Thank You! Is It Okay If You Could Give Me A Bit Of Advice? I Think I Want To Take The Suggestions I’ve

Thank you! Is it okay if you could give me a bit of advice? I think I want to take the suggestions I’ve read on free styling for more of a spoiled girlfriend route instead of being a sugar baby but I’m going to start free styling this weekend and I wanted to know if you had any other important suggestions you would like to offer.

Note: I want to add that this person sent me a personal message (before sending me this ask) so I will be a addressing a few things that weren’t included in the ask.

My biggest suggestion to you is to remember that free-styling is usually a numbers game. You may not hit it big on your first day/night out so don’t give up on your first try. The first few times you’re out free-styling is really just about you getting use to it and getting comfortable with talking to men. A lot of girls give up on free styling too soon because they didn’t reap any rewards the first or second time they tried. DON’T BE THAT GIRL. Don’t give up on it.

Now onto my suggestions:

Plan ahead. Pick out the places you’re going to visit ahead of time (don’t wait until Thursday night to start looking). I like to pick out a few places to go to that are all close to one another or a place that may have multiple bars/lounges/etc. That way if one place is dead (or I need to get away from a man) my entire night isn’t a total bust because I have multiple places/areas to go to.

Be sure to look at the photos (my favorite place to do this is Yelp because people aren’t trying to stunt on Yelp like they do on IG lol) get an idea of the kind men that frequent this establishment (look at how they’re dressed). You may also get an idea of the attire you should be wearing (if you were unsure).

A quick note on attire: I personally like to dress a bit more on the “conservative” side when I free-style; instead of a mini skirt, it’s knee length, makeup may be the “bombshell” look (especially if I’m going out at night), but it’s done in more neutral colors, etc.

Look at the menu. Aim for places that are $$$ or $$$$ on Yelp, Open Table, TripAdvisor. Even better is to look for places that are recommended for business travelers (if that’s your type). Knowing what you’re going to order ahead of time also makes things easier (I’m one of those people that will read the entire menu 3 days before I go lol).

Have some money with you. Enough to at least buy yourself 2 drinks and a tip. Hopefully you won’t need it, but you never know. Sometimes it’s a slow night, and this is just my personal opinion but I feel like if you’re sitting at a bar with a glass of water or club soda and lime, it’s a tell-tale sign to a trained eye that says “I have no money and I’m waiting on someone to buy me a drink.”

Be nice to bartender/waitress. Make some small talk during the “down” times when you don’t have any POTS to talk to. The bartender/waitress may end up being your best resource when it comes to free styling. Remember, they work here and they know everyone that comes here. And when they see a pretty woman sitting at the bar they’re already halfway assuming that you’re there to catch a man with money. And in this case, the stereotype works in our favor. Usually if you’re nice to them (and tip them well) they’ll be nice to you and “tip” you well. They’ll let you know the best day to do your “hunting” and they’ll let you know who you should avoid and you should chat up.

Also, know when to leave the bar/lounge/lobby. Sometimes it’s just a bad night. Maybe the bartender is being an ass or you’re not meeting any POTs. Pay for your drink and just try another place. Don’t feel like you’re stuck to one place just because it was your first choice.

Now, I know that you were nervous about what to actually say so I’m going to make another post about what to do once you’ve gotten a guy’s attention!

Sugar Baby Tip: Allowance Talk

$1k/month= $12k/yr after tax is the same value of $17k/yr before tax

$3k/month= $36k/yr after tax is the same value of $51k/yr before tax

$5k/month= $60k/yr after tax is the same value of $ $86k/yr before tax

$10k/month= $120k/yr after tax is the same value of $171k/yr before tax

WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

$1K/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $85k/yr

$3k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $255k/yr

$5k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $430k/yr

$10k/month= SD/SM NEEDS a GROSS income of at LEAST $855k/yr

WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

Gross Income= the total amount a person makes before taxes.

So BEFORE discussing allowance ask your suitor the EXACT TITLE of their profession. You don’t have to ask for the company they work for blah, blah, blah, because then they may think you’re crazy/stalker type. Let them voluntarily release sensitive information like that or pick it up in context clues.

Once you have the title, research it. Do A LOT of research. If they bring up allowance before you have had time to research their profession, give them some bs excuse like ” I know it’s a sensitive topic, but also relative to our relationship, but for now let’s continue to get to know each other to make sure we are compatible and the allowance will follow.” It gets you brownie points and untitles you money hungry b****, even though we all are secretly. Lolz. But you know what I mean

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thinrichbich

2 years ago

I’m back

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thinrichbich

5 years ago

About the corona virus

When I was a freshman in highschool my grandma would constantly remind us that a famine or virus will rise upon us. She would say that we are truly living in the last days. She predicted a drought, War and diease will wipe out majority of the human population. I always brushed it off thinking she was just some crazy old lady. But now as all these events are starting to unfold I’m starting to believe her.. I’m not saying I’m some crazy spiritual god fearing Christian. But it’s interesting people that have a strong spiritual presence with god or whatever they believe in predicted this stuff will happen eventually. My grandma been stacking up toliet paper, Canned goods, water, non perishable items, weapons, etc for years.

With that being said I’m still going to be a escort and travel for work. If my time come and I die from whatever virus comes upon me then I’m ok with it. I will not live in fear and stop making my money. I don’t really believe the whole ordeal is that bad. I feel like practicing basic hygiene is enough not to get sick. Plus there’s other worse viruses or diseases that can affect your body. But It just mind boggles me how everything she said 4 years ago have come to light. She even said most of this shit will start happening around 2019-2020. All I know if shit does get crazy I know my ass will be good. We stocked up for a couple of years due to her preparing over the years.

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thinrichbich

5 years ago

In case anyone is interested in the diet/cut I do before photo shoots this is it.

*disclaimer* this is not the healthiest thing ever to do and if you don’t have experience cutting weight this might be extreme for you

(0 alcohol and processed foods during all of this)

Day 1