Why Is Nobody Pointing Out How Deku Is AGAIN Projecting The Things He Needs To Do In Others???

Why is nobody pointing out how Deku is AGAIN projecting the things he needs to do in others???

What I mean is, he is literally telling Shigaraki he is just hiding the bad stuff under a rug but he will take it, because he can't just pretend nothing can be done about the past of the way it affects him... honey look yourself in a mirror too! The trauma of being quirkless in a quirkish (?) world, being rejected by the ppl you care and admire, the bullying, all the anger he has deep inside, the hero complex and dependency on a quirk in order to have value on himself, trouble with his identity outside of potential All Might 2.0 yet having trust in the fact he will make it somehow, etc.

Idk if he's now dealing with it and we'll see it fully in the next chapters, but it is important to understand his whole issues and stuff while dealing with his nemesis -which could be great for the whole "two sides of the same coin" thing.

He tends to do this too, even back during the sport's festival with Shoto where yeah, he did help him and he was trying to do so, but it looks like that's the way he mainly has been using to deal with his own problems -by not talking about them, but helping others and giving them the advice and reassurance he also needs.

Im once again saying it, Shigaraki needs to have the love of his friends and feel it again, and Deku needs to also get it from the people he cares and loves -not just thru actions. He isn't that far gone as Tomura, ofc, but it never hurts to feel that, specially when you grew up lonely and isolated.