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things that are not selfish:
prioritizing your mental health
saying no
calling in sick to work or school (even if you’re not physically sick)
limiting contact with someone when their issues are affecting your happiness negatively
cutting off toxic people
declining help
setting boundaries for yourself
not immediately responding to texts/calls/emails
ending a friendship or relationship even though the other person “hasn’t done anything wrong”
not donating any money
complimenting and being proud of yourself
treating yourself
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March 17, 2024
If only I could bury all the memories I had from the year 2023, I would
I'm fortunate enough to realize that year was a mess. Someone took advantage of your kindness and, worst of all, used you. They perfectly show how much they care for you, but it turns out it was all for a show. They played it all. I should listen to my gut more and follow it. I know there's something wrong with those actions; that's why most of the time I just stare at them blankly, like I didn't know how to react to them. At that time, I just did not know how to express how uncomfortable I am with it, yet I'm still observing them. People I thought I could trust turned out to be secretly harboring feelings of envy toward me. A person I thought was different from the crowd turned out to be one of them.
Another thing: Am I a joke? Am I really a joke? How could they say those words just because they thought I could easily believe in them? How ironic! It turns out it was all a lie. Little did they know, I gave them my benefit of the doubt. Those half-meant jokes aren't even funny, to be honest, and the not-so-sweet words they utter were really bitter and fake. I guess things could be more different if I could react and respond to them frankly every time they made those things a "joke," not just a silent reaction they got from me. Of course, without sounding offensive, don't be like them, lol. Every time those moments crossed my mind, I could laugh it off now and realize they made themselves fools and stupid for doing it. Good thing they didn't get what they wanted from me. I am thinking too that maybe there's really a motive behind to get me to fall for their trap without my knowledge; we don't know. Only God knows all of it. They perfectly played with my emotions and made my mind confused at the same time. I feel betrayed tbh. Now that I am reflecting on all those memories I had from the past, I just let karma do the things for me. As the saying goes, "what goes around, comes around". As Taylor Swift also said, "You play stupid games, you win stupid prizes". Pity them cause I learn that I am not a prize to be won.
Now, I am at a point in my life that you cannot easily trust people around you. It's heartbreaking when someone broke your trust. I must say, "c'est la vie." That's life. Only time heals all wounds. Just learn from those experiences and move on with your own life but never ever ever forget what they did to you. Forgive but never forget.
Yours truly,
Grace 🌻
My mindset? I never demand to be in anyone’s life, I instead allow them to miss out on me. It’s not my job to prove my worth to others when I’m fully secure on who I am and what I have to offer.
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I HOPE
I hope
We will cross our paths again.
And bring my fate
To see you once again
I remember,
I can't even look you in the eyes.
Because whenever I do
I feel butterflies in my stomach.
In four corners of the room
And in the midst of the crowd.
There's only you I haven't spoken to.
Because I'm terrified.
Whenever I see you walk in the hallway
My heart melts.
And the way you flip your hair
It gets me overwhelmed.
We never talked to each other.
But somebody noticed it too.
Frightened for them to realize
I've had a crush on you
I made this poem last year January 5, 2024, to be exact. I thought of doing this when I was remembering how a particular person made me feel overwhelmed every time I saw him, he's my classmate when I was in 1st year at San Juan De Dios Educational Foundation, Inc. - College 😭🫶
I don't think I am easy to define. I have wandering mind and I am not anything that you think I am | 🇵🇭 |
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