too.
3. Relax This doesn't have to be an instantaneous method and you may not see "results" right away. The whole reason I started doing this in the first place is because I'm pretty busy with school currently and I wanted to do something related to shifting which I didn't have to think about much. Hell, that shift happened on a night where I had no plans, I didn't "try", I just wanted to sleep 😭
Tips:
- this can be compounded with other methods if you wish: subliminals, robotic affirmations, sats, etc - don't stress if your visualisation isn't perfect, feeling is much more key here - on that note, don't try and force a "feeling" either. maybe you're overthinking it or just not in the mood, you don't have to literally feel it - go with the flow and personalise this to yourself. this is a Tumblr post, not a military boot camp - this can be applied to more than just shifting, too
Special thanks to the following creators who really helped me get out of a shifting slump recently: @scentedpeachlandcreator @hrrtshape @h1biscusgal (and @premiumbitch too but they deactivated 💔)
Moot tag don't mind me: @jealousmartini @livingmydreamlife5555 @xstrawberryshiftsx @vixilic @luckykiwiii101 @multiversal-wanderings @reiashiftsrealities @livingsecret @astrstqr @zomb13pup @zipper-is-ranting @theshifterbride @kimasoft
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✮ Success story ✮
Okay, I'll tell you how I've been passing all the exams since the school year started. First I want to clarify that before, I was the typical girl who always failed, never went to class, I had been expelled and I even repeated the year twice. .. but I decided that this had to stop, so they took the first exams and I was a little stressed but then I thought 'what am I doing stressing about this? I know I will pass, I don't need to study 2 hours every day, much less stress myself.' With this confidence, I took the exam and, obviously, I passed with what I consider a good grade (8/10). Now, I always do the same thing—I already know I'll pass, I already know I'll get good grades. Even the teachers tell me that I don't seem like someone who has repeated a year. So don't stress, don't give up; everything you imagine already exists.
How big would you dream if you knew you couldn't fail?
The only thing that's stopping you from achieving your dreams is you.
Remember, NOTHING is impossible.
Take one step at the right direction and you're already halfway there in achieving your dreams.
Change your mind and see yourself changing your reality.
🤍
Some of you didn't grow up with Jamie and Adam telling you failure is always an option and that is okay, you just gotta approach the problem differently. Or if you did, you didn't internalize that message. (Also Meet the Robinson's anyone? From failure you learn!)
Seriously! So what if your first attempt fails? Try again! Do something different! Sometimes solutions aren't always clear and we have to be creative! It is okay to fail! Its okay to even walk away from the problem entirely and try something completely new! Just don't let that failure bog you down and fester.
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Breaking Free from Self-Sabotage: Embracing a Limitless Career Path
In our journey through life, we often carry the weight of past failures, limited beliefs, and unintentional boundaries that hinder our potential for growth and success. These self-imposed limitations can be particularly damaging when it comes to our careers, as they prevent us from reaching our true potential and fulfilling our dreams. However, by recognizing and challenging these self-sabotaging patterns, we can embark on a transformative journey towards a limitless career. In this blog, we will explore the power of mindset, overcoming limiting beliefs, and embracing the untapped potential within ourselves.
The Power of Mindset:
Our thoughts and beliefs have a profound impact on our actions and outcomes. If we constantly doubt our abilities and label ourselves as failures, we inadvertently sabotage our chances of success. Embracing a growth mindset, characterized by a belief in our ability to learn, adapt, and overcome challenges, is crucial in breaking free from self-sabotage. By challenging negative thoughts and replacing them with positive affirmations, we can shift our perspective and open doors to new opportunities.
Unmasking Limiting Beliefs:
Often, our self-sabotage stems from deeply ingrained limiting beliefs. These beliefs may have been instilled in us by external factors such as societal expectations, upbringing, or past experiences. It's important to identify and question these beliefs, asking ourselves whether they are truly valid or merely self-imposed barriers. By challenging these limiting beliefs, we can redefine our capabilities and unlock the potential we once thought was unattainable.
Embracing Failure as a Stepping Stone:
Failure is an inevitable part of life, but it should never define us or hinder our progress. Instead of allowing past failures to paralyze us, we must view them as valuable learning experiences that contribute to our personal and professional growth. By reframing failure as a stepping stone towards success, we can break free from the cycle of self-sabotage and embrace a mindset of resilience and perseverance.
Cultivating Self-Compassion:
Self-sabotage often thrives in an environment of self-criticism and harsh judgment. To counteract this destructive pattern, it is essential to cultivate self-compassion. Treat yourself with kindness, understanding that everyone has setbacks and struggles. By practicing self-compassion, you create a nurturing space for growth, allowing yourself to forgive past mistakes and move forward with renewed motivation and determination.
Setting Goals and Taking Action:
Breaking free from self-sabotage requires proactive steps towards self-improvement. Set realistic and achievable goals that align with your passions and aspirations. Break these goals down into actionable steps, focusing on consistent progress rather than immediate perfection. By taking decisive action, you empower yourself to transcend the boundaries of self-sabotage and forge a path towards a fulfilling and successful career.
Let me leave this right here...
Embracing a limitless career begins with freeing ourselves from the shackles of self-sabotage. By challenging limited beliefs, adopting a growth mindset, embracing failure as a stepping stone, cultivating self-compassion, and taking action towards our goals, we can break free from the chains that hold us back. Remember, your past does not define your future. Seize the opportunity to create the career you deserve, one that surpasses all limitations and flourishes in the realm of endless possibilities.
Mel xoxo
By constant efforts, practice and patience, you can achieve anything that you want... ANYTHING!
Big dreams seem to be impossible untill we start working for them.
Always remember:
It is gonna be difficult on day one...even more difficult for the next few days...but slowly it becomes a part of our routine. No extra push or effort is required then❤️
So, even if you are starting today, smile...be proud of yourself❤️❤️
Keep grinding 🍁
Day 36
March 26th 2021
Things are getting harder🤯🤯
There are so many things that I missed studying last year...
But it's okay...cuz my teacher says, "If everything seems to be smooth, you are not on the right path."
"Jo aakhiri tak tik jaega woh jeet jaega"
(The one who will keep going till the end will win)
So🙌🙌 Let's be happy if we are facing problems and not giving up on them ❤️
Day 24
March 14th 2021
Fail: First attempt in learning...Really?
We all are very enthusiastic when we begin...but towards the end all kinds of negative emotions and self doubt surround us. People say that you should believe in yourself...but hey! Is it that easy? Especially after having lost the game once? It's very easy to say that failures is first attempt in learning, but let me tell you failure sucks. Failure takes your self-confidence. Failure makes you feel smaller... It feels as if you've lost your own self.
Let's work on it and prove it, not to the world but ourselves, that we are no less.
❤️❤️
