A Quick Guide To Researching Your SD Or POT Using Reference USA

Freestyling: An Addendum

I know that usually when we think of free-styling we think of going to a bar/lounge/etc, but I want to encourage not only the anon but everyone to expand your horizons and freestyle at more places other than just bars, lounges and hotel lobbies. Free-styling is really a lifestyle. You always want to look on point and have a “freestyle mentality” everywhere you go. And the best way to do that is to stay in the affluent/business/financial areas of your city as much as you can. 

Go grocery shopping there. Wash your car there. Get your Starbucks there. Do everything there. 

Personally, I like to freestyle in the mornings and afternoons. A guy can’t talk to me forever in the middle of the day, and I can say hello, make some small talk, get that business card and bounce.  

Yes, I like to pretend like my phone is updating in the middle of the day too lol.  

If you have to plan your freestyling days, then I would encourage you to set aside an entire day to freestyle. Don’t wait until at night. Start in the morning at the Starbucks or the gym. Make a quick trip to the bookstore (older men still go to the book store lol). Instead of visiting that restaurant/hotel lobby bar at night, visit it doing BUSINESS LUNCH HOURS.  

And always be on the lookout for events you can attend. If you can’t afford to attend, ask to volunteer, especially if it’s a charity event. They love volunteers. Plus you get to scope out ALL THE MEN.

And don’t think that the event has to be super expensive to be POT material either. Sometimes they can be those low-key “wine tasting” events they have at the botanical gardens/museums every spring and summer. The best way to find out if it’s POT material is to look at last years event. A lot of times not only will they show pictures but they’ll post the names of people that attended (especially in the society magazines). GOOGLE the men and see if you can find them and what they do for a living (I would recommend using LinkedIn to do this). 

Sometimes it can be a long shot, but other times you can find people (especially now that you know what they look like) and it can sometimes give you an idea of the kind of people that will be attending.  

If you’re having a difficult time finding events to attend, google “[your city] + society magazine”.  

I really hope I was helpful. I wish you all luck with your free-styling endeavors! Stay safe, let a friend/family member know where you’re going to be and remember: Rich men are everywhere. 

And the ugly truth is. No one, absolutely no one gives a fuck if you don’t live up to your potential, no one gives a fuck if you take your dreams, your hopes to the grave.  No one gives a fuck if you stay in your comfort zone, not growing, not learning. No one is going to tap you on the shoulder and say ‘hey, sort your fucking life out, go live your fucking dreams, you deserve and can experience so much more than this eat-sleep-play-small-repeat bullshit routine' no one gives a flying fuck.

So it’s on YOU.

It’s on YOU to break out of this cycle of low energy and motivation that's been holding you hostage and allowing you to play small. It’s on YOU to carve out time in your day to live your fucking dreams, or at least try? It’s on YOU to switch off your phone and allow time to read, write, create or do whatever it is you know deep in your heart you should be doing. It’s on YOU to be your own fucking cheerleader. It’s truly on YOU to become so magnetic to the life and dreams you desire. It’s on you to start collapsing timelines so your dreams are not something you just think about, you get to feel them, touch them, live them.

You get to have it all. It’s all there for the taking, the ocean view house, the heart bursting with love you could cry at how happy you are, the porsche suv, the overflowing bank account, the impecible health, the dreams you finally get to live that occupied your mind for all this time.

I promise you. It’s all yours. start touching your dreams little by little, everyday, move your dreams from your mind into the physical realm and touch it. Touch it with taking actual fucking actions on your dreams, carving out time to do the thing you have been promising yourself. It's not rocket science. Stop reading, studying, consuming. Take actual fucking action.

It's all on YOU.

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Ways to make your client nut fast

ask them to choke you. a lotta guys nut in seconds cus theyre not used to anything rough. and it wont even be that rough cus he will nut in 1sec.

ask him to fuck your tight asshole, if you allow anal. thats guaranteed quick nut. under 1 min nut

sloppy af bj + hj combo. this one takes sum skill. but if u do it right, not tooo hard or not tooo fast, you can build a quick hard nut. 5 min he will nut

talk dirty. if you arent comfortable, practice it. u might think ull cum across as fake but do u think they give a fuck? they want u to be a pornstar. just say shit like U like that?? u like pounding my whore cunt? u like me bouncing on ur fat dick?? OoohhHhh my god ur cock is buried deep in my (name of hole) . it will speed up the nut. but if they are vanilla just moan rly sensually i guess lmfao tell them how intense this feels and how u feel all 2 inches of his cock and how ur gonna nut. if u nut he nuts

be a little more dominating, take ctrl. i used to be rly submissive out of laziness and in real life i used to be naturally submissive but ive learned that taking ctrl will make the client think u are rly into it. they like that shit. u dont gotta be a domme, just give lotta direction, take lead and fuck hard

if u have fat ass, reverse cowgirl. bounce n fuck hard n he will nut in 2 min max. reverse cowgirl ANAL?? game over, auto nut

lots and lots and lots of eye contact.

in missionary, tilt ur pelvic bone down to make ur pussy tighter and the angle more narrow for his cock. this makes my bf nut all the time

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what oppressors don’t want women to know

1. your life should be centered around yourself.

2. you are not required to compromise.

3. parenthood is a choice.

4. princesses get all the gifts.

5. bitches get respected for having standards.

6. you don’t have to give anyone a chance or the time of day.

7. you don’t need to smile or laugh at anyone’s lame jokes.

8. you don’t need to explain yourself. your no is enough.

9. never accept what you don’t want. keep your standards.

10. if a man threatens/disrespects you take it seriously. don’t brush it off.

11. having and keeping your standards is reflective of your self worth.

12. don’t silence yourself because of the fear that someone will get angry. you aren’t responsible for anyones feelings but your own.

13. it’s not your responsibility to take care of and nurture everyone.

14. assertive women are attractive.

15. never center your life around men.

15. when you’re being courted, they must to prove themselves to you.

16. you don’t have to act fake satisfied when you’re not impressed.

17. staying in a relationships that’s toxic is self sabotaging and abusive.

18. you’re not required to please others to prove your value.

19. finacial literacy is not just for men to know. ladies learn how to handle your money independently.

20. you must put yourself and your goals first.

21. be confident. always walk with your head high.

22. you are worthy. you instantly become more worthy once you remind yourself of this!

23. always speak your mind. those who don’t speak up get nothing.

24. never settle.

25. not a single soul has the right to judge you. opinions are just opinions and have no value unless you give them value.

I’m gonna say it... not everyone is cut out for sex work and should stay far far FAR away where their own naivety and stupidity won’t get them hurt.

Yes, this is directed at ~sugar babies~

Signs of a cop:

Last minute bookings

Refuses to send deposit

Tries to screen using only ID and/or references

Email has different style/sizes of fonts (is clearly copy and pasted)

References don’t have websites or verified ads with their emails on them

If he says he’s staying at a hotel he wants to meet at, call and ask to be transferred to *his names* room. If they don’t have it, red flag

I would say my blessing but i believe in the evil eye. Soooo