If You Only Take One Piece Of Advice From Me,

if you only take one piece of advice from me,

i would like it to be to stop being so hard on yourself.

for a while i kept wondering why every single time I do a challenge or a routine where I’m consistently affirming for something, things would start to get bad.

& for the longest time, many of us in a way were taught to dismiss our “negative” emotions for the sake of getting into “the state”.

when those “bad” feelings come up, we tell ourselves

“that’s a bad thought. you can’t think that way. it is not aligned with your manifestation.”

ahh yes. so enjoyable to dismiss our own feelings. this appears to be a job fit for either an obedient pet or robot, and last time I checked, everyone on here was neither.

i kept trying to understand why things kept getting worse and worse when I doing “all the right things” by the book.

& then I realized it was because I was trying to force myself to become this perfect person so that I could therefore have my desires, so that I could therefore be fulfilled. why did I expect myself to be perfect, but my person and my friends didn’t have to be..?🤔

how is never allowing myself to be human and then throwing a bunch of “I’m the hottest and I love myself” affirmations having the ideal self-concept? It’s not. a true high self-concept to me is being genuinely nice to yourself, and allowing yourself to feel the things that you feel because you are, once again, not a robot. I genuinely was waiting for my every single insecurity to disappear as an indicator of a good self-concept. Not allowing myself to BE HUMAN. that’s why these shitty feelings kept popping right tf back up over and over again, no matter how many times I decided I was going to “ignore it.”

i believe letting yourself feel those scary emotions are propelling you towards your desires, as you are genuinely letting go of the old self this way. cry it out. whatever the emotion is that won’t go tf away, let yourself feel it. then you can reparent yourself and remind yourself that you are only human, so it is normal to feel this way sometimes, but guess what? you are still hundred percent getting everything you want regardless. you will not stay sad about these things forever once you realize that they are not stopping you from getting what you want. they’re literally just trying to find their way out of your body.

and for those manifesting an SP.. would you criticize your SP for feeling sad? or would you soothe them and love them anyway? why can’t you get the same treatment?

be kind to yourself, always <3

well needed reminders:

You can shift and manifest on rough days.

It is possible to get what you want.

It doesn't have to be incredibly hard to get what you need.

You always have tomorrow to try again

Life will go on

You carve your own path

People are proud of you. Even if they don't know you, there is somebody out there today, who read your post, or saw you, and thought "that person is so cool."

The work is worth it. You are worth your own effort.

It's okay to be uncertain you've shifted or that your manifestations won't happen or are real. That's okay. What matters is persisting you've had it.

You are everything, all at once. You are endless. You are.

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yyyiy1i

1 year ago

the version of you who has and is everything you want is one assumption away. assume boldly. you have the final say because you have the only say.

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yyyiy1i

1 year ago

Success Stories 💌

Anon Successes:

💋 Manifested problems away

💋 Void Success With Distraction Technique (Manifested dream life)

💋 Void Success Story

+ manifested dream life

💋 Void Success Story

💋 Manifested parcels arriving quicker

💋 Manifested her ex texting and calling her back

💋 Manifested electricity back on

💋 Found maths test easy without studying

💋 Manifested smart watch

💋 Manifested new home

💋 Manifested somethings to happen + void

My Successes:

Manifested Memory Change + 1

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yyyiy1i

2 years ago

real useful things i've realized about loa while i was "resting" from tumblr & overconsumption:

• stop gaslighting yourself, make actual change instead. you know when you're not doing it right. if you spiral, get desperate, dwell in the old story... well, i've got some news. -- this might seem obvious but for me it wasn't. i was super desperate, giving like 1 step forward 50 steps back but i still played blind bc i thought that if i just said "oh no but my mindset doesn't matter" that would solve all my problems. damn

• WHAT WORKS FOR YOU. ik EVERYONE says this but omfg. i can NOT stress this enough. actually find what works for you. i used to think that my key (decide once n keep going with my day) was not a "correct" way to do it bc it made "no sense" or wtv, but now i've manifested a lot of things with that method & i'm so proud of myself for doing so :,,) wdym with "works for you"? whatever makes you confident enough to not spiral, to believe you actually have what you want, to not pay attention to the 3d & doesn't make manifesting feel like chore but something that comes naturally for you is the correct way to do it. trust your feelings, your intuition, yourSelf; they don't lie

• work on your manifesting concept, a.k.a trust in law. we talk a lot about "self" concept but not about "manifesting" concept. for me, i (kind of) believed i could manifest, i just didn't believe 100% in law. i still don't, but i've gotten considerably better!! my best tip to build trust in law was to start manifesting things that were "easier", more archivable, but not happening on a daily basis so i'd know if it was my manifestation turned reality

• stop consuming. not over-consuming but just consuming, literally. don't read neville, don't open tumblr, don't listen to edward nor any other coach! again, this one was obvious to everyone but me. trust me, you already know everything you need. "but i actually put in practice what i read!" yeah, but which one? you read 100 methods everyday. consuming is thinking from the 3d, and long-term it will demotivate you. trust me

• and last one, forget about deadlines. "when will i have it?" now. "where?" here. now and here. keep that mindset, and tbh in one week it'll be done

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yyyiy1i

10 months ago

Stop thinking there is something to do. YOU HAVE IT. JUST ENJOY THE INNER PEACE OF KNOWING ITS YOURS.

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yyyiy1i

1 year ago

Shifting is as easy as breathing.

I never understood that, because how was something so extreme so easy?

I get it now. Shifting is basically just tricking your mind into thinking you’re going to wake up somewhere different, so you do. You can rely on your subconscious to do the hard stuff like remembering the details you want. All you really have to do is put your mind in a different space. You could blink with the intent of being in another place and be there within (literally) a blink of an eye. At the base of it all, it’s literally just thinking. All you’re doing is thinking.

Shifting is as easy as thinking.

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yyyiy1i

8 months ago

notice how most of the successful shifting story times are people saying ‘i gave up and just went to bed’, ‘i just took a nap’, ‘i just affirmed and fell asleep’.

mhm. mhm. fuck methods, all you need is yourself!

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