Wanna Know What Your SP Is Thinking About You Rn?

I’ve received some asks about anxiety and worries during manifesting and I have been dealing with this as well so I decided to say some things!

first of all, none of this will get in the way of getting your desires if you assume it won’t… yes I know sometimes it’s hard to keep a mental diet about things like that, but trust me!!!! if you assume it doesn’t matter and it doesn’t affect your assumptions/desires at all, then it won’t!

living as if is basically knowing that it’s yours, so just assume that you do! we always know deep down that anxiety is just our logical side taking action, and you don’t need any of this for the law of assumption :)

if you only take one piece of advice from me,

i would like it to be to stop being so hard on yourself.

for a while i kept wondering why every single time I do a challenge or a routine where I’m consistently affirming for something, things would start to get bad.

& for the longest time, many of us in a way were taught to dismiss our “negative” emotions for the sake of getting into “the state”.

when those “bad” feelings come up, we tell ourselves

“that’s a bad thought. you can’t think that way. it is not aligned with your manifestation.”

ahh yes. so enjoyable to dismiss our own feelings. this appears to be a job fit for either an obedient pet or robot, and last time I checked, everyone on here was neither.

i kept trying to understand why things kept getting worse and worse when I doing “all the right things” by the book.

& then I realized it was because I was trying to force myself to become this perfect person so that I could therefore have my desires, so that I could therefore be fulfilled. why did I expect myself to be perfect, but my person and my friends didn’t have to be..?🤔

how is never allowing myself to be human and then throwing a bunch of “I’m the hottest and I love myself” affirmations having the ideal self-concept? It’s not. a true high self-concept to me is being genuinely nice to yourself, and allowing yourself to feel the things that you feel because you are, once again, not a robot. I genuinely was waiting for my every single insecurity to disappear as an indicator of a good self-concept. Not allowing myself to BE HUMAN. that’s why these shitty feelings kept popping right tf back up over and over again, no matter how many times I decided I was going to “ignore it.”

i believe letting yourself feel those scary emotions are propelling you towards your desires, as you are genuinely letting go of the old self this way. cry it out. whatever the emotion is that won’t go tf away, let yourself feel it. then you can reparent yourself and remind yourself that you are only human, so it is normal to feel this way sometimes, but guess what? you are still hundred percent getting everything you want regardless. you will not stay sad about these things forever once you realize that they are not stopping you from getting what you want. they’re literally just trying to find their way out of your body.

and for those manifesting an SP.. would you criticize your SP for feeling sad? or would you soothe them and love them anyway? why can’t you get the same treatment?

be kind to yourself, always <3

Don't forget to take care of your self concept : everything comes from there.

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the pedestal is yours too

i am important to my SP.

they are lucky to have me in their life.

i bring joy, love, comfort and growth to them.

my SP is grateful to have known me as much as i am grateful to have known them.

we are mirrors to each other resulting in tremendous self-discovery.

i treat my SP as someone i love & someone who loves me. right now. despite everything. i try to be kinder and sit with my triggers that have nothing to do with them. i do not harbour resentment towards their current 3D version because i know i somewhere created this and i have the power to do differently now.

i love them for who they are right now, even if they’re not the ideal version we want them to be and allow them to flourish into a better person. i love them through their unfinished current 3D version, the obstacles, the triggers - because my higher self knows these things are trivial in the long run.

if we continue energetically projecting “SP is not doing enough for me” , “SP is not mirroring my affirmations” and “SP just loves to push all my buttons”, how do we expect to feel loved & cherished?

we can’t expect to receive love, adoration and contentment if we are constantly viewing our SP with the lens of scrutiny, how they’re not enough, how they’re not doing things for you etc. we focus so much on the lack that we forget to be kind to them. they’re also on their own spiritual journey, they’re too learning to live.

detach your SP from your triggers and take a good & kind look at them. understanding them , where they come from & what you can do to soothe them is something you’ll learn along the way. your triggers are the key to manifesting. your triggers are an opportunity to understand why you are the way you are.

BOOSTER AFFIRMATIONS!!!!!

note: manifestation is instant but as humans we sometimes have doubts regarding time, so I like to use these affirmations to get rid of thoughts like that!!

• I manifest my desires instantly in my 3D reality

• everything I want manifests super quickly in my 3D reality

• my affirmations are instant

• I always see movement in my 3D reality

• every time I affirm, I see movement in my 3D reality

• manifesting is super easy and quick for me

• I am a master manifestor and I get everything I want

• I always get all my desires instantly

• my reality always shows up exactly like I want it to

Hi!

I probably have a stupid question but it’s concerning a celeb sp, a kpop idol actually

I’m soon gonna get a tattoo, it’s something that he drew, and I’m kinda feeling anxious cause it’s a tattoo I really want to and all and I’m like

Kpop idols don’t date fans right? Like I’m afraid of some of my actions « ruining » my chances and stuff like

Is there anything like this in manifestation?

I don’t know I kinda get anxiety on manifestation him cause I really want him and I feel like all my celeb sps are always kinda out of my reach, I always ruin things and everything

I don’t know if I made sense, love your blog! 🩷

Awh thank you so much!! And sorry i've answered so late. Okay love, let's get into it.

I’m soon gonna get a tattoo, it’s something that he drew, and I’m kinda feeling anxious cause it’s a tattoo I really want to and all and I’m like Kpop idols don’t date fans right? Like I’m afraid of some of my actions « ruining » my chances and stuff like Is there anything like this in manifestation?

Yes and no, does it exist? some people have that limiting belief, but let me tell you NOTHING can ruin your manifestation! The only thing that can 'ruin' it would be you checking the 3d/not staying consistent. Remember, you are the creator of your reality, so things (circumstances) like a tattoo or that person not usually dating fans, can't ruin it.

It WILL happen (in the 3d) regardless of whatever you think!!

I don’t know I kinda get anxiety on manifestation him cause I really want him and I feel like all my celeb sps are always kinda out of my reach, I always ruin things and everything

It's totally okay to be anxious! just remember, you can't ruin what's already done, but I'd really reccomend you work on self concept!! What im seeing is here you feel like you ruin things/have the assumption of it + circumstances bother you + have a low sc

So I'd reccomend you lower him from the pedestal. ("I feel like all my celeb sps are always kinda out of my reach") -> he is NOT out of your reach, as remember, he is human like you, and it's YOUR reality He is not 'better than you' and you deserve him<3

Regardless of usual proceedures with kpop idols (I know their brands are usually very up-tight) things WILL go well. This is YOUR reality, not anyone else's Do you love him enough to stay consistent? if so. Thats ur man!

If you use affirmations, I'd reccomend affirming for:

-That he's in your reach -That you can manifest ANYONE you want -That Nothing can ruin your manifestation / it's already done! Subliminals I'd reccomend/channels: *Note you don't have to watch all of them, or listen overnight each night, these are my PERSONAL reccomendations, check each video, the channel, the comments, the benefits and decide whether it aligns with you or not<3

Regardless of anything and everything, I have all that I desire

High motivation, I AM series

dear diary, today I was amazing as always (self concept)

kill that urge to be chosen, choose yourself

Self concept 101: every affirmation you need

432hz | Self concept

432hz | Ready, set, GO! Everything HAS to Unfold

IDEAL PARTNER manifest your ideal partner (romantic/platonic)

state of: having or being

belief + fast results subliminal

victim mentality

Put yourself on the pedestal

Rampage + subliminal put yourself on the pedestal

stay safe, take care, know ur man's urs<3

Manifesting Specific People (SPs)

Ah, yes. The most commonly talked about topic in the manifestation community. Just about everyone has at least one specific person they’re manifesting, whether it’s a romantic or not.

I want to talk about it and give my own thoughts and advice.

“How do I manifest my SP?”

There is no how. The how never ever matters when it comes to manifesting. Again, you can use techniques to help you get to your end state in order to manifest your SP, but it’s not necessary. You simply decide and tell yourself what role your SP plays in your life. Affirm that this person is yours and that they show up exactly how you want them to.

When I say “show up exactly how you want them to,” I mean that they make a reappearance in your life where they reflect your desired version of them. This person can be someone you already know that you’ve had a past - and possibly negative past - with or someone who you haven’t even met yet in the 3D realm. But, either way, you shouldn’t focus on what was there before or worry about how they’re going to show up. Just know how you want them to show up for you.

This is where the subject of Everyone Is You Pushed Out applies. You may unintentionally be expecting negative or undesirable traits and situations from people in your life. How? Well, let’s say for example, you’ve had a bad past with friends you grew up with. Then, these bad past experiences may have had a negative effect on your expectations for friendships now. You, by instinct, expect people to turn on you; you act cautiously. Suddenly, a friend you make now turns on you. That is EIYPO. They’re reflecting your energy, your thoughts, your past experiences, etc.

I know EIYPO may sound like a wild concept, but it is surprisingly accurate. For myself, I just recently understood what this all meant and how it’s shown up in my own life. Once it clicks for you as to how this applies to people you know in your life now, then you’ll get an idea of how to turn your thoughts around. And, once you do, you'll have your SP.

"What if circumstances are bad for us right now?"

Even if you're currently dealing with an SP having you blocked, being in no contact with you, being physically far away from you, seeing someone else, etc, it does not matter. Circumstances. Don't. Matter. All that matters is you knowing and telling yourself that they are there for you in the exact way you want them to be.

I know this can be tricky to deal with, especially when it feels like they're being shoved right in your face (I've dealt with it myself). This is why persisting is so important. Affirming how you want this person to be, what role they play in your life, and what they do for you is what makes it your truth. You're saying it's true, therefore, it is true. Obviously, allow yourself to feel upset if this person is making you feel that way, but don't stop yourself from thinking you don't have this person or that they're not who you want them to be.

Run wild with your imagination. Envision all the good experiences you want to have with this person and affirm that they're going to happen (or revise that they've already happened). You will experience those things. Don't limit yourself with what you want. Even better things will happen, too, trust me! For instance, I manifested my platonic SP, and him and I now have an even closer bond than before, which I wasn't even expecting as I was manifesting him. I've had an even deeper conversation with him, he's been way more goofy around me, he talks to me every time he walks by me, etc.

"Can I manifest multiple SPs?"

Yes, you absolutely can. You can have an SP you want to be your friend, an SP you want to marry, and an SP you want as your boss. They're all different people who you're manifesting into different roles and parts of your life. Hell, you can even manifest two SPs you're crushing on both chasing after you. There are no limits to it, just obviously be careful to not cheat on or slight people.

"Can I manifest a famous SP despite them not knowing me ?"

This might surprise you, but, yes. It might feel more challenging to since the celebrity or random person you find cute doesn't know you. BUT, it isn't impossible to manifest. Again, run wild with your imagination and envision the experiences you see yourself having with these people. Keep telling yourself it is possible. Look at a picture of Harry Styles and be like, "We're meeting up."

You would be so surprised. The other day, I watched one of Alisha Marie's videos on YouTube where she showed her vision board from last year. She pointed out a picture of Beyonce she randomly threw on there, thinking it'd be wild if she could meet her. What happened? She manifested meeting her within that year.

I also think a lot about a video I saw with Melissa Fumero from Brooklyn Nine-Nine being interviewed about her husband. She saw this hot guy in a Mariah Carey music video back when she was 13 and developed a crush on him. Years and years later, she started seeing a guy and it turns out he's the one from the music video. Then, she ended up marrying him. She unknowingly manifested marrying this celebrity crush of hers from when she was a kid. That's amazing.

"Am I hypnotizing or controlling my SP to be this way?"

No, not at all. This is a bit of a tough concept for me to fully explain myself, so I'll use an explanation from Kyle August (he did a really good job of explaining this in his latest video):

You can even think of Neville Goddard when he talks about the 4D. You would say that each person is this creator, each person is in their own reality. So, basically, you are every single person you are seeing, including your specific person. They are just a reflection of you. And if we dive deeper into this idea of "okay, so what does my specific person actually feel?" we realize that the worry of free will - because that's actually what's happening behind the scenes - we're worried that we're taking advantage of someone's free will.

If we think about that, we realize that the worry is not actually on them, but actually on ourselves, because when we think of creating this identity within ourselves or assuming as if we already have what we want, we would be our specific person's perfect partner. And, the analogy I always like to use [...] imagine that you were to hand out a million dollars or a half the amount of money to someone you randomly met. How would you feel giving them that money? [...] You would see it as you were creating a better life for them, but technically, if we think about free will and the opportunities for states, you would say you're actually taking away their free will to be in poverty or to not have a million dollars or to not have whatever amazing thing you're giving them. But since you are seeing it as a massive value, this actually never crosses your mind.

So, the same understanding and concept is happening with your specific person. You are seeing yourself intruding upon their reality only because you're not seeing the value within your own state. You are the million dollars and it is only within our minds that we think the opposite.

To sum up what he's saying, he's describing EIYPO - everyone is a reflection of who we are, including our specific person. So, if you're worried that you're taking their free will, it means you may not see yourself as someone who'd be a valuable part of their life. When you view yourself as someone who they already see as valuable, then you naturally become of value to them because you see yourself in that way - they're reflecting the same view you have of yourself.

This applies to just about every type of SP. Like, let's say you want your boss to have a better connection with you and give you a raise. You're going to tell yourself that you are a valuable worker. Then, once you have that mentality, you'll have that better connection with your boss and he'll raise your paycheck just like you wanted, because you manifested him to value you in that way.

"Why does it feel difficult to manifest my SP?"

Well, if you have this mentality that you're taking their free will, that circumstances won't improve, and/or that it's not possible for you to ever get them, then you'll struggle to manifest them. It may also feel like it's a big, intimidating thing to manifest because you're jumping from being single to being in a relationship with a celebrity or being friendless to having a group of friends. But, it is possible. Again, don't limit yourself.

They are obsessed with you

They can’t ever get enough of you

They constantly want to be with you

You are addicting for them

They’ve never met anyone like you

You are their entire world and more

How I Made a Celebrity Obsessed with Me in 3 Days

Well, I had been thinking for a while about whether I really wanted him or not, but I just wanted to have fun, so I thought, "Why not?? 😈"

On the first day, I was thinking about him a lot, but I started imagining that he was texting me on Instagram and constantly thinking about me.

But accidentally, I started getting a little obsessed... then I quickly reminded myself: HE is the one who's obsessed!

So I put myself on the PEDESTAL, and everything started to flow.

For three nights before bed, I imagined us together, having fun, and I even visualized something very specific: I was moving to a new city, and he was going to be my neighbor (this detail is important later, remember it!).

I kept thinking things like:

"I'm perfect."

"Of course, he's obsessed with me."

"Ugh, why is he always checking my profile? 🙄"

Then, I decided to send him a New Year's message (FYI: he NEVER replies to people he follows). I woke up the next day, and he still hadn't responded.

I felt a little disappointed but quickly changed my mindset: "He's just busy; he'll reply soon." And I let it go.

I spent the rest of the day affirming things like:

"I'm the most beautiful woman in the world."

"I'm unique; there's no one like me."

Then I went to sleep.

The next morning, I checked my phone to see if any friends had texted me, but when I opened Instagram... HE had messaged me.

But instead of freaking out, I just acted like it was nothing, as if this happened every day.

After that, I commented on one of his posts, and he replied immediately 😏 (he never replies to anyone, and he was super sweet to me).

Right after responding, I noticed a weird account checking my profile and watching my stories (an account that followed him).

I stayed low-key for a few weeks—because, honestly, he's not that important (I am).

Then, a few weeks later, I found out he was going on a retreat just a few minutes away from where I live (OMGGGG).

So I commented on another one of his posts, saying I really wanted to go but wasn’t sure because I’d feel lonely there (yes, I was being dramatic on purpose).

He responded IMMEDIATELY, saying: "This is the PERFECT time for you to come!"

Right after that, he went to my profile and viewed all my photos… and I was like 😰.

Then, a bunch of fake accounts started checking my stories (obviously his 🙄).

So in the end, my manifestation worked perfectly—I wanted him obsessed, and now he's going crazy over me.