I Wonder If This Is A Good Time To Rebrand. 😂

This man is the real MVP.

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowances...

Here’s something that’s been in my drafts folder for a while. Based on some of the posts I’ve read recently, I think it might come in handy…PLEASE DO NOT COPY AND PASTE. READ CRITICALLY. Take bits and pieces, make it your own, or summarize it in some way as a come back for those messages, texts, or dinner dates.

Him: Hi. Thanks for reaching out to my earlier message. Your pics are beautiful. While I completely understand the importance of chemistry…but should we get to a point where this matters, I’m a little uncomfortable with having our relationship defined by allowances. As I said in my profile, I am quite generous, and understand the importance of ‘spoiling my partner’ but still, the set allowance would probably not work for me. I hope you understand my thoughts….

Me: Thank you for your thoughts. I understand that you are in search of an escape and so am I. My escape would involve a real connection and a refined lifestyle. I am a little uncomfortable with having a relationship that is only defined by sex… especially when the guy is attached and somewhat unavailable. I’m a beautiful young woman with no lack of suitors. I have a busy social life and I’m currently working to build a business/ pursuing my degree. I chose this kind of relationship in part because I have so little time for love. That’s not to say that my (romantic) time is not very valuable to me. It is. What I don’t value are shoes, handbags, and/or expensive dinners. These are things that I can purchase myself. Furthermore, these do nothing for me in the long run as much as say you investing in my company/ education would. I hope you understand that I’d need tangible showings… actions that illustrate I am valued… that my companion wants to put a smile on my face/ make me feel special/wants the best for me. AN ALLOWANCE WOULD DO THAT FOR ME. By the same token, I want my companion to feel comfortable telling me specifically how I could put a smile on his face/make HIM feel special/ valued. In any case, I am a rare catch and therefore am in no rush to find the man who “gets it” and me. Good luck on your search!

Now doesn’t this sound better than saying “Bitch Please! I am hot and young and you want me to spend my time on your old ass while your wife gets the unlimited credit card and I get nada! FUCK YOU!”

BITCH I TOOK A LAXATIVE AT LIKE 11pm AND NOW I HAVE A LAST MINUTE APPOINTMENT AT 5am.

omggggg pray for me y’all.

Ima shit on this man 🤣

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

I’m debating between 495cc or 500cc for my breast argumentation.

I’m into the skinny body big breast kind of look, but I also don’t want to be shaped like the letter P.

My doctor told me to go with 495cc because 500cc would literally hang out the sides of my shirt. My frame is quite petite but I’m debating on going a size down. I just don’t want to regret it when I get it done and wished i would have gone bigger.

self concept affs:

“pretty girls always get what they want and I am a perfect example of that.”

“my presence is a present.”

“I am always the top priority, nothing and no one comes before me.”

“I love myself unconditionally.”

“I am important, I am deserving and I am worthy.”

“I never seek the validation of others for fulfillment because I am already fulfilled within.”

“I am completely secure with myself.”

“abundance is my nature state, my success is inevitable.”

Teen should not be a porn category pass it on

How do you manage all your clients?

I have a reminders app on my phone. Plus I don’t take as much clients because I prefer to be low volume.

Society does not like the idea of a spoiled black woman, much less a spoiled black dark skinned woman

And the ugly truth is. No one, absolutely no one gives a fuck if you don’t live up to your potential, no one gives a fuck if you take your dreams, your hopes to the grave.  No one gives a fuck if you stay in your comfort zone, not growing, not learning. No one is going to tap you on the shoulder and say ‘hey, sort your fucking life out, go live your fucking dreams, you deserve and can experience so much more than this eat-sleep-play-small-repeat bullshit routine' no one gives a flying fuck.

So it’s on YOU.

It’s on YOU to break out of this cycle of low energy and motivation that's been holding you hostage and allowing you to play small. It’s on YOU to carve out time in your day to live your fucking dreams, or at least try? It’s on YOU to switch off your phone and allow time to read, write, create or do whatever it is you know deep in your heart you should be doing. It’s on YOU to be your own fucking cheerleader. It’s truly on YOU to become so magnetic to the life and dreams you desire. It’s on you to start collapsing timelines so your dreams are not something you just think about, you get to feel them, touch them, live them.

You get to have it all. It’s all there for the taking, the ocean view house, the heart bursting with love you could cry at how happy you are, the porsche suv, the overflowing bank account, the impecible health, the dreams you finally get to live that occupied your mind for all this time.

I promise you. It’s all yours. start touching your dreams little by little, everyday, move your dreams from your mind into the physical realm and touch it. Touch it with taking actual fucking actions on your dreams, carving out time to do the thing you have been promising yourself. It's not rocket science. Stop reading, studying, consuming. Take actual fucking action.

It's all on YOU.