Life Affirming - Blog Posts

I often have my own moments where I feel like I'm both the storm and the sea that rage all at once. Then a kind soul or comment will come and humble me into nothing more than a paused breath. Reminding me of my place in the shoal of souls that we are. We ebb and flow in and against the direction of all other people. If we all opened our hearts a little more than our egos. I think we could find ourselves in much better places.

I know that my atoms are not mine and that they were forged in stars and scattered across the universe by their deaths. I know that I am a product of bunch of chemical reactions. I know that I will one day die.

I also know that I am more than sum of my parts. That my death, will only be in this body. I will decompose and become apart of everything. I know that my mannerisms will be inherited by those who loved me. Just I have inherited theirs. And I know if there is a afterlife my spirit will live on forever in love and kindness.

But that doesn't make this life any less worth it.

“I don’t need you to respect me, I respect me.

I don’t need you to love me, I love me.

But I want you to know that you could know me,

If you change your mind.” – Rebecca Sugar’s “Steven Universe” (2019)

This is a simple message. But one of the most powerful ones you could and can ever learn. There are many of us who desperately need(ed) this. The message is this. There is nothing wrong with you and who you are. The person you are is worthy of love, respect, and kindness. Not only externally, like from friends, family, and other peers. But also, Internally, from one’s own heart and from the self. I know there are many people who have internalized dysphoria. And they’re restless, tossing, turning and struggling.

The problem is not inborn. It’s developed over a life time. A life time of expectations, and experiences that have lead them to believe that the person they are is not normal, or natural. (For whatever reason, be it the body, blood, mind or spirit or anything else for that matter) And therefore unworthy of grace, love and kindness. However, this is the thing that is not normal. Despite this it has become the standard. A lie, A fatal flaw that now reigns over lives. A single idea of confirming normality. Do not dehumanize your spirit. You do not have to justify your existence. We are not extensions of a society. Strike that reverse it. Society is an extension of us. And if you have felt in any way; ignored, harmed, slandered, disenfranchised or have been left with any other negative emotion, you are not at fault, you are not to blame. You have not committed a failure. It is the collective idea of “Us” that has failed you.

A Simple Message, A Thesis, A Conversation.

You are worthy of love.

We all want Happiness. However the way we pursue it is so inept and unskillful we are often times more detrimental to our causes than we are helpful. I think it is safe to assume in our lives we have been taught we must grapple, struggle, and labor to ensure that happiness is ours.

I think that there is an answer that might be much more simple. Just be faithful in what you are. Be resolute in what you want to be. Be humble. And above all else Love. Because you are in just the same way, are above all else are loved.

If a single grain of rice can tip the scale then a single act of kindness can change the spirit.

3DOLC X ROE

halloween is over and i thought that i would do a fun manifestation challenge before christmas comes around. i couldn’t find any loa challenges so i thought i would do the 3DOLC x ROE since i had a lot of fun doing it back when it was created. in case you want to do it too here's some posts that can help you understand it:

❅ the 3dolc explained

❅ the roe explained

❅ the challenge

𝐈. what i'll be manifesting

my desired body + face

having an extremely fast metabolism

finishing all of my classes faster

my favourite cake

new wardrobe

a new phone

be more productive, creative and disciplined

my desired talents

𝐈𝐈. my routine and what i will be doing

every morning i'll listen to my subliminals and affirmation tapes

every night before sleep i'll repeat my affirmations

persisting and ignoring the 3D

writing down affirmations

repeating affirmations in my head throughout the day

writing vaunts on my blog (just for fun!!!)

𝐈𝐈𝐈. my affirmations

regardless of everything, i have my desired body within 3 days or less

regardless of everything, i have my desired face within 3 days or less

regardless of everything, i have an extremely fast metabolism within three days or less

regardless of everything, i have a metabolism so fast that i can eat whatever i want without gaining weight within three days or less

regardless of everything, i finish all of my classes quickly within three days or less

regardless of everything, i have and can eat my favourite cake within three days or less

regardless of everything, i have my desired wardrobe within three days or less

regardless of everything, i have my desired iphone within three days or less

regardless of everything, i am more productive, creative and disciplined within three days or less

regardless of everything, i have my desired talents within three days or less

regardless of everything, i am the greatest at my desired talents within three days or less

the fact that i manifested what i wanted within 3 days and less

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i'll start this challenge tomorrow, so starting on 02/11/2024, this will be so fun, join me if you'd like <33, i'll post an update on 06/11/2024

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