Sfw Regression - Blog Posts

happy happy valentine's day!! you all deserve lots of treats and goodies and cuddles hehe

therapy + regression

i really want to tell mine, and i've gotten close before, but i was just never brave enough to do it. and i know that in reality she'd probably accept me. i know it's something we could work through together. i'm just scared that she wouldn't understand or that she wouldn't want to work with me anymore. and then i'd have to find a new therapist and i'd have to come up with a reason why to my parents and UGH. i just wish i could not be so afraid.

does anyone have any advice? >.<

i'm 23 now and birthdays are hard >.<

i don't want to get older. i don't want to be mature and act my age.

i want to be little and small and soft and safe. i want to be loved. i want to feel like i don't have to hide who i am. i want to be able to ask for toys for my birthday again and to have a cute themed party with lots of friends (which i don't have, but that's not the point).

i just want to be small for my birthday. is that too much to ask?

kinda think thonkin about starting an agere business 🤔

i've always wanted to have my own business, and i think it would be so cool to have one based around age regression! i could do downloadable stuff people could print, but also physical stuff like little journals and sticky notes and stickers and maybe planners and t-shirts and eventually onesies and bibs and paci clips!

and it would all be based around making age regression less scary! like, it would help people who aren't age regressors understand what it is and at the same time, help littles have less shame surrounding their regression! i just think that would be so cool!

i just wanna feel small an safe but insted i gotta go to class >.<

Got my very first custom paci made by @/bunnys_baby_shop on instagram! I highly recommend them if you’re looking to get a custom paci made! It wasn’t super expensive and they totally made my vision come to life!!

nervous

i think i want to tell my online friends about my age regression. it's something i've been wanting to do for a while, but i've just been really scared to. but i was giving my friend relationship advice the other day and even though theirs was romantic, i think it still applies to friendship.

i told them that they shouldn't feel like they have to hide parts of themselves from their partner. their partner should love all parts of them without any conditions.

and i just feel like i want to tell them. i want to be able to share this part of me with them. i'm not expecting anything from them. like, i think it's a good thing to try and identify what you want out of telling someone something before you do it. and i think i just want their validation that they'll still be my friend. i don't expect them to babysit me or baby talk with me or anything like that. i just want to feel like i can be myself with them. and having this secret just makes me feel very distant from them and i hate that. i want to feel close to them again and i feel like this might be the way to do it. i'm just scared.

age regression shop

i had a question! if i were to make a shop specifically for age regressors that sold some different stuff, would anyone buy from it? here's some of the things i'm thinking of selling:

custom pacis

paci clips

custom paci containers

embroidered t-shirts

bracelets from embroidery thread

eeeek!!

i met someone on a dating app and when i told them i age regress, they were so nice about it!! they said they know what it is and that if we do end up entering a relationship, they would be okay with being my caregiver as long as i communicate what i need because they've never been a caregiver before. but we had a really nice talk! we called for like an hour to get to know each other and they were so nice and sweet and they're really pretty and i'm so excited to get to know them more! and they only live like an hour away!!

i get so sad when i'm sleepy. i just wish i had someone to hold me and make it all better .

paci customs

does anyone know any specifically sfw instagram and/or etsy sellers who are taking paci customs? i really want one cuz i only have old plain ones i didn't take care of so they're all nasty

im so tired of being big. i dont want to worry about all these things. im too little for them and they make me sad. i just wanna be cuddled and held and hugged and read to and and and

I colored hello kitty!!

considering the idea of making custom pacis and/or paci clips 🤔 I just don't know where to start! any tips would be super cool 😊

colored dis cute picture the other day!! i love the koala hehe 😊

wiggly thing!

i dunno what these are called, but my sister got it for me for my birthday ages ago, and i started playing with it again and it's so fun!! it makes me giggle when it's so slippy and wiggly 😊

stuffie that i got recently!!

him name is briar :3

things that don't make you a bad regressor:

being tall

being fat

being chubby

being muscular

being angular

being too big or heavy to lift up and carry

not being pale

having kinky or curly hair

having imperfect, yellowed, crooked or broken teeth

having body hair or facial hair

any part of your physical appearance. there is no way to “look like” an age regressor.

being trans or genderqueer

being a boy

liking dark or “inappropriate” shows, even while regressed

having dark or “inappropriate” interests, even while regressed (vulture culture, slasher films, etc)

having coping strategies outside of agere

not being able to regress easily

having sexual trauma

using substances, even while regressed

having “inappropriate thoughts” while regressed — you can't exactly control what you think

swearing, even when regressed

having no caregiver

having a fictional caregiver

not wanting a caregiver

telling nobody about your regression

wearing your regression on your sleeve

needing/using diaps for any reason

using mobility aids, even ones people consider “for old people” (they aren't — they're for whoever needs them)

not being nostalgic for your childhood, or preferring modern children's media compared to what was out when you were little

or being very nostalgic, wanting only to engage with things that came out when you were little

regressing to an older age, like 10 or 12 or 16

choosing/controlling when you regress

not being able to control when you regress

literally anything that gatekeepy tumblrinas and aesthetic pinterest accounts try to force on you. your regression is yours, and you aren't doing it wrong.

just your daily reminder that the gear you use does not have to align with your little age!

if you're a kiddo regressor but you like to use pacis and wear onesies thats cool and awesome. if you're a baby regressor but you like to wear pretty dresses and makeup thats also cool and awesome. dont be afraid to use gear that "doesnt make sense for your age"!! the only requirement to use gear is that it makes you happy and helps you regress.

all your stuffed animals love you. they're not sad if they're in a box, or on the floor, or not held/played with as much. they understand. they know that you might need another stuffie more, or that you don't have enough space. they're just happy to be with you, and if you ever give them away, they'll be happy there too. stuffies are for comfort. they understand. they love you too. it's okay.

another tweenre outfit because I love making em…this one’s mostly based on ages 11-12& being a weeaboo on the interweb in the 2000s/early 2010s!!

(i really like this one like really really like…)

studio ghibli!!