It's Called A "call And Response" And A Lot Of Peoples Brains Are Just Hot Wired To Finish The Other

Okay hi hello! Resident ace spectrum person of fandom space! I can confidently say that no it is not a recipe for eventual problems or break ups. I've literally been in a relationship for five years going on six this month. I found out I was on the ace spectrum about a year into dating my two partners and when I voiced that I might be ace I was encouraged to find out about myself. I was told I was still loved by both of them and it didn't change our relationship. If you find someone you really love and really loves you it won't matter to them. Sex is not integral to a relationship all the time and it shouldn't be the backbone of your love towards someone. Assuming that sex plays such a large part in a relationship is damaging for both asexual and allosexual individuals because it sets an expectation that you can only please and attract someone with your body and nothing else in the relationship matters (it's like when people say "your relationship is failing maybe you should put out more" or "was your sex game really that bad?"). This is not the case though, having an open talk about expectations of sex in a relationship and expressing your low, non-existent, or repulsed view on sexual activity is normal and should happen in all relationships even for allosexual individuals. It lets you know where your relationship stands with someone because if they truly only care about your relationship when they thought sex was on the table it probably wouldn't work out in the future anyways regardless of your view on sex. No one deserves to be put down or told that they have to seek out someone just like them (which is easier said than done) just to find love. Please if you share the same view as the person in the third post please take a second to reevaluate your view on sex and why you believe it's so important in a relationship that you think an ace person can't have working relationships with people outside of other ace individuals because I assure you we can.

one of my fandom litmus tests is whether or not ppl think asexual characters can be in relationships because some of y’all would rather write five paragraph essays explaining why you can’t ship them with anyone than redefine the way you view love (aka acknowledge rather than invalidate relationships that have no sexual physicality)

I- I wish to do the crimes of theft as well please!!!

I am once again tossing random things to my followers

Futaba being Yusuke's big spoon is like peak big brain. My boy Yusuke probably hasn't been held in someones arms since he was three without it being some bullshit that built his stockholm issues. And Futaba needs to be able to stay grounded and to know that everything is real and not going to disappear, that she's not hurt and alone anymore. What better way to fix this touch starvation then by wrapping yourself around your willowy date mate like an octopus and not letting go so both of you can self heal.

I want to make individual Drabbles for each of the little prompt things

By the fucking smallest of aatoms, I have made it

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Look buddy, i’m just trying to make it to Friday.

He will be mine...

i dont think i posted these but here i made a little frog pattern to make tiny frog toys with my grandma

this is the first lil guy I made while still learning how i should sew it

Oh shit y'all we've had a lot of these "you can only reblog today" posts this year

today is the 21st day in the 21st week of the 21st year in the 21st century

'Kitagawa Yusuke has entered the chat'

I feel this way to much

i stole this from twitter

I feel like I just watched the mlp episodes with the Film Flam brothers just now for some reason

Poor Unfortunate Souls in a major key is cursed

HOW COULD FATE PUT MY TWO CHILDHOOD ICONS UP ON A SCREEN AND SAY CHOOSE!!! Legit figured out I was both not straight, not cis and not nerotypical with the help of these two characters (also Papyrus, and Yusuke)

Magnificent MLM Matchup Round 4