one of the most common reasons to why people fail to manifest their desires isn’t necessarily because they fail to "manifest it correctly" but because they don’t even start to assume a new reality for themselves.
the question is, why do people wait so long to take mental action? scarcity is a reason most are familiar with. being afraid to make a move towards your desire especially when the possibility of failure exists. some feel insecure or overwhelmed and don't think they are mentally prepared for big changes. some feel uncertain about what they really want. some are used to their current circumstances, they refuse to get uncomfortable and would rather endure unpleasant feelings. and some have limiting beliefs hindering them from fully realising their potential.
you don't need your desires in physical form in order to feel its associated feelings. you don't need proof of it. not only because you long for the FEELING of having your desire and not your desire itself, but because the 3D could never change on its own. the 3D looks at you for validation, and not the other way round. you are the only evidence you need and your imagination has always been the validation for everything in your life. you are self sabotaging yourself if you rely on changes from without and built your faith upon things you can perceive with your senses. this way, you will keep letting the outer world define how much you can have within yourself.
if you keep waiting for the world to change so you have an "excuse", a "permission" or a "reason" to finally change as well, you will be stuck in a cycle that will constantly repeat itself as you will remain as you are. if you won't take action from within, you will forever remain in a state of stagnation, feeling unsatisfied with the way life turns out to be. additionally, waiting for outer movement can also be a form of conditioning your desires.
stop waiting and living in desire. realise that imagination is the only reality and allow yourself to give yourself your desires. don't expect to be saved when you can be your only saviour. and remember, you can't change what's inside with what's outside. only if you, from WITHIN, are willing to change, you can alter the physical.
so, what are you waiting for? why not feel the way you would want to feel? why not feel beautiful, loved, successful, healthy, intelligent and wealthy? why not start today? there is no reason for why you should deny yourself to feel these feelings. don't hold back, don't resist and no longer hesitate to finally fulfill yourself, rather than expecting the 3D to change on its own (which it can't, never did and never will).
it's important that you always keep in mind that you don't change once your 3D changes. you only really change if you change from within, not from without.
with love, ella.
Defining Your Space: The empowering journey of setting boundaries.
In life’s chaos, boundaries are your armor—they protect your energy and nurture your sense of self. Discover how embracing boundaries can transform your daily life into an act of self-love. Here's how to bring this powerful art into your routine:
Define Your Non-Negotiables: List your core values—what fuels your spirit? Knowing your must-haves makes it easier to set boundaries that reflect your essence.
Practice the Power of No: Begin with small declines. “No” doesn’t need to be elaborate; it’s a complete sentence. Rehearse it until it flows effortlessly.
Speak Clearly: When asserting your limits, clarity is key. Use confident language: “I can’t take on new projects right now.” This leaves no room for misinterpretation.
Establish Time Limits: In situations where you must engage, set a graceful exit. Decide how long you’ll stay, honoring your need for personal time without feeling trapped.
Reassess Regularly: Life shifts, and so can your boundaries. Take time to reflect on what’s working and what needs adjustment. Flexibility is a strength.
Anticipate Resistance: Not everyone will embrace your boundaries right away. Stand firm, knowing your well-being comes first. It’s okay to advocate for yourself.
Lead with Grace: When you honor your limits, you inspire others to do the same. Be the beacon of healthy boundaries in your circle.
Reflect on Your Journey: After setting a boundary, indulge in a moment of reflection. Journaling your thoughts can illuminate the impact and reinforce your commitment to self-care.
Setting boundaries isn’t just about saying “no”—it’s about reclaiming your space and honoring your journey. Embrace the freedom it brings, and let it transform your relationships and your life.
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Signs You Are Vibrating Higher 👼☁️🤍✨
• People are drawn to your energy.
• You attract opportunities and experiences.
• Your intuition and gut feelings guide you effectively.
• You have a strong sense of purpose.
• You find it easy to let go of negative emotions.
• You manifest your intentions and goals effortlessly.
• You have a deep connection with the universe.
• Animals feel safe around you.
• Kids like you.
• Strangers confide in you.
• The energy in the room shifts when you walk in.
• You irritate toxic people just by being yourself.
"eat the frog" is a popular time management technique that comes from a quote attributed to mark twain: "eat a live frog first thing in the morning, and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day." in the context of productivity, the "frog" represents your most challenging or important task of the day—the one you're most likely to procrastinate on.
identify your frog: at the start of each day, determine the most crucial task you need to accomplish. this should be something that has a significant impact on your goals but may not be the most enjoyable or easy task.
tackle it first: instead of putting it off, focus on completing this task before anything else. by tackling it first, you can get it out of the way and prevent procrastination.
break it down: if the task seems overwhelming, break it into smaller, manageable steps. this makes it less daunting and allows you to make steady progress.
avoid distractions: minimize distractions while you're working on your "frog." turn off notifications, close unnecessary tabs, and create a focused work environment.
reward yourself: once you've completed the task, reward yourself with a break or something enjoyable. this positive reinforcement can help build a habit of tackling challenging tasks first.
reduces procrastination: by tackling the hardest task first, you eliminate the temptation to procrastinate and delay important work.
boosts productivity: completing a significant task early in the day can give you a sense of accomplishment and momentum to tackle the rest of your to-do list.
improves focus: knowing that you have to address the most important task first can sharpen your focus and attention.
stress reduction: getting the most daunting task out of the way can reduce stress and mental burden, making the rest of the day feel more manageable.
remember, the key is to prioritize your most important tasks and tackle them head-on. if you have any specific tasks in mind or need help with prioritizing, feel free to share!
i hope this post is helpful! ❤️nene
₊⊹⁀➴ princess-like beauty affs ⟡﹒⪩⪨ 👛
🌸 I’m literally the most prettiest person on the planet. people stare at me in awe because of how jaw droppingly delicious I look
🎀 my skin is always smooth, clear, and glowy asf. people literally mistake me for a mirror because of my pretty radiant skin
🌸 I am naturally the most attractive in the room, I don’t even have to try but I mog everyone even without makeup on
🎀I love how I can get lost in my face in the mirror bc im that pretty and cute, im so easy to stare at, im undeniably perfect
🌸 I have long luscious lashes and the most beautiful facial structure that makes me look like a living daydream, every part of me is captivating, uniquely sexy nd perfect
🎀 pretty privilege is a real thing and im having a blast, ppl cant say no to my pretty face and charm which allows me to attract any person i want, im spoiled like a princess
🌸 im extremely photogenic and look amazing in every single photo, like every photo naturally makes me look 100x more attractive
🎀 everyone is smitten over my beauty and everyone compares my face to that of a heavensent angel
Exercise. Avoid drama, embarrassments & toxic people. Look amazing. Get smarter. Embrace peace. Eat clean. Make a ton of money. Level up your circle. Stay pure. Be untouchable. Talk less. Be magnetic & intuitive. Pray more. Think highly of yourself. Be the most precious creature on earth, protected by God.
Self care ideas ೄྀ࿐ ˊˎ
• Make yourself a cozy, warm beverage (I love tea and dark hot chocolate)
• Be active. Walk, run, bike, weightlifting, yoga, swim, calisthenics, pilates, dance, whatever! 💪
• Clean your room and look into feng shui
• Meditate, relax, and breathe for a moment 🧘♀️
• Lay in bed…. (Sometimes a girl needs to rest, okay?)
• Face mask, under-eye masks, face oils, vitamin C and E, aloe, gua sha, face massage. (you guys knew it was coming 🤷♀️)
• Dress up (fashion showwwww 😽😽) and prepare your outfits for the week
• Make a cute, healthy, satisfying treat