Loveless Aro - Blog Posts

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I think more people should headcanon characters as repulsed, loveless, and non-partnering actually.

Have to pretend

Realising that I am an aromantic was actually so freeing. Like yeah, at the beginning I've had not the best start with figuring out how to escape relationships I have been in, but damn I'll ever change the way things are going right now.

My whole life I was surrounded with weird for me expectations: to find a partner and have this life full of romance, find someone that will be my "second half", have this romantical moments with this person, have dates and etc. I was hearing from almost everywhere how important this "Love" is and that I should have the same. Because "that's the most fulfilling thing in life". And so I pretended. Pretended that I actually feel this. And damn I was so good at this, that at some point I convinced MYSELF, that I feel it. Realising that romance wasn't for me and that I'm not suited for it anyhow was so... Relaxing? I finally don't need to look through everyone I see in hopes something will "drag" me to them, I don't need to have this awkward "Is this what couples do, isn't it?" thought living constantly in my mind because of trying TO CONVINCE myself I love someone. There's no thinking about "Do I love my friend?" after every social interaction because I obviously DON'T. And of course, I'm not thinking that I'm broken or damaged because well... I'm not.

Realising that I'm aro was one of the most important and fantastic things in my life. I still have to deal with pressure because of the society I live in but... that's not as painful as it was. Because I know who I am and that it'll probably stay like this for the rest of my life. And that I don't need to run after the concepts that I don't need and don't understand. Yes, I can find them entertaining in media for sure but... There's no pressure from myself that tells me to try to fit in for the simple reason: "Everyone has it, you should too".

Ambiqueerplatonic/ ambiamorous queerplatonic

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For anyone who is ambiamorous in regards to queerplatonic attraction and/or and queerplatonic relationships.

Loveless ambiqueerplatonic/ loveless ambiamorous queerplatonic

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For those who are loveless aros and ambiamorous in regards to queerplatonic attraction and/or and queerplatonic relationships. The overall ambiqueerplatonic flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

Version without and with arrow in loveless aro colors.

Ambialterous/ ambiamorous alterous

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For anyone who is ambiamorous in regards to alterous attraction and/or and alterous relationships.

Loveless ambialterous/ loveless ambiamorous alterous

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For those who are loveless aros and ambiamorous in regards to alterous attraction and/or and alterous relationships. The overall ambialterous flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

Version without and with arrow in loveless aro colors.

The flags are based on this ambiamorous flag[link] and the queerplatonic/alterous flag respectively. The green heart in the ambiqueerplatonic flag stands for aromantic/non-romantic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships. The diamond on the loveless flags stands for affectrion that isn't "love".

More variants of my polyplatonic/polyamqueerplatonic and polyamalterous flags version for different experiences!

my original flag[link] is including of all these following experiences, these flags are just for those who want to specify what their experience is and want their own flag for these experiences.

Loveless polyplatonic/polyamqueerplatonic

[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light pink, purple and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a green rhombus. The second flag is the same with an additional arrow symbol in the loveless aro colors. The front half of the arrow goes through the side of the rhombus, going from the bottom left to the top right at a 45 degree angle, the very tip of the arrow sticking out just slightly]

My original polyplatonic/polyamqueerplatonic flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the yellow stands for platonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the light pink stands for queerplatonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the purple stands for asexuality, and/or non-sexual relationships and the green square stands for affection that isn't "love". The second flag is with an arrow in the loveless aro colors to represent loveless aros.

Flag for polyplatonic/polyamqueerplatonic people that want to specify they experience sexual attraction and/or are in sexual relationships/ their qpr also includes sexual intimacy.

[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light pink, reddish pink and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a green heart tilted 90 degrees counterclockwise.]

The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the yellow stands for platonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the light pink stands for queerplatonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the pink stands for sexuality, sexual attraction and/or sexual relationships and the green heart stands for aromantic people, aromantic/non-romantic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships. The meaning specifically says sexuality and not allosexuality since it also includes those on the ace-spec that still experience some form of sexual attraction. It also specifically includes strictly asexual people that still ingage in sexual activities and/or have sexual relationships.

Flag for loveless polyplatonic/polyamqueerplatonic people that want to specify they experience sexual attraction and/or are in sexual relationships/ their qpr also includes sexual intimacy.

[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light pink, reddsih pink and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a green rhombus. The second flag is the same with an additional arrow symbol in the loveless aro colors. The front half of the arrow goes through the side of the rhombus, going from the bottom left to the top right at a 45 degree angle, the very tip of the arrow sticking out just slightly]

The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the yellow stands for platonic attraction, affection and/or relationships, the light pink stands for queerplatonic attraction, affection and/or relationships, the pink stands for sexuality, sexual attraction and/or sexual relationships and the green square stands for affection that isn't "love". The second flag is with an arrow in the loveless aro colors to represent loveless aros.

Loveless polyamalterous

[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light gray, red and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a light pink rhombus. The second flag is the same with an additional arrow symbol in the loveless aro colors. The front half of the arrow goes through the side of the rhombus, going from the bottom left to the top right at a 45 degree angle, the very tip of the arrow sticking out just slightly]

My original polyamaltrtous flag is also inclusive of loveless aros, this is just for those who wish to specify that they are loveless and/or dislike the design with the heart due to being loveless.

The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the other colors are the colors of the alterous flag and represent alterous attraction, affection, and/or relationships. The square stands for affection that isn't "love". The second flag is with an arrow in the loveless aro colors to represent loveless aros.