Nonsharing proselfshippers here's your little reminder to take a few minutes off the screen and imagine your f/o / partner holding you close, reminding you that you matter and that your love will always be the most precious to them. They can't imagine being in a world without you, their love for you runs deeper than the blood in their veins, a portion of their beating heart will forever belong to you, even if it weren't beating. No matter how many times they tell you they love you, they mean it more and more every single time. I know it can be tough online for one reason or another, but always remember no matter your circumstances- whether you own merch or you don't, whether you post about your f/o or you don't, whether you're able to make art or you can't, your relationship will always be real and true. Take it easy, they love you so much and nothing will change that.
Big big big shoutout to the proshippers who are in fandoms overrun with antis. Shoutout to you for not letting them completely ruin your love for the media, shoutout to you for being strong and not letting them change you in any way. Shoutout to the ones who simply avoid the fanbase at all costs because of all the antis, shoutout to you for keeping strong even when it's a struggle to interact with fan content. Shoutout to the proshippers who are active in the community even despite all of the antis in the fanbase. Shoutout to the proshippers who can't even interact with ANYTHING in general without being hounded by antis even when the content has NOTHING to do with ship discourse. Shoutout to all proshippers, ily.
That anon had the most atrocious energy so to get rid of those nasty vibes I just wanna say your an amazing person and a beacon of light❤️
You're so sweet, thank you! You're an amazing person as well, and I deeply appreciate this. I hope only positive energy flows your way. Take care and I hope you'll have an amazing day/night <3
Hey so I have a question what's a radqueer? Feel free to ignore if you don't feel like answering
To be honest I've been wondering this too 😭 I feel like everytime I try to read up on it something different is said. I don't know what identities/labels are included nor if they're in good faith or anything so that's why i haven't voiced my view on radqueers, I don't know enough 😭 If anyone sees this and would like to provide an answer it'd be much appreciated!
You say pro-cotact dni is that all pars or only harmful ones?
Hi anon! I only mean harmful paras, such as if it involves parties that are unable to consent and/or it will cause harm to said parties (children, animals, things of this nature.) People can't control where their attractions lie, so if they are a paraphile with the attraction to said things I won't discriminate against the attraction by itself, especially if they are receiving help for it or have absolutely no intention to act on their attraction, I'm just strictly anti-contact in regards to those paras and don't want to interact with people who are pro-contact. Thanks for asking!
🦋[Hey loves <3 How are you all doing? I apologize for not posting for a few days, i get busy frequently :( But, just know i still love n care for all of you, so here i am back with another positivity post <3]🦋
🦋[This one is quite specific, but this one is for the people who identify w/ xenogenders/neurogenders, cause, i do as well, and ppl who used these are always so shitted on, sooo]🦋
🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with xenogenders are VALID!]🦋
🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with neurogenders are VALID!]🦋
🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who use neo/xenopronouns are valid and very cool, and yes, your pronouns should absolutely be respected no matter how 'dumb' someone may think it is. It isnt dumb, btw <3]🦋
🦋[Dont let neurotypicals tell you how you can and cant identify as (i see it is mostly neurotypicals who do that) and that is honestly ableist how they shit on people who use these without even understanding how much it helps ND's. You all are precious and very much valued, especially here, you are valid and loved and cared for no matter how you identify. ♡]🦋
🦋[Id really appreciate it if anyone who uses these comments or sends in an ask telling me what xeno/neurogenders or pronouns they use, only if youre comfortable <3 Id like to make this a more comfortable safe space where people can express themselves freely so <3]🦋
I got hit with the flu </3 I will be back soon ! Once this flu goes away ahh. Always remember you are accepted and valued here, keep being awesome and creative !
I made a darkship blog for the sake of dumping my dark scenarios, but it's also open for people to submit their own ideas too! Strictly MDNI (minors do not interact) though, unlike this account, just to make that known. If anyone is interested or has some ideas/scenarios they'd like to dump for any particular reason, the blog is @bl4ck0utg1rl ! There are no restrictions to what fictional ideas people can send in, no matter how dark or light or unhinged or sexual or whatever, as long as it is strictly fictional, and I will add corresponding tags for people to block if needed, so go wild :)
Reblog this if you’re okay with fellow self-shippers gushing about their F/Os in your ask box!
Hello, I just want to say thank you for existing, i need positivity in my life as a closeted proshipper who's surrounded by anti friends (´°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥ω°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥`) your account is so cute and helpful
Awww thank you so much lovely!!! That really means alot, and ive been having a generally rough day today as it is so i really appreciate that <3 Thank YOU for existing too darling, you are a treasure and i hope youll find peace and a safe space soon, im so sorry most of your friends are antis, but dont ever be scared to message me or something if you need a proshipper friend to talk to <3 Take care hun, youre a wonderful being ♡♡♡
hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D
Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3