> Ily Proship Self-shippers Who Are In Fandoms That Are Practically Overrun By Antis, So You Struggle

Hello may I gush to you? I'm going to do it anyway. This is something I wanna talk about and a confusing situation that I feel really bad about so-

So uh. My main ship, in any fandom, is sebaciel (Sebastian/Ciel from Kuroshitsuji/Black Butler). This is already A Thing because Ciel is like fourteen and Sebastian's a hundreds-of-years old demon, but I love them sm so. They're my favorites and I would do anything for it to be canon tbh. Now the problem with this is: I kin Sebastian.

I self-ship with Ciel because sebaciel was official in my canon, but I feel really bad about because Ciel's a child and ugh. Purity culture and christian upbringing + how most people would view me is not a good combo :/. But I love him a lot and god I would do anything for him. I feel bad about it though and I hate that I do because I know I have no reason to especially considering I'm closer than even the age Sebastian gives under human disguise.

Anyway I'm gonna gush about Ciel because I love my young master so. Like he's just, so small and precious, pretty little boy, I just want to scoop him up and take care of him. I would do literally anything for him I swear, I love him so much. He's so cute and pretty and genuinely smart and clever, he loves mystery(idk if that's actually the right word, there's a better one but I'm dumb-) books and would keep notes to try and figure out who the culprit was on his own. He loved rabbits and soft things and sweet things, especially chocolate, and I would give a lot to just watch his face light up when he eats it. He used to have nightmares, and I remember how long it took for him to let me comfort him after them. I love him so much.

Awww hey hey! Im so so sorry you feel so bad about selfshipping with Ciel, i do completely understand though! I too had a christian upbringing, though personally im now athiest, i still have the aftermath of the religious trauma my family gave to me, and it seeps into my proship views every once in a while, so do know you arent alone on that <3 You are completely valid for selfshipping with Ciel and are completely valid for shipping Sebaciel! Im absolutely sure you are perfect for Ciel though, your view on this does not affect who you are in real life love, dont let it affect you so deeply <3 But, still, what youve said so far, gushing about Ciel, is so cute!! I ship you two v much, please take care of yourself though darling, im sorry i dont have much else to say about this rn, and im sorry im replying to it so long after youve sent it, but feel free to come back and gush or talk more anytime <333

Hey so I have a question what's a radqueer? Feel free to ignore if you don't feel like answering

To be honest I've been wondering this too 😭 I feel like everytime I try to read up on it something different is said. I don't know what identities/labels are included nor if they're in good faith or anything so that's why i haven't voiced my view on radqueers, I don't know enough 😭 If anyone sees this and would like to provide an answer it'd be much appreciated!

Hello autistic proshippers, question, are any of your favorite ships perhaps a special interest? And if not the ship itself, is it the media the ship is from? Alternatively, if you selfship I could ask the same about your f/o(s) and their source(s), if this better applies to you! Light or dark ships, I'm just curious! Either way, I'm so glad to have you here and you are always welcome on my blog! Whether or not you feel you explore fiction, or anything for that matter, differently than other people, I will always be interested in hearing about your interests. Explore freely, do what makes you happy, no matter what you're interested in it is okay and you're valid for having an interest in that thing! No matter if it's dark fiction or not. And if it is, you aren't a bad person at all for being fixated on those dark fictional ideas. Have fun!

Gentle reminder for you lovely proshippers that what antis say about you doesn't mean anything, and you should never let their words get to you. You are wonderful and lovely and I, along with our community are so glad to have you here! You keep fandoms fun and safe, and that's amazing. Drink some water, eat something nutritious, and take a breather. Thank you for being you, despite it all! <3

🦋 Hey hey proshippers! Youre all super wonderful and amazing and i support every one of you <3

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LGBTQ+ proshippers are valid <3

Minor proshippers are valid <3

Adult proshippers are valid <3

Abuse/csa victim proshippers are valid <3

System proshippers are valid <3

Self ship proshippers are valid <3

Proshippers who ship these things as a way to cope are valid <3

Proshippers who do it for fun are valid <3

Every proshipper is 💕✨valid✨💕

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Youre all so valid and ily all so much, remember to drink some water, eat something- even if its only something small, rest, and just be you. 💕💕💕

Feel free to reblog or comment with anything else youd like to add :) 🦋

🦋[Hey lovelies! Do any of you happen to want positivity for a certain fandom? Or possibly certain types of ships or smth? Selfship and regular shipping included ofc, but i know sometimes people have alot of bad experiences with specific fandoms and i want to make up for atleast a small bit of it <3 So if youd like some positivity/reassurance for anything specific lmk! And honestly if you need it outside of proship-selfship related things then im fine with that too, im here for everyone and care deeply about all of you <3 Take care huns! My inbox is always open :)]🦋

cat pic for a very nice person <3

AWWW??? THEYRE SO CUTE, THE BIG EYES :(((

AWW well look at that cutie patootie! Their tail must be soaked though (⁠╯⁠︵⁠╰⁠,⁠)

🦋[Back again and here to tell you youre amazing and that your fictional ships dont determine who you are as a human being <3]🦋

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🦋[Incest shippers are super cool, you arent harming anyone by shipping this stuff, its okay to like this in fiction and be repulsed by it irl <3]🦋

🦋[Age gap/minor+adult shippers are amazing and deserve the world, you arent hurting any minors by shipping this, we know its fiction and you are absolutely NOT a predator for this <3]🦋

🦋[Abusive/toxic relationship shippers are awesome and deserve to be happy, you arent condoning nor hurting vicitms by shipping this, its perfectly okay <3]🦋

🦋[Yandere shippers are so fuckin pog, this is abit specific but i have a soft spot for yanderes, and just know you arent harmful or being harmful to anyone for shipping yandere things <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn wholesome ships problematic are so creative and fun, you arent a bad nor toxic/abusive person for doing this, youre wonderful <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn problematic ships into wholesome ones are super lovely, i never understood the issue with this anyways but just know youre such a sweetheart if you do this <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age up characters for any reason are amazing, youre not weird for this at all <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age down characters for any reason are valid, youre not yucky or gross or disgusting for this, its fiction and your own mind/imagination, have fun with it <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with yanderes are pog, cause same <3 its ok to love them in fiction, you arent weird or creepy or anything, youre valid <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who proship with villains and/or non-human characters are valid and super cool?? Like wow, thats just so awesome???? Your f/o(s) are super rad, and they love you <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with abusive/toxic and/or familial characters are valid and cool, i know you wouldnt do such things to your irl partner and ik you wouldnt do such things to your family, dont worry, its okay <3 fiction doesnt determine how you are morally <3]🦋

🦋[Adult selfship-proshippers who self ship with a minor character are completely valid, theyre fictional and im positive you wouldnt like minors irl, you arent a predator <3]🦋

🦋[Minor selfship-proshippers who self ship with an adult character are valid, you arent dumb/oblivious/unknowing, and im positive youd know better irl, theyre fictional, and ive been in your shoes before, its ok <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who age up their minor f/os and/or age down their adult f/os are super valid and its perfectly okay to do so, its your f/o, they love you no matter what, have fun and enjoy them <3]🦋

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🦋[We as proshippers know this stuff isnt okay irl, and absolutely dont condone it whatsoever. Whether it be for comfort, to cope, or for fun, just know its valid and that youre not a terrible person at all for shipping it. Ily, drink some water, eat something, get some sleep, and just take care of yourself. Youre worth it <3]🦋

u should change ur pfp! maybe like to kaori from your lie in april? idk i feel like it would be rlly cute

Ooh, ill definitely consider it! I have it as Sayori rn since shes a high kin of mine but ill def consider it, ty!