Hozier at The Hotspot, Greystones, February 15th 2013 📸 Sean Rowe
“everybody loves jem carstairs, he’s impossible to dislike” i say into the mic
nobody boos. everybody cheers, will and tessa applauding the loudest because it’s true, james carstairs is universally adored and has no faults.
Magnus in TMI: I only help you because of Alec
Also Magnus: Helping Shadowhunters since the 19th century
watching supernatural like
life would be sooo good without my curse
i love my gallery. like all the beautiful snapshots of the places i’ve been to, people i’m in love with, random memes to send when i don’t know what to reply, screenshots of my friends saying the vilest stuff, clicks of my parents laughing on rare occasions, wallpapers that i’ve never installed, and henry cavil
Little kids are so excited to press the button when they get into a lift
So I always make sure I press it before them because life is all about pain and disappointments
Eshe Radhika ke daddy pane ke liye kitne somvar ke vrat krne padte hai ???????
will's ghost looking down on jace when he says "to love is to destroy and to be loved is to be destroyed":
Let me elaborate. So.
One thing that's always irked me is that many men see women as potential partners first and as individual human beings with valuable thoughts second. They evaluate whether she's attractive or not, whether she's worth keeping around- if she's not willing to enter a relationship at some point in the future, she's not. It's becoming so blatantly clear when you see how many men complain about the "friendzone" because they simply cannot fathom being friends with a woman and spending time without the promise of sex or a relationship.
Then we have Jesper Fahey. He flirts with just about everyone and he's an absolute whore, and of course he compliments women and evaluates whether he finds them attractive or not, it's normal; but he's able to keep women around AS FRIENDS. He compliments Nina's looks the very first time he sees her, but he doesn't need or expect a relationship with her. They're just buddies, they value each other, and they value each other's thoughts and ideas. Sure, you could say it's because he knows that she and Matthias have a weird thing going on, but if he didn't respect her as a human being the way so many flirtcoaches (🤢🤮) do, he'd talk to Matthias more than to her, and only talk to her if it's necessary since she's taken and not part of "the game" anymore. That's not the case. Nina didn't suddenly become invisible for him just because he knew a fling was off the table.
And Inej? He LOVES her in the most platonic way and it's beautiful. They have such an unbreakable bond, and at no point of it does Jesper see the metaphorical unattainable carrot dangled in front of his face when it comes to her.
Hell, he's literally stuck in the "brotherzone" with Kaz, who he canonically has a crush on, but does he complain?? NO, this is good enough for him, because he cares about and values the men and women in his life, whether they're attractive to him or not, OUTSIDE of what they can do for him. He sees them as PEOPLE. Not as assecoires that elevate his status as a man.
He's the prime example of "You can be a player without disrespecting women". I want a friend like Jesper Fahey.
anyway