The official resources masterlist for NPD. Includes all the links I've shared in the past and stuff I haven't.
Any posts I've linked about supporting those with NPD have been put in the misc section because I do not want to take away from what this post is really about, which is helping people with NPD, not the people around them.
Diagnostic criteria
NPD diagnostic criteria, rewritten by someone who has it
Official diagnostic criteria
An explanation of the diagnostic criteria
Recovery resources FOR the narcissist
NPD recovery resources
How to find therapy for NPD, common types of therapy and signs of an abusive/toxic therapist
Narcissist supply
What is narc supply?
Things that can give a narcissist supply
NPD stigma
The perception of NPD symptoms vs. how a narcissist might actually experience them
Why those with NPD have a hard time seeking help (spoiler alert: it's not because they're unaware)
A plea from someone with NPD (and some resources debunking common misconceptions)
Narcissism is not abusive / abuse is abusive
Debunking common myths on NPD
Common disproven myths about NPD
Miscellaneous
How to support someone with NPD
NPD Carrd (What is NPD, dpt skills and self-help)
Unravelling the connection: npd as a trauma response
NPD terminology (do's and dont's)
NPD safe blogs
@empath-abuse-awareness
@enigma-in-reality
@loverofmirage
@narcissisticpdcultureis
@nicepersondisorder
@theegosystem
@mischiefmanifold
NPD positivity so you don't have to go looking
Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead
Reblog to tell your local narcissist that they're the best ever
Happy NPD appreciation day
Positivity for systems with NPD
Be normal about narcissists unless it's to give them love
NPD should be EPD (Epic Personality Disorder)
Of course I have a praise kink, I have NPD
Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful
Positivity for narcissists who like sex
I love my narcissists
Aromantic narcissists are amazing
Narcissists I love you
Easy ways to spot a narcissist (it's not what you think <;3)
Narcissists deserve to be loved
As usual, if something needs to be deleted because it's wrong/comes from a toxic author/etc. please let me know. I tried to look on Google but all I found was ableist shit, so these are all found by your fellow narcissists on tumblr :)
Edit: If you have any resources, please send them to me through an ask or DM and i'll check it out/add it!
“delulu” is not funny or cute. it is an insult to actual delusional people/beasts. DO NOT say it. it is gross
“so psycho” is also NOT funny or cute. it again is a HUGE slap in the face to actual psychotic people/beasts.
a few examples of dumb terms they are disgusting and insulting. if you say them you don’t support the mental ill
Repeat after me: I draw so good. Not everything needs to be a banger. I'm not a content machine I'm a person who makes art and art takes time. Inspiration comes in waves and when it recedes that's when I should let myself rest
for me, it was similar.
from my 'fallen angel' side, my wings were ripped from me as punishment for not being the ideal angel, to which i was banished away from heaven, almost pushed off from there. however, rather than being sent to hell, i was sentenced to a "purgatory" of sorts, which is here, this place on this earth.
from my 'god/deity' side, it was a similar story, with the only difference being that i was seen as an unworthy deity, one that's corrupt, with others not liking me
neither of these had corrupted me (maybe because i was already corrupt?), rather it only scarred me.
i still have retained parts of my divinity, though i am still stuck in this purgatory
hope this makes sense!
alright so fallen angel describes the fall from grace. Though to some individuals its taken literally - angels falling through the sky. Some art depicts broken/burnt wings
Me personally - i didnt fall. My wings (my holiness) were ripped from me as a punishment and it corrupted me, changing me from my angelic form to my demonic, and i was banished to "Hell."
how did yall experience your fall from grace? (Both pychological/spiritual/etc kins welcome to share)
i wish there were sparkly otherkin nightclubs that serve drinks named after david bowie and everyone on the dance floor is wearing a tail and all the gods sit at the bar sipping liquid gold and the vampires slink around in the dark corners hiding from the break of dawn and the zombies languish in the VIP lounge but idk
Things feel heartbreaking, but I hope we can find comfort in one another and afford to take a break, breathe, and indulge in something for ourselves today. It's important to remember too to keep going and to keep creating, especially in the face of so much adversity. I'm sorry if this sounds too dramatic, but it's a good reminder every now and again, especially if you find yourself alone, you know? I know to keep going is so much hard work, but it's absolutely work worth doing!
ITS MIKU DAY!!!!!! EVERYONE SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY HATSUNE MIKU!!!! SHES GOING ON HER SWEET 16!!!!!!!!!!!
npd otherkin culture is actually being god/deitykin due to psychological reasons linked to my npd and feeling hurt when people say "god/deitykin dni." like i'm sorry that i'm mentally ill? i don't know what you want me to do about that.
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I love you people with PPD, I love you people with SPD, I love you people with StPD, I love you people with AsPD, I love you people with BPD, I love you people with HPD, I love you people with NPD, I love you people with AvPD, I love you people with DPD, I love you people with OCPD.
I love you paranoids, I love you schizoids, I love you schizotypals, I love you antisocials. I love you borderlines, I love you histrionics, I love you narcissists, I love you avoidants, I love you dependents, I love you obsessive-compulsives.
I love anyone and everyone with a personality disorder. These disorders are so heavily stigmatized. We need more love in the community.
Let's say goodbye to 2024, and welcome in 2025, because...
Onto a new one! (Hopefully, this time we might actually get around to fulfill our resolutions..)
Best of luck and wishes for everyone!