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dommes outside of sexxxx <333
“did you eat today? send me pictures.”
“take a sweater it’s cold.”
“in bed early tonight hm?”
“drive careful please.”
“make sure you drink your water today.”
“follow the rules today.”
“be a good girl.”
Just girls….AHHHHHH!!
Love em…all of em…
femmes who get awkward and don't know what to do so they act mean
femmes that shift from hyper fem to soft soft masc
femmes that are also pillow princesses
femmes that listen to heavier music but still have a soft vibe
femmes that are strange and off putting but that somehow makes them even more attractive
femmes that actually have a sense of empathy
femmes that are incredibly sarcastic
femmes femmes femmes GREGNJFHDBNFKDJHB
For me this is what true love is, would love to end up this way happily married and all❤️❤️ just that one person that’s willing to love you even with your imperfections
Taken in 2000 about a year into our relationship.
Taken in 2024 (last weekend). Didn’t quite get the pose or positioning right, but hey, we’re older and our memory ain’t what it used to be!
nothings more butch than a pair of boots ☆
the reason why you can't define gay as "man loving man", or define lesbian as "woman loving woman", or define trans as "person who has dysphoria and identifies as the 'opposite' gender " is because all queer identities defy being defined in a reductive, singular statement. the entire point of these identities are that they cannot fit inside the rigid boxes of what gender, sexuality & expression "should" be according to our societies.
people with these identities will always break the rules. we will always blur the lines and exist outside of the boundaries you set around us. you can't try to force us into boxes and hard definitions all over again, we intrinsically defy them no matter what.
this is so so tender-i love my butch gf <33
Butch4butch comic By Leanne Franson
“Bof and Buzz in Rip up those roles
do people understand that the lesbian/dyke community was originally created by women who were comfortable enough in their womanhood but also in their gender expression to be butch and be masculine and love women in society comfortably with support from people around them who also experience the same thing?? as a dyke i have never once felt compelled to get top surgery or change my name or my pronouns, because im comfortable with the sex i was born as. i’m not saying anything is inherently wrong with sex dysphoria and wanting to transition however refusing to let go of a lesbian label while identifying as “male” or “male-adjacent” is just plain lesbophobic and misogynistic. the entire point of dykes is that they’re women who are comfortable being masculine. if you’re a women who changes everything about herself (ie name pronouns body etc) then what about you is dyke? and tbh idgaf if you “still feel like your connection to women is queer” it’s sure as shit not dykey because being a dyke is to be a masculine lesbian. sorry but you can’t have your cake and eat it too. when did words lose literally every meaning. how is saying “once a lesbian always a lesbian” and shit like this not coined as lesbophobic????
this is what they texted me:
“You just are always so worried about so many things pertaining to talking to me & idk why you’re stressing yourself out so much”
for the last week i’ve been rereading it and like trying to understand how they know me more than my friends.
sometimes i feel so detached from the femme identity just because of like certain elements of who i am.. like im really tall and i’m fat and like they’re not necessarily things i gaf about but it’s clear that it’s not the ideal type. like im fully ok with itv but idk something to ponder about
i want to be in love with a stud I WANT TO BE IN LOVE like all giddy and all.
listening to i’m your man by leonard cohen and i want to be punished by them.. i feel like such a pervert wanting to be hurt during intimacy..
im not sure what’s wrong with me. like i was telling them that i don’t care that they talk to other people.. i dont know why im feeling this all encompassing need to be needed by them or by anyone and i feel like this is gonna ruin me in the future. but like i dont think my need to be hurt is really bad at least i hope not.
i was watching edits of secretary and like in the ideal world i find someone like mr grey, someone who can appreciate the erotic elements of butchfemme as well as respect and wouldn’t make me feel bad about the way i approach sex. because i can see my desperate nature in lee but the way mr grey is so disgusted by himself is ME.
diary of an aging girl #2
When i was younger I felt drawn to the “olden days” and felt very much like an imposter among my peers and looking back at it now it was definitely because of how much of a shy person I was and still am. It is not like I was selectively being shy, it felt and still does feel like this bubble that if I would burst it i’d be offending everyone and also become the stupidest person in the world.
Whatever. So I grew up and realised it was very weird to look back on a time I wasn’t born (the 90s and before) and say how good they were when I didn’t experience it and hadn’t even indulged in the generation I was growing up with.
But but it’s times like these where it does feel like the world is becoming less and less progressive and for people who are minorities AKA my whole identity I feel like it’s okay to look back. I’ve always had like this nagging need to feel what I felt a couple years ago which I am sure everyone has felt and nostalgia is it’s own disease.
But I am looking to the 2010s and some of the 90s where yk for a certain part in a certain place it was blooming with community for dykes and all I can think about is we’re never going to have the same opportunities as the ones before us because of this need to conform to straight people’s standards.
Phones shoved in our faces… what if i don’t want to promote it on insta.. what if i want our communities to bloom w/o social media? is that even possible?
-doaag xx
they’re deffo talking to someone else and i genuinely need to stop being jealous bc it’s is a disease
they’re such a good person and so affirming i acc don’t care that they’re much older than me. like it’s never going to gon anywhere but i feel good and it’s nice talking to them.
thinking about how last year when i was genuinely going through it because of a situationship and how in the midst of it all i was having so much fun and how this year im going THROUGH it and i can’t even blame her.
i think about how it was the first time i really liked someone and that i could see it evolving from simple messages and how i was so forthcoming with what i liked and how much they meant to me. and told them how id appreciate it back but never got that. im so glad its over and i don’t harp on it anymore but its like will someone communicate like how i do.
i want someone to tell me they hate me or that they need me or that they don’t want me. i genuinely don’t care if it’s a negative thing i just would rather it be communicated.
°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ intro °❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ pls read!!
tw’s: sh just like my observations, nsft.
i just post whatever. 18 black femme.
i love movies, books, shows + music! i have a LARGE dvd and cd collection and i want to talk to anyone about anything!!! about being a femme4butch lesbian, i want to make lesbian specifically butch and femme friends who are also kind of not typical. also if you like rookie mag interact! cause i love rookie sm. i’m gonna tag the things i like!
i think the blog will probs have nsfw since it’s a diary so anyone under 18 (06) DNI. zionists, fatphobes, edt, men, lesbophobes and homophobes, transphobes DNI
just to make sure, anything i say about butches/studs is within the context that i am respecting them and not denouncing butches to just sexual beings. i love butches + studs beyond being partners, and will always value the friendship. The obvious eroticism in the butchfemme dynamic should not be lost on everyone, i am embracing it not just someone.
this feels so disorganised lol
FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸 and all occupied countries.
What I would giveeeee to have a woman do this to me 😭😭😭
Love being possessive but not jealous like yeah babe you can talk to her, you can hang out, just let me give you a hickey, leave my lipstick on your cheek, i know you’re mine, so does she and i know she can’t have you like i do so why would i worry
I have been thinking about hot muscle mommies for the past 48 hours and I can't get my mind to shut up, all because a really hot piece of muscle mommy art ended up on the homepage of one of my socials ADIASDFJKADSKHJFHJKAKJDFKJAJHFDSJKHAJFJAKJDSJHAFJAHKFJAHKJDFHKAJHKJFAHKJAJCNKAIOAIWERJIOA 😖😖😖😖😖😖😖🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
i’m in this image and i’m proud of it
lesbian blinkie compilation - made by me, mostly on blinkies.cafe
Finally got my dream tattoo! Yahoo!
Avery and Kuma. They're the dykes ever. Anyways I love them and doodled them and felt like sharing it.
Avery Bilbija belongs to @swampymiasma
My barbarian Olaria Viaga Nugalavea. I love my long haired butch dykes. She's an NPC for the campaign I'm running.
Late on my Lesbian Week of Visibility art so take this. I still love this art
Kuma and my friend @swampymiasma character Avery (Avreya Bilbija)
They're butch4butch and so real for it
Kuma and Nalia for a project I'm working on!
"Queer Dyke Cruising" photos by Del LaGrace Volcano (1988) Jayne, Zed, Kim and Serena in North London