Your First Time Is NOT Supposed To Hurt

Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt

You are NOT supposed to bleed

If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.

This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.

I just really want women to know this.

More Posts from Sapphic-bottom and Others

5 years ago
This Isn’t Related To My Blog Aesthetic But I’m Tired Of Seeing Posts Where People Are Making Others

This isn’t related to my blog aesthetic but I’m tired of seeing posts where people are making others paranoid that they’re in a coma or something. You’re not. I know lots of us know it’s just a bad “joke,” but some people don’t have the luxury of being able to believe that after seeing others tell them otherwise.

You’re awake. Everything is okay.

5 years ago

my dream is to lie in a big bed under a big quilt in a little old stone cottage and it’s sunny out and i can hear the sounds of bird’s singing and feel okay in a big way

5 years ago
That’s Still A Lot Of Trees #EthicalMemes

That’s still a lot of trees #EthicalMemes

6 years ago

why didnt you call the cops or cps?

how about this: when i was 9 and my stepdad beat me until i passed out and i told my friends at school, my teacher over heard and i was interviewed by cps. they also went to my house when i was at school. when i got home, my step father was waiting on the couch, and told me who visited him that day. he told me if i ever snitched again he would beat me to within an inch of my life.

how about this: my mother locked me out of the house when i was 14 and when i cried so loud the neighbors called the cops, the cop told me i should have been respectful of my mother who was trying to sleep.

how about this. the demon you know is less scary than the demon you don’t.

children in abused households are raised to fear the idea of being taken away. children in abusive households see that help makes things worse.

dont you ever blame an abuse victim for not going to the authorities.

5 years ago

When I’m married someday I want to be so in love that our kids are disgusted

6 years ago
Know Their Names And Their Stories.
Know Their Names And Their Stories.
Know Their Names And Their Stories.
Know Their Names And Their Stories.

Know their names and their stories.

5 years ago
sapphic-bottom - Loving Women

femme selfie thread!

If you’re a femme, rb with ur fav selfie. I wanna see your amazing femme beauty💖💕

And this 10000% includes trans femmes! TERFS/radfems fuck off💫💗

Femme Selfie Thread!

🎀🌸🌷

5 years ago

So I found a site that does a subscription box for your period- it sends you basics like hygiene products, pain medication as well as snacks and pampering stuff to make you feel good, 

but the best thing is they have a specialty boxes, like vegan or kosher only snacks but also 

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they specifically offer boxes for menstruating guys and nb folks. 

which is pretty darn cool.

it’s called bonjourjolie and I think it’s 1000% awesome tbh 

6 years ago

marvel dudebros: girls only watch marvel movies for the hot shirtless men

why girls acually watch marvel movies:

Marvel Dudebros: Girls Only Watch Marvel Movies For The Hot Shirtless Men
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