I know that usually when we think of free-styling we think of going to a bar/lounge/etc, but I want to encourage not only the anon but everyone to expand your horizons and freestyle at more places other than just bars, lounges and hotel lobbies. Free-styling is really a lifestyle. You always want to look on point and have a “freestyle mentality” everywhere you go. And the best way to do that is to stay in the affluent/business/financial areas of your city as much as you can.
Go grocery shopping there. Wash your car there. Get your Starbucks there. Do everything there.
Personally, I like to freestyle in the mornings and afternoons. A guy can’t talk to me forever in the middle of the day, and I can say hello, make some small talk, get that business card and bounce.
Yes, I like to pretend like my phone is updating in the middle of the day too lol.
If you have to plan your freestyling days, then I would encourage you to set aside an entire day to freestyle. Don’t wait until at night. Start in the morning at the Starbucks or the gym. Make a quick trip to the bookstore (older men still go to the book store lol). Instead of visiting that restaurant/hotel lobby bar at night, visit it doing BUSINESS LUNCH HOURS.
And always be on the lookout for events you can attend. If you can’t afford to attend, ask to volunteer, especially if it’s a charity event. They love volunteers. Plus you get to scope out ALL THE MEN.
And don’t think that the event has to be super expensive to be POT material either. Sometimes they can be those low-key “wine tasting” events they have at the botanical gardens/museums every spring and summer. The best way to find out if it’s POT material is to look at last years event. A lot of times not only will they show pictures but they’ll post the names of people that attended (especially in the society magazines). GOOGLE the men and see if you can find them and what they do for a living (I would recommend using LinkedIn to do this).
Sometimes it can be a long shot, but other times you can find people (especially now that you know what they look like) and it can sometimes give you an idea of the kind of people that will be attending.
If you’re having a difficult time finding events to attend, google “[your city] + society magazine”.
I really hope I was helpful. I wish you all luck with your free-styling endeavors! Stay safe, let a friend/family member know where you’re going to be and remember: Rich men are everywhere.
It’s about that time again! Here are some ads that worked for me in the past.
1. Sophisticated Yet Selective
I carry myself in a sophisticated manner, however, there’s a difference between being confident and conceited and I consider myself as someone who is confident.
I am definitely interested in a long term relationship, someone who understands the concept of a relationship. I am a firm believer in kindness and respect for one another. I believe it’s the mans job to keep his partner happy in all aspects and I just haven’t found him yet.
If you are between the ages of 45-65, then I would love to hear from you. Let’s get acquainted over dinner and a cocktail.
2. Memories Over Mimosas
I am looking for a selective business man who isn’t opposed to meeting for a beverage and discussing a possible relationship that includes traveling, shopping, including in decadent, gourmet meals.
I enjoy private getaways, champagne, and enjoying life’s pleasures without any worries in the world.
3. Cocktails & Company
I am a beautiful, charismatic, outgoing, younger inspiration. It would be great to meet a gentleman who is witty and sharp.
I know how to hold a stimulating conversation followed by a glass of Merlot. You need a woman who’s seductive by nature yet charming and fun to be around.
4. Experience & Indulge
I am in search of a companion/friend and see where it would lead. I am a beautiful woman that can keep you on your toes.
Let’s take a 3 day trip to Vegas and stay at The Wynn or go to Key West, Florida and enjoy a margarita under a Tiki hut. How about somewhere romantic like Paris? I love the setting of a 5 star restaurant which includes a very impressive wine collection and succulent dishes. The world is our playground and I am ready to explore the world with someone very special.
5. Sophisticated Vixen
I am a fan of plays, museums, and traveling.
I am just sassy enough to keep you intrigued and have much to offer someone who would like to enjoy the finer things in life with me. Enjoy laughter and engaging conversations. An entrepreneurial spirit is especially intriguing.
I would like to meet a gentleman.
6. Lonely Lunches & Dull Dinners
Are you a older, successful man? Successful yet lonely every night? Can’t find a woman to spend the special moments with?
If you are interested in providing for a woman that’s worth it, then please take a chance and I promise it’s worth the wait. I would like to see someone that’s serious about creating and capturing special memories.
So let’s meet for a couple of drinks.
7. Charming Young Lady
I am searching for a long term commitment.
I would love to find someone who likes to enjoy life the way I do. Someone who isn’t overbearing or jealous. Most importantly, someone who is secure enough in themselves not to feel challenged by my ambition.
Hopefully, you are sincere and that just needs that extra friend in life that reminds them of how great things can be, I want someone to appreciate the good in life and can be adventurous.
8. Taste of Elegance, Touch of Class
Intelligent, gorgeous and ambitious are a few words that best describes me.
My hobbies/interests include the following:
1. Literature
2. Performing/Fine Arts
3. Traveling
4. Photography
I always have a thirst for knowledge and I am ready to explore.
I would love to meet a man who truly knows how to treat a lady, someone thoughtful and giving and who knows what he wants. I want to be treated with the utmost respect and will make sure that this is reciprocated. Please be a gentleman as I hope chivalry still exists.
9. Dress To Impress
Would you be interested in a woman who is mature and poised? I am seeking a gentleman who is confident, kind and considerate. You must know how to treat a lady.
I have been described as an exotic indulgence. I will always welcome you with a warm, inviting smile along with a bubbly personality.
10. Your Main Attraction
You need a woman who is stunning and a bright, captivating smile. You will never want to take your eyes off of me. Let me accompany you over brunch brunch, happy hour or dinner and we cover topics such as politics and culture and of course, you’ll get to learn more about my future aspirations in life.
The question is, are you up for a challenge?
I will never understand when a woman is confident in herself she’s seen as stuck up or snobby.
Like damn your insecurity is really showing.
Update I’m rich ;)
I want to break something down because the price of pussy is falling daily and I want to change it. This is for anyone charging for sexual favors but specifically sugar babies. CHARGE MORE.
Let me point something out, a man who is 40+ and has a steady career and is wanting a sugar baby/escort should probably have some money, right? Duh. Would you say a net worth of around a million sounds decent? Most of these guys are worth more but lets just use 1,000,000 for example. So this guy, worth a million, still making income on top of that million wants you, and you charge 500. Why? Do you realize that is less than .1% of the resources he has access to? Do you realize you could charge him 5000 per meet and it still would’t even be 1% of his finances? I see beautiful women constantly selling themselves short and we all need to change it together. If you all slowly but surely start to raise your rates, guess what? Supply and demand will come in to play. The problem currently is there are way too many girls who will take these bullshit 300 per meet offers. A man who truly has only 300 to offer you per meet has absolutely zero business speaking to you or any sex worker, truly. Anything less than 1k an hour to me is ridiculous and I want it to be ridiculous to you too. I want the new normal to be 5k per meet, 20k allowances, Louboutins on the first date. I want to change it but I can’t change it all on my own, we have to change it together girls.
Male Lawyers are the most insecure men I have ever met.
My Twitter is to grow my business not another provider. (No offense)
I repost other girls shit and they never repost mine. Which I don’t even care but I notice it. So this is why I’m limiting my Rts. I created it to interact with my clients.
Where are all the hoes at? 🤣
I was reading this article by Dr. Nick Neave in which he explains how we are born predisposed to search for the best partner, because all of our ancestors before were doing the exact same things.
Females are smaller and weaker than males, so, in prehistoric times, women and their offspring were prone to being the victims of predators and violence. They needed the support and protection of men who didn’t just have brute force but also had social status in the group, either through their sheer physicality or the strength of their personality. That’s why women still look for a mate of higher social standing. If a woman had a relationship with a socially dominant male, she would immediately get greater access to resources because her social standing would be elevated, too. As we shall see, modern surveys consistently show that women today ape [no pun intended?] those inherent characteristics by looking for partners who are socially dominant and have the respect of their peers, paying close attention to how men interact with, and are treated by, other men.
When couples meet at speed-dating events, typically a man will judge a woman on her looks and youth. His priorities are whether she’s healthy, interested in sex, and can give him children one day. He doesn’t care how much she earns or her social status. Typically, however, a woman’s first question will be: ‘What job do you do?’ It sounds a friendly overture, but what she really wants to know is his social position and earning capacity. Is he an industrious, hard worker, capable of providing for her and their children? Because of his power, even the ugliest politician on the planet has women lining up to go to bed with him… As American statesman Henry Kissinger put it: “Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.”
Women will pick the powerful over the sexy. Neave goes on to quote a study in which the researchers presented women with photographs of men. The first group, described as doctors, wore designer ties, smart shirts, and sported Rolex watches. The second wore plain shirts and Swatch watches and were described as teachers. The third group wore Burger King uniforms. Women repeatedly picked doctors as potential boyfriends — even though many of the men in the third category were actually more handsome. To women, a man’s looks are less important than earning power and social standing.
It’s much less likely that a rich woman, or even a woman of average wealth, would be willing to reproduce with a poor man. He will not be able to support her during pregnancy and help her raise a healthy child. It’s better for a woman to be with a richer man, no matter how ugly he is. Similarly, beautiful women tend to have beautiful children. And the thing about beautiful children is that people treat them better. Not just adults, but also peers and teachers.
Everyday, Black women and girls are missing and either never found or found dead.
Say HER name.
15 year old JOY LYNN. She is missing from Dallas, Texas. The police aren't doing anything, so please, if you suspect anything, found a clue, or whatever, come forward.
Here’s my thing: sex workers are a luxury. Not everyone is supposed to be able to afford luxuries.