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Before my new schoolyear starts I want to write a guide on how I am going to keep up with all my subjects. I will also include my study habits for this year, since they make sure I have the time and mindset in order to properly study.
๐ชท I prelearn for every subject (except old Greek and Latin). That means I study the concepts before class, so I can use class for revision and ask all my questions.
๐ชท Make a week overview of what needs to be done, then decide every morning what schoolwork to focus on. This way it's easier to adjust to unexpected plans.
๐ชท When summarizing, I make sure I understand everything that I write down. If I don't, I will search for more information until I can explain it in my own words!
๐ชท Nothing gets me in the mood to study, like making tea. I will make herbal tea or a matcha latte while grabbing everything I need to study after school.
๐ชท The last few years I haven't studied a lot of words, to make up for it, I want to pay a little bit of extra attention to studying words. If I know more words, translating will go way easier since I won't have to search up every word in the dictionary. On school days and Sundays, I will study words for 10 minutes a day for either old Greek or Latin. I will study the words using Studygo (huge recommendation for other Dutch folks).
๐ชท Another thing I lack with both subjects is my knowledge about grammar. And this is a HUGE problem while doing homework, translating texts and for finishing tests on time. I know how to use grammar, but I don't know most of it by heart. So I will study grammar for 10 minutes a day for both subjects on schooldays and Sundays until I've caught up. From then on, I will only occasionally memorize grammar. Studying grammar consists of literary saying it aloud like some song or poem until I know it well enough and then writing it down way too many times.
๐ชท I also want to practise translating more. Since this is the most important skill for both subjects and I haven't done most of my work for the past years, I will make up for it by practising easier texts. Every Sunday, I will translate an extra paragraph for each subject that I will let my teachers correct the following Monday. I will do this until I am satisfied with my translating abilities.
๐ชท This year I want to make all my homework for old Greek and Latin. Past years I skipped most of the work, and now I notice that I need more practise. I will study a few days before a test, but nothing more.
๐ชท I love maths (controversial opinion, I know). But I believe that when you understand maths, you will love it! But how do you understand it? You should memorize the basics. When you study about a specific topic, watch or read an explanation and make notes. Make sure to make space in the notes for the basics, like concepts you've already learned that has a connection with your new topic. In order to make sure I know how to properly use the topic, I will solve or write down the solution of a practise question next to an explanation as to who I took that step. If I were to get really lost later on, I can follow these steps, but with the new question. Then the most important thing: Practise a lot! Even if it's hard at first. The more problems you solve, the more problems you get. You don't want to waste time when you don't know what to do. So read the question and start thinking what you need to do to solve it. If you genuinely don't have an any idea, look at the solution. But, you won't just look at the solution, you will study it, you look at the steps they take and ask yourself with every step why they took that specific step. When you are done studying the answer, make the question again. I personally write down the questions I struggled with most, to practise them again for my exam!
๐ชท Physics is my favourite and one of my best subjects. I always start out with summarizing the concepts in my own words. The biggest problem I have with physics is understanding all the concepts that I can use them together. To make sure I get everything, I summarize. The parts I do not understand, I will watch a video about. Then I start with making exercises, I will look through the exercises and make at least one about every concept. I will make more about the concepts that didn't go well, until I get them right. To prepare for tests, I read through my summary and make lots of practise questions. I will revise everything that didn't go well and remake the questions that went wrong.
๐ชท When studying chemistry, I mainly try to focus on practise. I would start out with reading the learning outcomes and then actively the entire text. I mark thing I find important, write the questions down that come to mind when reading, and connect information. Then I make a small summary in the format of a mind map. I write down only the most important concepts. Then I start making a lot of exercises about the concept, until I can do them comfortably and without mistakes. Afterwards, I make flashcards using the learning outcomes. By doing this afterwards I make sure I know the best way to answer, and with chemistry lots of question come up while doing the work. When studying for a test, I use the flashcards and remaking the questions I struggled most with.
๐ชท This year I'm preparing for my Dutch finals. To work on my skill, I mainly have to make past finals. I really want to make a summary about all the concepts that come back on the finals. But other that, we mainly have exercises that I can't prepare in advance for. I do really want to expand my vocabulary, because it makes me feel fancy. I should start reading the news more, that way I will also be more informed about the world.
๐ชท This year I am taking a Cambridge English exam. My goal is to score a C-Level (advanced). In order to do this I must work on my grammar, vocabulary, writings and listening. I will tackle each property with a guide on how to get better at them.
๐ชท My grammar is pretty good, my only problem. I don't know the actual rules. When writing, having a grammatical correct structure kind of happens on its own. Most of the time, that's very helpful, but when I have to point out mistakes in high quality or older texts, I can't. In order to work on this, I would recommend using an actual book. The one I'm starting out with this year is "Advanced Grammar in Use with Answers' from Martin Hewings. I will work through it by reading the theory, using it on my own, and then making the exercises in the book.
๐ชท To expand my vocabulary I will write down new words I see when interacting with English content and books and study them. The goal is to learn 30 words a week. I will add all the words to an anki list, so that I can keep practising older words.
๐ชท During the proficiency exam it's expected from you that you are able to write formal letters, essays, reports and reviews. To practise, I will write one of these a week and ask my teacher for feedback. I will also use the writing site from Cambridge, where they I've you a writing a prompt, and you can submit your text and let them corrected by professionals. For people who are not able to ask their teacher for help, I would recommend using ChatGPT. Although this is not ideal, it will still help you improve.
๐ชท By listening to a daily podcast in English, I will practise my listening skills. It's very important to practise your English listening skills without visual guidance. Of course watching movies will help you improve, but if you want to improve in the shortest amount of time, you need to listen to audios.
๐ชท I personally find history one of the easiest subjects to study. I study history by chapter and not by paragraph. I always read through the entire chapter and then make a timeline with all the information. So I will include all the concepts, names and everything else in my timeline. Then I will study it by talking through it like I am teaching someone. Every time I miss something while explaining, I will memorize it again. I write down all the most important concepts down a few times, so I will remember how they are spelled and don't make any mistakes on my test! I don't make many exercises since they don't really help me that much. But if I have the time and energy, I make a few of the questions that were asked on previous finals.
๐ชท Biology is a very information heavy subject, and I find that it's pretty easy to get lost in all the concepts. I have a pretty strict guide for myself, so I can study biology in the least amount of time. I will start out by reading the learning outcomes for the paragraph, so I know what the most important things are. Then I start actively reading through the paragraph. I mark thing I find important, write the questions down that come to mind when reading, and connect information. Afterwards, I will summarize everything in a mind map. Not just one mind map for every chapter, but one for every group of concepts that fit together well. These mind maps are very big and have all the relevant information, that's why you should minimize the amount of topics on a mind map, because otherwise it won't fit. Then I make the most important exercises and start studying the summaries by pretending that I'm giving a presentation about them, everything that I forget to mention I will memorize again. The day before the test, I will write down the explanation of all the learning outcomes from memory and correct them. Lastly, l review all the concepts that I lacked in.
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Hello beautiful humans, I wanted to share my morning and evening routine with you guys. I hope that it will inspire and motivate you! ๐ The times I wrote down are not an accurate, but more of an estimate that will differ depending on the day. My wake up and sleep time are goals for me at the moment. I want to get back into a good sleep rhythm before starting school (in less than a week).
6.35 Wake up and drink a glass of water.
6.40 Do either some calming yoga or meditate.
7.00 Make my bed.
7.10 Put on my my outfit.
7.15 Brushing my teeth, doing skincare and hair.
7.40 Journaling.
7.45 Check agenda, make to do list and planning.
7.55 Make breakfast and eat.
8.15 Go to school.
For this plan I took maximum time for everything. Because of this I will often be ready way before 8.15. During the remaining time on school days I will study, this can either be for school or for my own hobbies <3
20.30 Clean my room.
20.40 Pack bag for tomorrow (if needed).
20.45 Pick out clothes for tomorrow.
20.55 Make a 'my day' post and journal.
21.10 Brush my teeth, do skincare and put my hair in a protective hairstyle.
21.20 (Optional) Meditate or some calming yoga.
21.40 (Optional) Read.
There is no clear time to be in bed in my evening routine. I have some very bed sleeping problems that I'm trying to get rid of by using some good routines, the goal is to get sleepy enough to go to sleep between 21.30 and 22.00. My intention is to start trying to sleep at 22.00 even if i don't feel sleepy. Since I'm still trying to get into a rhythm and don't know my ideal sleep time, my bed time may change.
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~ Pearl ๐
I've been active in the self-care community for a little bit and read lots of books about lifestyle. There is already a lot of lovely advice on this app, but there are some important aspects I haven't seen and some aspects I don't think are as important. I hope this helps some people to accomplish their dream lifestyle! ย But in all honesty, I do mainly write this as a list and reminder for myself. This is going to take quite some time to read, but I promise you, it will be worth it.ย
Before you read everything, I want to remind you that this is a long list of healthy habits. That does not mean you need to follow everything to be "that" version of ourselves, we need to be realistic. It's kind of like vegetables. Vegetables are healthy, and you should eat them, but you don't need to eat all the vegetables that exist in order to be healthy. You eat the vegetables that you like and align with your lifestyle. So follow the tips that you like and align with your lifestyle!ย
This is one of the most important parts of a healthy lifestyle. I have a lot to say here and on most other parts of this post so if you want to know more, just let me know!
๐ญBecause I am mindset - this is one of the most important things you need to learn! If you want to feel loved, good enough, pretty (Or all because that is what you deserve) or anything else, the only thing you need to do is change the way you think.ย
For a moment, I want you to think and answer this question to me: "Why are you good enough?" If you answered with your accomplishments, looks or anything that is not "Because I am me, and I am good enough." you are wrong. This may sound weird because in the self-care community we are taught that in order to be successful we need to have things like a morning routine, a bedtime and always need to take care of ourselves. While these are things that can improve your life, they do not make you any more deserving of love and care. If you let your happiness depend on anything but the fact that you are here and that you deserve it, you will always be unhappy. Even if you don't feel it now, the moment you feel overwhelmed and are unable to make up to your reasoning on why you are good enough, you feel depressed and undeserving. So the moment you don't do your task, you feel like you are incapable and not good enough. All because we base our self-worth on our actions instead of ourselves. You are putting yourself through so much unnecessary stress when doing that. You deserve better than that.
Let me repeat it out loud for you: "I am not doing my morning routine, am I still good enough?" YES, because you are you, and you are good enough.ย
๐ญ Stop procrasiating - This is a hard one for me, since it is something I still struggle with to this day. But it is sososo important. You probably already know what you need to do to improve your life. Of course, you don't know everything, but you don't need to. A lot of things will come in your way when you are actually doing it, and you can't try out everything at once. But when you think about it, you find it easier to procrastinate than to actually do things. There can be so many reasons for that.
Stop watching so much content on YouTube and Tumblr on self-improvement if you are not going to do anything with it! This is a very easy way to procrastinate. Because you convince yourself that you are being productive, because everytime you watch content with new good advice you get an ephifhany. You are not going to do anything with the information, go watch a Netflix show, you will probably enjoy that more. You already know what to do, so go and do it, keep interacting with content that inspires you and learns you new things about self-care to try out, but don't use it as an excuse.
Let me tell you these very harsh words: If you're not going to start doing it in the next 24 hours, it's better to give up on it now. You don't have to do everything in those 24 hours, but set the first few steps. If you really want it, you should start acting like it.ย There is no perfect time to start, the only time you need is time to practise and exerience it!
๐ญ Be gratefull - We are so blessed. Even when going through hard times, there is still a lot of beauty to life. When looking at the news nowadays, it's very easy to get caught up in an overwhelming feeling of sadness or pain. Or with social media, it can be hard to see our own beauty when we see this overidealized picture of a model.
There is a last very important reason why you should practise gratefulness. And it's selective observation. We as humans think, see, feel, hear and smell a lot. Way too much for our brain to properly comprehend. Because of this, our brain will focus on certain things. These things may differ for everyone. But what we interact with a lot, we get used to. So, by interacting with positive thoughts and by appreciating ourselves and the world around us, we will notice these positive and pretty things.ย
There are 2 ways I bring positivity and gratefulness into my life. The first one is one you've probably heard alot about: Writing down 3 positive things at the end of the day. I do this but also add a morning exercise, where I specifically write down 3 positive things about myself or my opportunities! The second thing I recently started doing is being aware of your surroundings. I got inspiration from a drawing on tumblr I found not so long ago. Instead of going on my phone when I need to wait for a while or putting on music when cycling to school, I sometimes just try to look around me and appreciate everything I see. When I do this, I ย call out my appreciation in my head. I look around and think "Wow, the way that bird looks is just so magical; it looks happy and at peace." or even "The color of that mailbox suits the house so much." It helps me appreciate the little things.
๐ญ Protect your energy -
In the end, we are the ones responsible for our own wellbeing. Of course, we can partly depend on others, like our friends, family, our partner or even a stranger. But just as your priority is your own happiness, theirs should be their happiness too. That does not mean you can do what you want whenever you want without caring about other people. But by this I am implying that you should stop pleasing people and listen to what you want. Of course, you want to avoid toxic people and situations in general. But when you do get in touch with them, you can lay responsibility to them and wait for them to change or take responsibility by making your problem clear and distancing yourself from them and the situation if needed.ย
Another way of protecting your energy i by being in tune with your emotions. Allow yourself to feel your emotions fully, write them down if needed, talk to people if needed, scream them out if needed, but always give them the space they need. Also learn when to take a step back so that you don't hurt others while feeling an overwhelming number of emotions.ย
Take enough time for self-care. I would recommend making time for it in your routine. But also do it when you need it or feel like it. This is the only body and soul you've got, so you had better take care of it. Do this by eating things that fuel your body and that you like, drinking herbal teas, taking a bath and meditating (more o that later). It can be anything as long as it relaxes the body and mind. Personally, I like to keep 1 day a week to myself in which I fully focus on the needs of my mind and soul.
๐ญ Curiousity made the cat wiser - Curiosity should always be cherished. Curiosity is what makes us human, curiosity is what gives us the power to wake up and see what the day has got in store for us, curiosity is what keeps us busy and entertained. One of my favorite quotes on curiosity is from Plutarch: "The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled." It beautifully explains how knowledge feeds our brain and keeps us alive and warm while we should also take care of it.
You should always strive to learn new things every day. It feeds our brain, so that it can function properly. Not only that, ir keeps us entertained. Some things that I'm studying in my free time are:languages (German, Korean and a little bit of Italian). I started learning how to program and i just generally read a lot.
๐ญ Workout - There are a lot of benefits to exercise. A few of my favorites are:ย
They make you happy (exercising stimulates the brain to release serotonin, this is known as the feel good hormone. It uplifts and stabilizes your mood but is also important for social behavior, memory, learning and appetite.)
It can help control weight (Because exercise can burn fat or help you gain muscle, it can either help you lose or gain weight.)
Getting enough weekly exercise prevents a lot of diseases (like strokes, metabolic syndrome, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, depression, anxiety, many types of cancer and arthritis.)
It improves your daily energy levels (It boosts your endurance and improves your lung and heart health so that you have more energy throughout your day.)
It can improve your sleep (When you exercise your body releases endorphins. Studies have shown that these endorphins prevent sleep problems and limit sleep quality disturbances. They reduce sleepiness during the day so that you are more sleepy at night.)
Now we need to find out how much exercise you need. I would recommend getting at least 30 minutes of exercise a day (except for your rest days). But this might be different based on your goals, the intensity of the sport, how many times a week you exercise, age and disabilities. So do your research! Get at least 1 day rest a week, but getting 2/3 would also work depending on your schedule. You don't have to go to the gym! You can do home workouts (HIIT, yoga, pilates, muscle, just search it up on YouTube), go for a run outside, join a sports club (like tennis, hockey, football or dance).ย
๐ญ Sitting - Maybe you've already heard about it. But sitting is the new smoking. It is one of the biggest health problems nowadays and responsible for way more deaths than you probably think.ย
Sitting for a long period of time can be very harmful. The average person in the UK sits for about 70 hours a week with only 2 hours of exercise. Comparing that to 20 years ago, we sat (on average) 3 more hours a day. Research states that prolonged periods of sitting have been linked to cancer, Alzheimer's disease, obesity, heart disease, poor cholesterol profiles, type-2 diabetes and asteoporosis. Sitting too much in a non-active posture without movement also comes with the risks of weakening our muscles and thinning our bones, reducing digestive health and depressive symptoms.
After hearing all those negative consequences, I am so happy to share that these are easily preventable. By taking short breaks while sitting for a long period of time, you allow your blood to fully circulate, and it can already heavily impact your consequences. An easy way to do this is to put a glass next to you while studying/ working, so that you have to take a short walk to fill the glass up again. I would not recommend doing this if you know it will make you avoid drinking water or if you are at a library. Another important way to prevent the harm that comes from sitting is having 30 minutes of physical exercise daily. Try to go on a daily walk and do stretch and yoga exercises or any sport of your choice. The best thing about this one is that if you don' t reach your goal one day, you could catch up later in the week. As long as you get 3 hours and 30 minutes of physical exercise a week, you are good. If this is to much for you, you could also try 20 minutes daily, but I would recommend 30. Last but not least, try to better your posture while sitting. Make sure your spine follows it's natural curve and when possible try to sit in an "active sitting pose". Please invest in good chairs, so that when you sit, the consequences are still minimal.ย
Little reminder that you should not be scared of sitting. Sitting is not a problem, even when you do it a lot. But sitting for long periods of time without an active lifestyle and/ or having breaks in between the periods of sitting is very harmful.
๐ญ Food - At the moment, I am working on a post where I will talk about having a healthy diet. In that post I will talk more about eating specifically for your needs. And with that I will only share some basic tips on here that (in my eyes) are a necessity for everyone.ย
The most important tip I can give anyone in terms of eating is focusing on a healthy microbioe (a more detailed post will be coming on this). The microbiom is the fingerprint of our gut system. Our microbiom is in direct contact with your brain. Having a healthy microbiom has an influence on your skin, health, feelings, stress, mental illness and lots of other things. Because of this, it got the nickname "Second brain". ย The basics of having a healthy microbiom is eating enough fiber. For the average woman, the minimum is 30g a day and for the average man, 40g. Again, this is the bare minimum to keep our microbiom alive. The second one is eating a wide variety of plants: species, vegetables, fruit, beans, herbs, everything that comes from a plant. It is recommended to eat at least 30 different types of plants a week to make sure your microbiom is healthy. The last tip is fermented foods. These are the best treats for a healthy gut. It is good to mention that your microbiom does not need fermented foods to survive, but your gut will love you if you try to eat them more.
Try not to eat too much sugar. Eating more than the recommended amount may cause weight gain, acne and increased chances of heart disease, cancer and getting depression. The average woman should not consume more than 25 grams a day and the average man 36 grams a day. Please do not live by this principle. If you eat 40 grams of sugar one day, it will not kill you, and it won't make you any less perfect or disciplined. But try to swap out a big handful of candy, for a few pieces of candy with some veggies, fruit and nuts on the side. I personally prefer snacking on fruits and vegetables because my body feels better after eating them and I find them more tasty. You can pair vegetables with some humus or a yogurt and herb dip.ย
Don't over or under eat. The easiest way to start with this is to eat fulfilling meals. Eat meals that keep you full by eating veggies, fiber and protein. Eat at least 3 meals a day and maybe a few small snacks.(I personally eat 1 or 2 depending on the day). If you have trouble with overeating, you could try asking yourself the question "Why am I eating this?" If the reason is not because you are hungry, you need to try and let it go. Sometimes you are allowed to listen to your craving, especially if you have learned to keep a balance with it. But if the foods are very rich in sugars or fat, I would use the method stated above and try adding things to balance the meal out and that fuels your body enough to not want to snack more. If you tend to under-eat, I would recommend eating a lot of small portions throughout the day. Although I would normally recommend 3 filling meals a day, I would change that to about 6 smaller balanced meals. Even though these are smaller meals, please try to get your daily nutrients. They are what keep you running. So try to make sure that most meals involve fiber, veggies or fruit, a bit of protein, carbohydrates and fats.
๐ญ Skincare - I am not going to say too much about skincare because it is clearly not my strong suit, since I still struggle with acne a LOT. But i recently found out my pores get clogged very easily and a lot (once again it will suprise you) of skincare products have pore clogging ingredients. i use this tool to check on pore clogging ingredients and with the help of that have now created a new skincare routine. I have been using it for less than a week, but I think my skin has already improved a lot (but i could also be delusional). If I find out th methods and research I've done is working now, I will tell you more about it. Until then there are a few tips I would recommend.. Invest in sunscreen. It will help against hyperpigmentation and will minimize signs of aging in the long term. Don't make your routine too complicated. Try to find a simple cleanser, moisturizer and sunscreen. You don't need much more because your skin can do most of the hydration and cleaning itself. If you have skin issues, I would recommend trying 1 toner or serum with an ingredient (do your research) against that. Most of the time, you won't need more. If you do, you can always add from there.ย
If you have any skin issues that won't go away after all that you can talk to your GP, and they could prescribe you something. This is what I am considering, if what I am trying now won't work.
๐ญ Haircare - The most important information I will give to you is to find out your hair type. Once you've gained this knowledge, you can search for products that match your hair type. Once again, if you want a more elaborate guide on how to find out your hair type and what products will work for you, let me know!I would also really recommend using hair oil! You can either use a single oil, buy a premixed one or mix a few yourself. Different oils also serve different purposes. The most popular ones are:
Coconut oil - For repairing damaged hair.
Avocado oil - For shinier hair.
Rosemary oil - For hair growth.
Tea Tree Oil: For treating dandruff.ย
I heat the oil up by putting a small bowl with the oil I will use in a bigger bowl with hot water.I put the oil on my scalp a few hours before showering and massage it in for at least 5 minutes. I would strongly recommend watching a Indian tutorial, because I stole all my methods from them. Try to invest in a microfiber towel to dry your hair. A normal towel can damage your hair and makes it less soft (in my experience). The last general tip I have is to wear a protective hairstyle to bed. Either braid it or put it up in a bun. This way, you will wake up with way better hair. An alternative to this is using a silk bonnet. That will keep your hair so soft and pretty.ย
๐ญ Fashion - I feel my best and most comfortable when I feel pretty. In order to accomplish the style you want and look pretty, you can follow these 4 steps:ย
Clean out your closet. Sell or donate clothes that you don't like or wear. While doing this, try to look for reasons why you don't like that piece of clothing. That way, you learn to understand your preferences better.ย
Learn about your body type and what looks good on you. Of course, you don' t have to limit yourself to only wearing the things recommended, but it is a very easy guideline to help your outfits feel more balanced. While keeping this in mind, you can start playing around with fitting and find combinations that also look good on you, but it is important to understand what differentย sleeve types and lengts do to your proportions so that it's easier to adjust an outfit to your preference.
Make a pinterest board! Make a pinterest board dedicated to style and make sure to add at least 30 pins. Then you can look for similarities between the pictures you've saved. Please for the love of god, don't follow fast fashion brands. Of course, it's good to get inspired by trends, but it's so incredibly wasteful to buy and trow away clothing time and time again and its also not good for your wallet.ย
The last step is to make a list of the things you need to add to your closet. You DON'T have to buy an entirely new warderobe. Look at the things you already have in your closet and write down a list of items you can add in order to increase those items. Try to start out with jewelry and a pair of shoes in your style and look for a few tops, dresses and bottoms. But the accessories are truly the most important, so try to invest in some good quality accessories, because they can make or break an outfit.
A good tip to help you not overconsume is to only buy something when you can style it in 3 ways for 3 different occasions. This way you make sure that you will actually use it!
๐ญ Carry yourself like a god(ess) - Your posture is so so so important! Is doesn't only influence how other see you, but also how you see yoursel (and if you've read my part about sitting, you've read that's also important for good health).
Your body language reflects what you think, but the opposite is also true. By standing in a powerpose you will start feeling more confident.
Make sure your spine holds its natural curve, your shoulders are relaxed end rolled back. When standing put your feet apart a little, so you stand stronger.
A good pose to practice standing confidently is the so called "superwoman pose". Put your feet apart, look straight forward, ball your fists and putt them on your hips. Standing like this for even 2 minutes will improve your confidence. I do this when I feel really stressed about a presentation or test (not in the middle of the classroom ofcourse, I will either do it in the bathroom, before coming to school or during the break).
๐ญ Drinking water -The average woman should consume about 2.7 liters of water a day and the average man 3.7 liters. About 20% of this should come from your food. So, the average woman should drink about 2.16 liters of water and the average man about 2.96 liters of water. It is important to drink your water in order to stay healthy, get rid of waste in your body and keep your temperature normal.
๐ญ Hobbies - Having a hobby that we enjoy brings us joy and enriches our lives. It helps us learn new skills, de-stresses us, gives you new perspectives, prevents wasting time and learns you patience. A hobby can be found everywhere. It can be collecting something; a sport, singing, reading, programming, knitting, sewing, playing an instrument, baking, cooking and even making tea.
๐ญ Meditation - ย One of the keys to having a happy, calm and balanced life is meditation. Meditation reduces stress, promotes your mental health, helps with learning, kindness and forgiveness, lengthens your attention span (I, for a fact, know most people need this with people's social media use nowadays.) It helps with being self-aware and there have been studies that showed that it has some impact on your physical health (we don't know on which level yet) and that it can prevent age related memory loss. You can start out with breathing exercises and work your way up to guided meditation and, if you are ready for it, meditate regularly. Don't give up, it will take some time to really get into and to get the results you want.
๐ญ Morning routine - A good morning routine sets you up for a good day. It helps you with getting in the right mindset and with starting the day in a relaxed way. Make sure you get your needed sleep hours. This will be different for everyone. But for teenagers, the average is between 8 and 10 hours and for adults, 8 hours is recommended. It is also good to note that women tend to multitask more during the day and, averagely speaking, need about 20 minutes more sleep than men. I would recommend a set time for your alarm every day. By doing this you will get into a good rhythm which will help you fall asleep, and you know for sure you are getting your needed hours. Everyone likes different things in their morning. Some things that are an absolute staple to me are, and I can't start off my day on a good note without them: Drinking some water immediately after waking up (helps me with waking up), meditating, journaling for 5 minutes, making my bed, doing skincare and having a nourishing breakfast. Chose the things that you find important. If you struggle with doing everything on bad days, you could always make a routine for good days, okay days and bad days. When you wake up, you get to choose which one you will do. This might make it less overwhelming.ย
๐ญ Night routine - Most things have already been said when I talked about morning routines. My night routine is easier than my morning routine, because at the end of the day I have difficulty winding down, and a plan makes it less overwhelming to start. My staples for my night routine are: making sure my room is clean, packing my bag for next day (if needed), my journal for 5 minutes, brushing teeth and skincare. If I don't feel like sleeping yet, I will read in my bed or do a very calming yoga session.ย
๐ญ Organize - I, for one, have quite some difficulty with staying organized. But while speaking with my coach at school he reminded me of the importance of organization. Even if you are not aware of it, the things you still need to do, take up a lot of space in your head. It's way more convenient to just write it in your agenda immediately, make a planner with everything you need to do, make a list of everything that bothers you. You need to stop wasting energy on being de-organized. This will also ensure that you don't miss out on anything. This also goes for your living/ work space. A cluttered workspace will clutter your mind!
Some small tips I want to give you before ending this post. <3
๐ญ Phone/ social media - In order for you to have the best day and sleep, you should not use ur phone for a hour after waking up or before going to sleep. In general, you should minimize your use of social media. I would really recommend listening to this great Ted talk about the worth of a social media app. Because of this Ted talk I realized how much time I was wasting on social media. With all of that time, I can do so much, learn so much, go on so many adventures. Your phone is also really addictive, and you should take that addiction seriously. Phone addiction is a dopamine addiction, because of this. Because life will seem boring. If you want to feel alive and happy, don't overuse your phone and make clear boundaries with yourself. Try to live in the moment, not on your phone.ย
๐ญ Sustainable energy - ย I will make a more detailed post about this, because it is one of the things that helped me most. But the concept is very simple: learn to differentiate the things that give you energy and take your energy. And use that as a guide to help you fill your day. Studying is something that takes me a lot of energy. When I feel like my energy is getting low, I take a break after finishing the next task and go meditate or take a walk. This way you can keep thriving the entire day!
๐ญ Journaling - I would recommend journaling to anyone. There will always be a type of journal that suits you, so please look into it!I personally have 3 journals, I use one for journaling exercises, one for my morning & evening checkups and one is my coomonplace journal. A commonplace journal is a journal in which you write down anything that you learn. It helps you with remembering, but it's also easy to look things back up!ย
English isn't my first language, so if there are any mistakes, please correct me. Although I am not very happy with how this post turned out out, I will still post it because I worked really hard on this. I hope my writing and presentation will improve next post. Lots of love and kisses! ๐
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My goal for this week: fixing my procrastination.
Even though I know it's not fixable in a week I think, I am able to grow healthy routines and habits in a week that will be the support I need to stop!
Thank you sososos much for the tip lovely ๐๐๐
How do I stop procrastinating getting my life together. I'm not sure if you understand what I mean....as in how do I stop procrastinating getting out of my comfor zone to do better
Procrastination is delaying a task because of fear or anxiety about doing it. If you frequently procrastinate, it may result from your current mindset. In this post, I will discuss the reasons behind procrastination and how to overcome it by getting started.
AVOIDANCE MINDSET
If youโve been in their comfort zone for quite a long time, you may be familiar with this term. An avoidance mindset is when we focus more on preventing possible negative consequences, rather than pursuing positive outcomes. This leads to procrastination, avoiding risks or challenges and generally staying in their comfort zones to avoid discomfort and failure.
This mindset usually stems from a fear that is holding you back which is keeping you โsafeโ, which is why we feel discomfort when trying new things. Fear of failure, wasting time, rejection and change are a few common ones.
Doing self-reflection or quizzes are the most efficient way to identify your fears if you havenโt already. Challenge negative beliefs that cause that fear to grow.ย
The recommended way to shift your mindset from an avoidance one to a growth mindset is by focusing on the benefits that youโll get from it. E.g.
โExercising is too hardโ -> โIโll feel good about myself afterโ
โStudying is boringโ -> โIโll be proud of myself after achieving high gradesโ
โMeeting new people is scaryโ -> โI canโt wait to have a new friendโ
BREAK TASKS INTO SMALLER CHUNKS, and if it seems too difficult, do it over a week/fortnight. When tasks are smaller, they seem simpler and easier, so we donโt feel the need to delay them. For example...
Deep clean my room -> Wipe down all surfaces & put new bedding OR Monday Iโll wipe down surfaces, then Wednesday Iโll put new bedding.ย
ย MAKE THE TASK SPECIFIC. If the task is vague, it can seem too daunting to start because we have no idea how to start. For example, instead of saying studying for my science test, say do 3 rounds of science flashcards. We know exactly what to do, so it doesnโt give reason for us to delay it.
HAVE A ROUTINE. Having a consistent daily routine helps us to stay on track because our brains love routines and familiar activities, and it pushes us further because our brains will feel discomfort if that routine is not done.ย
However, if you are someone who procrastinates, avoid micromanaging your day. It can seem way too overwhelming, but even if you do it, it can lead to being burnt out.ย
KEEP ORGANISED. Being in an environment which is constantly cluttered, or having no way to remember everything that goes in your life, will make you have a cluttered mind, A cluttered mind will influence your actions to also be out of place.
DEVELOP A GROWTH MINDSET. I do have a post on this which is linked on my masterlist. The whole idea of a growth mindset is to embrace the idea that failure further improves us, instead of setting us back.
Love these thing. They are son simple but sometimes so easy to forget!! <3
NOT GETTING BUMMED OUT FROM UPSETTING THINGS
It's very easy to enter a depressive state nowadays, especially with all of the things that are going on right now. We can still do things to acknowledge what is going on without having a dark mindset.
ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEELINGS
this is the first and arguably most crucial step. It's important to allow yourself to feel what you're feeling. Do not attempt to suppress your emotions or berate yourself for feeling a certain way. Instead, acknowledge these feelings as a natural reaction to something upsetting.
PRACTICE MINDFULNESS
Mindfulness is the ability to stay fully engaged in the present moment. This practice can help you avoid dwelling excessively on things that upset you. Try to focus on your breath, the sensation of the air around you, or the sounds you hear. This can provide a much needed break from the cycle of negative thoughts.
DON'T OVER CONSUME
Over consuming negative media can be another way we can put pressure on our mind. The more negative media we consume the more negative thoughts we have. Blocking certain tags on social sites can be a great way to eliminate negative media in your life. Recognizing these things going on in the world is great, but throwing yourself into all of it isn't.
FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE
When something upsetting occurs, it's easy to get lost in a sea of negativity. However, try to shift your focus to something positive in your life, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant. This could be anything from a recent accomplishment to the love and support of your friends and family. Remembering what you're grateful for can help improve your mood.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL HEALTH
Physical health has a profound impact on mental well-being. Regular exercise can help boost your mood and reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. It doesn't have to be anything intense, a simple walk or a few stretches can make a world of difference. In addition to exercise, make sure you're getting enough sleep and eating a balanced diet. These steps will ensure your body is well-equipped to handle emotional distress.
workout posts
๐ 30 day workout plan
๐ โhow much exercise should i be doing?โ
๐ ab & core workouts
๐ all about mobility
๐ all about yin yoga
๐ barre workouts
๐ beginner guide to pilates
๐ beginner pilates routines
๐ cardio routines
๐ christmas-themed workouts
๐ december 2024 workout plan
๐ fitness tips from adriana lima
๐ full body workout routines
๐ lower body workout routines
๐ mat workouts
๐ mat workouts pt. 2
๐ non-yoga stretch routines
๐ november 2024 workout plan
๐ pilates routines
๐ standing workout routines
๐ tone and flexibility workout routines
๐ workout plan for beginners
๐ workouts and stretches for your period
๐ workouts and stretches you can do in bed
๐ workout youtube channels
๐ workout youtube channels pt. 2
๐ yoga routines
study posts
๐ study like blair waldorf
๐ study like elle woods
๐ study methods
๐ study like paris geller
๐ ways to romanticize school
๐ ways to stay organized in school
๐ youtube channels for study motivation
bookish posts
๐ต november 2024 book journal
๐ต youtube channels for the book girlies
miscellaneous posts
๐ธ a guide to blair waldorf
๐ธ christmas gift ideas
๐ธ cycle synching
๐ธ how to build a routine
๐ธ it girl spring cleaning
๐ธ it girl youtube channels
๐ธ it girl youtube channels pt. 2
๐ธ productive ways to fill your notebooks
๐ธ productivity apps for self improvement
A cosy guide to a cosy December โงอ*ฬฉฬฉอโ ออ หโโ
Have a Christmas movie marathon.
Cinnamon oatmeal... or just oatmeal in general... winter is oatmeal season... make it cute, though!! :)
Having hot Chocolate by the fireplace
Bows. Bows. Bows.
Visiting Christmas markets and going ice skating
Cute Knitted sweaters and uggs
Baking cute Christmas cookies and decorating them with your friends
Spending hours making your wish list
Writing cute Christmas cards to friends and family who live far away :)
Start working on your 2024 vision board
Buying cute ornaments for the Christmas tree
Fluffy socks and fuzzy blankets <3
Experiment with your coffee order!! I've been OBSESSED with mochas; cinnamon is also a MUST.
Trying. a different make-up style. I always love the frosty/blushy look for winter <3
Planning your Christmas outfit
Buy some cute Christmas-themed pyjamas (Victoria's Secret always has cute ones!!)
Scented candles to set the mood. My current fav is the salted caramel one from ZARA Home!! <3
Go see the Nutcracker
A good Christmas playlist is a MUST. I already made mine :)
As always, please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! โขฬฉฬฉอโ *ฬฉฬฉอโงอโก*ฬฉฬฉอโ ออ
โโงโ*:ใปlove ya ๏ฝฅ:*โโงเฑจเง
Been there done that tbh,
Chemistry tuition, one year older than me, didn't talk much but always stared at each other when the other was looking away, never had the opportunity to ask him anything else, but was sarcastic to him all the time
A year late he goes to college but his face haunts me till date.
Girls, use this little part of Tumblr to talk about him/her :) you can use comment section as well as reposting this.
I'll start <3
Sooo, this guy came to my chemistry classes last year, and one day he just talked to me, the thing is that he let me his notes (the class before that one I couldn't go) that really surprised since boys of my age aren't so nice I think (?).
Then minutes later he asked me a question, what really made me overthink was that he had his friends right behind him "why would he talk to me when he has people he knows just half step behind? That was weird"
And now, this year I do not see him that much but sometimes we see each other in the hallways, and he always (yes, I mean always) looks where I'm sitting :) Don't judge me, as a thought daughter and delulu person this makes me think A LOT.
But now seriously isn't it strange that he looks where I am and we always make eye contact? ๐ญ
I wish I were brave enough to talk to him and just ask his Instagram, but I'm not, so I guess he will be just another crush I didn't talk to <\3
Girlhood things that I love
Getting my daily overpriced drink
watching Vogue Beauty Secrets while doing my skincare or makeup
taking pictures of everything
Scrolling through Pinterest late at night while listening to Lana
the everything shower
Celebrating small wins by going to cute cafes with my friends
Buying fresh flowers for myself every week
Obsessing with aesthetics and love
Writing in my diary
"We were girls together."
Going to bed with freshly shaved and moisturised legs
manifesting and making vision boards
Being a Victoria's Secret girly
adding ribbons and bows to everything
Buying everything in pink
being delulu
Doing my nails while watching Gossip Girl
Vanilla-scented candles and perfume before bed
Girls supporting girls and being a girl's girl <3
โฉโงโ*:ใปlove ya ๏ฝฅ:*โโงโฉ
workout & stretch routines for your period
8 minute de-bloating stretch routine by gloria song
10 minute yoga for periods by hailey c.
12 minute slow workout for pms by madfit
15 minute full body workout for pms by ballet thera fit
15 minute pms/period stretch by mady morrison
15 minute period & pms stretch by mizi
20 minute lower back workout & stretch by bigsis
20 minute pilates to reduce period pain by pilatesbodyraven
20 minute period/pms workout & stretch by emi wong
20 minute yoga for pcos & hormones by akshaya agnes
20 minute yoga for your period by akshaya agnes
25 minute mat pilates for your period by pilatesbodyraven
27 minute low impact mat workout for period by cbc life
30 minute pms workout by bigsis
30 minute pilates for pms/period by eleni fit
30 minute period pain relief yoga by yoga with kassandra
30 minute yoga during periods by akshaya agnes
30 minute yoga for period pain & cramps by boho beautiful yoga
with weights
30 minute full body dumbbell workout by bigsis
30 minute muscle up & fat down by bigsis
30 minute full body pilates style sculpt by madfit
30 minute toning & strength by madfit
30 minute full body strength by madfit
30 minute full body sculpt by madfit
30 minute full body dumbbell workout by madfit
30 minute all standing dumbbell workout by mizi
30 minute full body sculpt by madfit
30 minute sculpt & strengthen by fitbymik
30 minute dumbbell strength x pilates by fitbymik
30 minute dumbbell strength & pilates by fitbymik
30 minute full body build & burn by squatcouple
40 minute full body dumbbell workout by mizi
40 minute full body hourglass workout by olivia lawson
40 minute killer strength by growingannanas
45 minute cardio & strength by eleni fit
45 minute hourglass dumbbell workout by olivia lawson
45 minute full body strength by madfit
50 minute full body dumbbell workout by bigsis
without weights
25 minute kpop idol body workout by lena snow
30 minute full body fat burn by emi wong
30 minute dancer sculpt by madfit
30 minute small-space friendly full body workout by madfit
30 minute full body workout by madfit
30 minute full body hiit by madfit
30 minute full body hiit by madfit
30 minute stretch & tone by madfit
30 minute stretch & tone by madfit
30 minute full body hourglass workout by lena snow
30 minute full body sculpt by madfit
30 minute low impact full body sculpt by madfit
30 minute hourglass workout by mizi
40 minute full body build & burn by squatcouple
45 minute full body fat burn by emi wong
50 minute full body workout by april han
1 hour full body fat burn by emi wong
1 hour full body workout by mizi
1 hour full body workout by caroline girvan
1 hour full body workout by caroline girvan
* youtube channel dayana wang has tons of short bed workouts!
5 minute stretch by eylem abaci
5 minute yoga by yoga with kassandra
6 minute stretch by pamela reif
8 minute de-bloating stretch by gloria song
10 minute abs by emi wong
10 minute abs & thighs by emi wong
10 minute sitting upper body by emi wong
10 minute stretch by emi wong
10 minute sitting back workout & stretch by emi wong
10 minute stretch by emi wong
10 minute abs by emi wong
10 minute upper body workout & stretch by emi wong
10 minute stress & headache relief stretch/massage by emi wong
10 minute sitting arm workout by hailey c.
10 minute yoga by yoga with kassandra
10 minute yoga stretch by yoga with bird
10 minute yoga by jess yoga
12 minute full body by vicky justiz
14 minute full body by robertaโs gym
15 minute leg workout & stretch by emi wong
15 minute full body by hailey c.
15 minute legs by emi wong
15 minute lower abs by mizi
15 minute stretch by blogilates
15 minute yoga by boho beautiful yoga
20 minute abs & legs by emi wong
24 minute full body by robertaโs gym
30 minute yoga by yoga with kassandra
what is mobility & how is it different from flexibility?
mobility is the ability of the joints to move through their full range of motion, while flexibility is the ability of the muscles to temporarily stretch.
why do mobility training?
there are many different benefits of mobility training, including:
increased flexibility
reduced risk of injury
improving joint & muscle health
improving range of motion
improving posture
gaining muscle strength
balance & stability
reducing pain & stiffness in the body
when should i start?
now! thereโs a common misconception that you shouldnโt need mobility training until you are in your later years and your mobility starts to decline, but mobility training is useful no matter your age. in fact, the sooner you start, the less mobility & joint problems you will experience as you age.
how often should i train mobility?
mobility training is safe and beneficial to do daily, but ideally, you should try to train mobility at least 5 times per week for at least 5-10 minutes each time.
routines:
10 minute mobility workout by growingannanas
10 minute mobility for neglected joints by julia.reppel
15 minute daily mobility routine by julia.reppel
15 minute mobility stretch by growingannanas
20 minute slow mobility & stretch by julia.reppel
20 minute full body mobility warm up by leanbeefpatty
20 minute spinal mobility by julia.reppel
20 minute mobility workout by julia.reppel
20 minute rest day mobility flow by julia.reppel
20 minute pilates x mobility by juli๏ฟผa.reppel
20 minute full body mobility by julia.reppel
25 minute full body stretch & mobility by madfit
25 minute mobility workout by julia.reppel
25 minute yoga for mobility by jess yoga
25 minute rest day mobility by julia.reppel
25 minute low impact mobility workout by julia.reppel
25 minute mobility workout by marie steffen
30 minute full body primal mobility by julia.reppel
30 minute primal mobility workout by julia.reppel
30 minute mobility yoga for athletes by charlie follows
30 minute beginner-friendly mobility flow by julia.reppel
30 minute mobility workout by fitness__kaykay
30 minute active recovery workout by heather robertson
30 minute core strength & shoulder mobility by heather robertson
35 minute yoga fusion workout by heather robertson
40 minute mobility & dynamic stretching by heather robertson
40 minute abs & hip mobility by heather robertson
40 minute core strength & back mobility by heather robertson
40 minute core strength & mobility by heather robertson
40 minute core & shoulder mobility by heather robertson
40 minute abs & mobility by heather robertson
44 minute core & full body mobility by heather robertson
start date: friday, november 1
โ ห๏ฝกโเญจเญงห โก หเญจเญงโ๏ฝกห โ โ ห๏ฝกโเญจเญงห โก หเญจเญงโ๏ฝกห โ โ ห๏ฝกโหเญจเญง
day 1: 30 minute pms & menstrual pain workout + 20 minute lower back workout & stretch
day 2: 44 minute core & mobility
day 3: 30 minute pilates
day 4: 30 minute walking cardio + 15 minute stretch
day 5: 45 minute yoga
day 6: 30 minute full body strength + 10 minute stretch
day 7: 35 minute pilates x mobility
day 8: 30 minute hiit + 10 minute stretch
day 9: 45 minute yoga
day 10: 30 minute pilates
day 11: 30 minute full body + 20 minute yoga
day 12: 40 minute mobility & dynamic stretch
day 13: 30 minute cardio + 25 minute yoga
day 14: 1 hour yoga & breathwork
day 15: 30 minute full body strength + 20 minute stretch
day 16: 30 minute stretch
day 17: 30 minute yoga hiit fusion
day 18: 45 minute power pilates
day 19: 30 minute hiit + 20 minute full body + 10 minute stretch
day 20: 30 minute yoga
day 21: 30 minute full body + 10 minute stretch
day 22: 30 minute hiit + 25 minute stretch
day 23: 45 minute yoga
day 24: 30 minute mobility & strength
day 25: 45 minute strength & cardio
day 26: 30 minute stretch
day 27: 30 minute slim leg workout + 15 minute slim leg stretch
day 28: 30 minute pilates core
day 29: 30 minute hiit
day 30: 1 hour yoga
WAKE UP EARLIER. Waking up early looks different for a lot of us, and iโm not going to reccomend waking up at 5am for a lot of us. Whatever time you wake up now, I would suggest waking up 30 minutes or so earlier and see how you feel.ย
If you feel like you really need those 30 minutes to sleep, then use it sleeping. Whatever time makes you feel like you are at the best, is the perfect time for you. It does take some trial and error to find this time, but itโs worth it.ย
Another thing, I generally wouldnโt suggest waking up past 10am. If you sleep in a little too much, you do become a bit sluggish during the first hours of your day, but whatever works for you.ย
SUNLIGHT FIRST THING. Going outside, a hot girl walk or simply opening your windows to allow the sun to come in helps our body to become awake. Natural sunlight is a sign to our bodies that we need to start the day.ย
This also promotes a healthy rise in cortisol to support our mood, focus and energy. This natural increase in cortisol helps with melatonin production in the evening, which improves the quality of your sleep.
Exposure to unnatural light can disrupt this rhythm, so itโs best to stay away from any devices and turn off of your lights before and after you wake up. Ideally, an hour after you wake up, should be spent device-free. (aside from alarms or setting habit tasks)ย
NO PROCESSED, CAFFEINATED OR SUGARY FOODS, before you have a proper meal. When we eat these foods before a nutritious meal, it can lead to a spike in cortisol and blood sugar levels first thing in the morning, which leads to crashing in the afternoon after the spike goes down.ย
When we eat after we wake up, it stabilises our blood sugar levels and replenishes ourselves after our fast. If need to be, meal prep the night before so you can have a quick and easy breakfast. As long as it properly fuels your body.ย
GENTLE EXERCISES. Youโve just woken up, so you donโt want to rush your body into something too hardcore until you feel like youโre fully awake. Gentle exercises could mean stretching, a light walk or if youโre feeling a bit energised, pilates.ย
SET INTENTIONS. Set the theme for how you want to feel at the start of the day, during and end. It doesnโt have to be something productive, but a feeling that you want to achieve and maximise and use that feeling in what you do.ย
For ex. In the morning, I want to feel calm. During the day, I want to feel productive. At the end of the day, I want to feel accomplished.ย
SHORT TO-DO LISTS! To-do lists that are more than 3 major tasks usually are unmanageable. While you can break down those 3 major tasks, try to avoid having more than 3 major tasks.ย
If you do have more than 3, consider moving them into a different date if its not urgent or cutting that task completely if its not urgent and unimportant. How you assess the urgency and importance of your tasks is up to you, as you know what productivity means to you.ย
Remember the basics as well, such as hydration, mindfullness, and at least one fun activity in the morning. Thank you so much for the support, even while I was a bit inactive <3
wearing cute pjs to bed>>>>
A girls world๐
Everyday of trying is a successful day
Cleanse cleanse cleanse!!
Treat yourself to a self care day this weekend!๐
Itโs still in the 80s where I live but I hope itโs nice and chill for everyone else
Take care of yourself today๐ค
I want to go to the county side this summer so bad๐ฑ