Somehow looking extra smol and smoochable in this one :3
clover update: my fuckimg glasses D:
also cute as fuck cigarette earrings uwu
Nya nya :3
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*clings onto you and gives you lotsa smoochies all over*
whoever likes or reblogs this or simply DMs me, you have given me permission to lay and cuddle on you and cling
What if...car girl? O.o
"would you love me if i was a worm?" yes of course
"would you still love me if i was a car guy?" HELL TO THE NAW TO THE FUCK TO THE NO
lesbians love and support our trans sisters ππ
so i just got yelled at by my mother to "get out of [her] house". and scolded for every single little thing i do, even shit i dont do. and my sister is lying about me to our parents. so uhh
help if you can i guess. if everyone could just send like five bucks my way i'd be doing considerably better.
not if youre one of my friends tho i cant let yall do that.
This. This is exactly what it is.
so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.
i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care β a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation β and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.
i don't think i'd have died without transition β not in the conventional sense, at least β but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.
and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.
so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.
and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to
are they really your mutual / friend if you donβt get them flustered and wanna kiss them?
Today, I managed to eat :3
having depression makes your friends seem like the coolest most put together people on earth like wow... you got out of bed, had breakfast, went to work, AND spent some time on a hobby when you got home....? that's so impressive you're like superman or something. can i borrow your power.
Normalize being kind & supportive for no reason
I actually like the look of the Great White Fleet a lot. In that same look the USS St. Louis was an absolute beauty I think c:
:0 Imperial Japanese Navy ship as a profile banner!
Mhmm! The Takao
I just think she's really pretty. In my top 5 for prettiest warships
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