Upon HEAVY MEDITATION, My Guide Will Be 100% Free. As I Write It, I Realize Life Is All About Chance

Me to myself:

Bitch it’s Monday make money

Eros ain’t shit with these prices. My 180 ad is now $300 and up.

Taking out my implants, focusing on getting skinny and entering the game again :)

Top Three Places To Freestyle

1. Steakhouses

Who doesn’t like a medium to medium well Filet Mignon with a glass of champagne? Your best days to go are on Wednesday, Thursday or Friday.

2. Cigar Lounges

Cigar lounges has an specific type of ambiance that draws attention, not to mention, you will get a different type of crowd and the crowd I’m talking about are men from foreign countries. Think about the men from Dubai, Italy etc. These men are often in groups of 6 or more due to personal experiences, men from foreign countries are often generous.

3. Hotel Lounges

Whether you would like to go to The W for Happy Hour or Four Season, just know that when you go to a hotel that has a bar, it’s a no brainier that these men are visiting, therefore these men are great to interact with simply because they are traveling for business or pleasure.

You never know, he may want you to travel with him to his next destination.

Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.

I welcome ALL the ABUNDANCE coming my way✨

Be careful ladies this is why you always screen the person. I instantly found it number as a predator on not just this site but many others. Stay safe ladies 💕

I saw a post that was regarding the dynamics of freestyling, essentially saying that to be successful, you either had to look like a Victoria’s Secret model or to simply be “Asian”, which is not only false, but incredibly stupid, ludicrous, and outright racist - demonstrating that the original poster likely has little practice freestyling and has quite possibly no idea what she’s talking about. Was it written out of frustration of other’s success, insecurity with one’s looks and body type, or was it just an utterly false generalization to justify your failure? Or perhaps all three?

In regards to the content of the aforementioned post:

No.

Absolutely not.

You get to freestyling by embodying a look, by holding a very strong, palpable physical presence, and by implying subtly with your body language that you are sexually available. You freestyle successfully by observing your surroundings and seeing where you can employ your feminine capital best, ideally where you observe men looking for a sexual partner, where there is a greater proportion of men to women, and where you pay attention to those who desire you. The dynamics are not particularly complex. You should always remain unfazed by rejection. There is a very, very, very steep learning curve and you either follow the learning curve, take the hits, embrace the struggle, and demand better from yourself - shape yourself - sell yourself - or you fail and don’t bother improving or acquiring any success.

To imply that by being of a certain look or being a certain race is to automatically acquire success is just to demonstrate complete, utter, and blatant stupidity, an inability to learn, and total absence of attention to the power dynamics at play. The absolute ridiculousness - I would be embarrassed to write such a thing. Those who freestyle most successfully are those who are not only opportunistic and highly observant amongst their surroundings but also ruthless with the standards they put amongst themselves. The best people who freestyle exert extreme and utter discipline with their looks, their body type, the way they move, the way they dress. They put everything on the line. They’re willing to suffer. They do all or nothing. They might starve themselves. They might restructure their whole face. They might buy a whole new body. They might fly across the country, wherever the money goes. They’ll do anything, anything, everything, to get that bag. Do you do that? Do you act the way they do?

There is no “try”. There is no “potential”. There are no “maybe’s”. You either do, or you do not. You either will, or you will not. You either are ready, or you are not.

Stop making excuses for yourself and false statements to justify your mediocrity.

I hate to break it to you, but this lifestyle is highly, highly competitive and it isn’t for everyone - and if you’re not ready to make major sacrifices, regarding your appearance, regarding your diet, regarding your wardrobe, regarding your personality, you may continuously find failure.

And if you continuously find failure, perhaps, the problem, may in fact be you. Perhaps, at your present form, you may not just be good enough. I know, I know, it hurts to admit that after coddling your ego for so long. Simply put: you’re just beat out by the competition. You’re just not invested enough or observant enough to truly enter the game. You’re just not inputting the right effort at the right time. Scrambling to put the puzzle together under the clock, and missing every time. Running in the rat race but failing to take the short cut and wondering why you continuously get outperformed. You say you want it; you talk about it all the time; you think about it. But at the end of the day, what do you procure? Nothing.

Bag remains unsecured.

Run your mouth about acquiring “sponsors.” Tell yourself you’ll be a billionaire trophy wife. Dream and write fiction about becoming an heiress. Fantasize about the peak wealth in Dubai, Monaco, Moscow. But in reality, you could barely even acquire an entry-level benefactor. The average $50K arrangement I mentioned prior, has never, ever, ever, even come close to your personal orbit - and with the way you act now, the way you look now, the way you are now, would never, ever, ever come your way. Ever. In reality, the upscale men in those premier locations wouldn’t even fuck you for free, let alone pay you for sex. In reality, you’ve never even met a billionaire, never had a billionaire even look at you twice, never even been acquainted with a billionaire, never had an arrangement with a billionaire... what makes you think you could marry one again?

Rather than making blatant and inaccurate generalizations or attempting to falsely justify your failure, your resentment and obvious envy may be better channeled into self-improvement. A desperate attempt to salvage a wrecked self-esteem, as you wonder and wonder and wonder why nothing big comes your way. As you wonder why every time you go out, you get ignored and come home with nothing. You get one pathetic simp to follow you around, you get one beta buck bit-player to abide by you, you get one man to entertain your entry-level luxury requests, and you feel like you know everything - and you couldn’t even entertain them for long; they left you soon. Then talk big talk online, spew false information from your desperate insecurities, act like you know it all, act like you’ve seen it all - when really, all you know is the tip of the iceberg.

Or maybe, just quit.

I would say my blessing but i believe in the evil eye. Soooo

Sugaring 101: Upping your bedroom game with some sensuality and simple escort tricks.

*** Warning: Only try this with the sugardaddies you actually like and feel some attachment too. And definitely trust ***

Please heed the warning or you will crash and burn if you attempt the following.

PREPARE YOUR MEETING PLACE: If you’re regularly meeting at a hotel room, get daddy to get you a prepaid card so that you can go ahead and rent the room ahead of your visit. This will save him the trouble of doing it and allow you a chance to control your interaction. A lot of escorts do this for that very same reason: control.  For him, the businessman or exec who’s dealing with all kinds of shit this takes some pressure off him. What you have to understand about a successful man is that he’s always under pressure. He’s getting beat to shit daily from work, life, and home and he’s probably middle-aged meaning half of daddy’s life is already gone. Daunting. You need to be the calming voice in his life. When he gets there, of course be in your best lingerie, smelling good, etc, with the sheets pulled back on the bed. Or, answer the door naked, in a pair of red bottoms, etc. Or, ask to keep one of his ties for a souvenir on a previous date and when your next visit at the room arrived, have it on and nothing else.

If you host your visits at your residence, then ask daddy what kind of snack he likes. Fruit? Have some strawberries or grapes waiting for him when he comes over. He likes wine, etc.,? Have a glass poured. You can enjoy glass too. Its ok. If you have a problem drinking with daddy, refer to my warning above. :)

RELAX HIM: Give daddy a massage. Not an hour, just 10 minutes to break him down. This is a good time to ask for shit. If he has dry skin, bring some oil in your purse. First rub his back, making sure you’re getting in between those shoulder blades, etc. Skip the legs, lower torso etc. Unnecessary. He’s tense from meetings and conference calls all day. Turn him over and rub him briefly on his chest before you work your way down to his love zone. Rub his dick and don’t forget the boys. When he’s nice hard, start fellatio (if you do fellatio).  If he doesn’t want a massage or doesn’t have time that’s cool. You need to put it out there anyway. 

Time taken: 7 - 10 minutes

LAY YOUR HEAD ON HIS CHEST: After sex, cuddle up next to him and lay your head on his chest. If he has little or no hair this will be easy. If he’s a hairy bastard you might find another place to lay your head but the goal is to cuddle him. Use the hair to your advantage and play with it as you lie there. Twist it in your fingers or some shit. Make him feel like he just pleased you in every way possible. He probably didn’t, but it’s all about the fantasy. This is easy to do if you like him. Refer to my warning above! Say something meaningful like, “That was good daddy.”  If you have psychological hang-ups about calling him daddy then say “That was good baby..”  or “Mmmm I needed that.” All too often chicks are just lying there side by side with him in her own world. You can remain in your own world just do it cuddling him. This is also a good habit to have when you get married. :) 

Time taken: Not applicable

CLEAN HIM UP: Grab a warm damp warm towel, and remove the condom. Wipe up his penis and go put the condom in the toilet. If no condom was used, you can still clean him up if his penis is about stick to his leg. If  he’s caught off your guard, or ask what you’re doing, tell him “I’m just taking care of you daddy…” I got this one from several Escorts I’ve seen over the years. Trust me. You want some brownie points? Try it a few times. You can even be cute about it and say, “Gosh, you had a lot in there.” Or my FAVORITE “….I see you’ve been saving up for me. You had a lot!” The latter is perfect for you babies seeing daddy once a week. When you’re done cleaning him up, lay back on him. This is also another good time to ask for shit. 

Time taken: 30 - 45 seconds

TASTE IT: Now I might lose a few of you here but it’s my duty to put it out there anyway.  While you cleaning him up, put a forefinger in your mouth and say, “Mmm you taste good.” He might pass the hell out. If you’re good at this he won’t know you don’t actually have some cum on your finger. Hopefully, some of you catch what I mean on the latter. :) Or, if you swallow anyway then nothing is wrong with a little protein on your finger and tasting it.

Time taken:  2 seconds

PUT HIS SHIRT ON: If you’re going to be in the hotel room awhile, try this one out. This will kill him. If he wears good smelling cologne capitalize on it. With the shirt on, pull the collar up to your nose and say, “Mmm I love your smell daddy…” You won’t be lying if he wears good cologne. Chances are you already noticed his cologne but you were too much of a bitch to say you smell good. This is the sexiest shit EVER though. Nothing cuter than your 110, 120, 150 lbs ass in his big ass shirt. One of my previous sugarbabies used to do this. Drove me crazy.

Oh and congratulations!!!! Now he’s going to be thinking about you the rest of the day. You’ve inadvertently left your perfume on his shirt. Now he’s gonna be smelling your pretty little ass the rest of the day. Just don’t leave any lipstick!

Take a selfie with the shirt on. Send it to him days later in between your visits.

Time taken: 10 seconds to put on his shirt. Time elapsed before he wants to take it back off and fuck again: 60 seconds. Likelihood of you getting that Celine purse: High.

HELP HIM GET DRESSED: This one is especially important for the busy executive, businessman or man that works in a professional setting and he’s on his lunch break, or on his way home to his vanilla life. No, don’t help him pull his trousers up. But you can help with the belt as you kiss him on the chest. I’m saying as he buttons his shirt, go help him. Help him button the ones on his sleeves as well. And most important help put his tie back on and straighten it and his collar afterwards. Then finish it with a kiss. If you don’t get a chance to do all that, then collect his shoes and socks and bring them to him. Don’t’ try and put those on - that’s just corny. You’ll love his reaction I promise.

Time taken: 30 – 45 seconds

CUDDLE HIM: Recently, I learned something about myself. I read somewhere that one of the reasons why I cheat is because I as a man want to be cuddled and held. I thought this was bullshit but it’s quite true.  I know this is contrary to all the SD advice you’ve been getting but take it from a long standing member of the sugar community its true. I’ll explain this one better by giving a real life example. Now when I would first come over, Nebraska and I would sit on her bed and talk and she’d find some way to wrap her legs around and hug me like I was her long lost boyfriend. I was going through some things and it felt good for somebody in this world to seemingly take an interest in my plight. Then, she’d just sit there and stare at me like I was a big piece of steak. Staring at my mouth. When I’d talk too long she’d start taking off my clothes. While she was getting me undressed, she was always say one of these 3 things:  “ I know you didn’t’ come here to do all that talking…” or “You just gonna talk?” or my favorite “Or we gonna fuck or not daddy?” One day, after sex I was sitting on the bed and she climbed on the bed, sat down behind me so that I was in between her legs. As I was talking so she kissed me gingerly on my back and also laid her head on my back as we talked.  This shit made me feel like a king. When Nebraska and I ended our arrangement she said, “Well I was actually genuinely interested in you…” This is why I mentioned only try these techniques when you have some type of genuine attraction to daddy. Its easier to do and you won’t be faking which will speak volumes.

Time taken: none. You were going to be doing all this talking anyway, just on one side of the bed or side by side as you sat on the bed. The difference here is you’re cuddling him while you do it.  

Now, I’m about to drop half of you right here.

LET HIM CUM TWICE: You’re laying there in his arms, listening to his bullshit. Reach down and play with his love while he’s talking. After a moment ask, “You got another round in you daddy?” Regardless of his answer, go down and start blowing him again. It should be cleaned if you followed my advice earlier – clean him up. Anyway, if he said no, he’ll appreciate your dedication and let you try and revive him before he stops you. If he says yes, then its self explanatory.  Relax though. Your middle-aged daddy most likely won’t have a second round in him anyway. This METHOD is extremely effective with the sugarbabies that only see their daddy once a week.  But, for other arrangements its works quite well too.  

A lot of chicks are jumping up, cleaning up and rushing out the door, saying how you have so much to do today. Nothing kills a relationship like feeling like you’re being used (even though you actually are!). But remember, you want him around awhile. This is definitely a powerful tool to make that happen. Sends a clear signal that you’re all about pleasing him. (I hope the latter doesn’t get me in trouble). Trust me. An extra several minutes is cheap time to spend if you knew you’d be getting another 4 - 6 months out of daddy.

Time taken: 5 – 7 minutes

FINISHING TOUCHES: Put the finishing touches on it. When you’ve helped him finish getting dressed, and you know he’s on his way back to work or back to business, when he heads out the door say something encouraging like, “Go get’em baby.“ Or if he told you about some crap going on at work, take the opp to regurgitate it. “Fuck Bob. He’s an asshole. You should have got the promotion.” blah blah. You get the point. The latter can be applied even as you both do a last kiss before you head out the door. Again, it’s all about the finishing touches.

Time taken: 2 seconds

I know some of you are saying, “I ain’t doing all that shit.” But remember you are selling a fantasy. You’re giving the most precious part of your body away. Only to have your average sugardaddy relationship end in 2 to 3 months? All because he’s had his fill of your kitty. I assure you incorporating these techniques into your visits with daddy will go a long way and add months onto your relationship. This will help keep him coming back for more and more. Another way to put it, why not hook daddy for several months or even a few years and milk him dry (no pun intended) with just a few extra things?

I put the time on the end of these sections to show how long these little techniques actually take. Like I always say just a little extra goes a LONG way. These simple yet EXTREMELY effective techniques WILL prolong your sugar relationship. So why not incorporate them into your experience? I GUARANTEE daddy will respond to this stuff. I know because I’ve had it all done to me before and it blew me away then and it blows me away now as I type!

Damn I’m horny now. And my visit with sugarbaby isn’t for a few days.

Time to close the office door and get in a little pornhub and redtube.