I realised I've never done a proper introduction so here it comes
No DNI but if you behave like you want to be blocked you will be.
I am Jamie, 20 yo and the host of a traumagenic OSDD system.
We don't care about other systems origins and think that it is problematic to invalidate anyones plurality since that just seems like fakeclaming tbh and fakeclaming is always shit.
We believe in the validity of informed self-diagnosis.
We are diagnosed autistic and have ADHD, BPD, PTSD, anxiety and depression, all of them were self-diagnosed before we got the offical diagnosis. Currently we are slef-diagnosed with OSDD but working on the official diagnosis.
We live in a country with mostly free healthcare so getting official diagnoses is easier fo us than many others. We know that many people don't have this privilage, that's why self-diagnoses are so important for many.
I am celestial shapeshifterkinfluid with some other changing kintypes like catkin, foxkin and more.
I experience varying degrees of species dysphoria and phantom limbs. Dysphoria mostly about not being able to shapeshift, not having a tail and legs, phantom limbs mainly tail.
I am a genderqueer, xenogender, genderhoarder neoboy, my pronouns he/xe.
I am AroAceFlux mspec gay and live with my wonderful partner.
Here[link] is my hoard to see many of my flags. The hoard is work in progress and isn't nearly compleated yet.
I will edit this post if things change or if there are things I want to add
The flags are based on this[link] BPD flag. The terms in this post are exclusive to those who have BPD. Those with informed self-diagnosis can use it as well!
BPD-Fakeromantic or FP-Fakeromantic is an neuroromantic and arospec identitiy that can also be interpreted as a subset of nebularomantic[link] where one is aro(spec) and has a trouble to identify romantic attraction due to their BPD. This is often due to thinking one experiences romantic attraction when actually just being obsessed with a person/ this person being one's fp and only after this obsession ends being able to tell it wasn't actual romantic attraction (if even that). One may also always when this happens think "this time it's different, this time these is actual romantic attraction" but it's not attraction. Since this identity is often connected to having an fp I gave it the alternate name "FP-Fakeromantic" I made this label for other types attractions with the same definition just with their specific attraction types.
Since these all these lables can be seen as a subset of the nebula- attracrions: here[link] is a post where all these lables are explained or linked.
BPD-Fakesexual/FP-Fakesexual | BPD-Fakerose/FP-Fakerose
BPD-Fakequeerpaltonic/FP-Fakequeerplatonic (two flag versions)
BPD-Fakeplatonic/FP-Fakeplatonic | BPD-Fakealterous/FP-Fakealterous
BPD-Fakesensual/FP-Fakesensual | BPD-Fakeaesthetic/FP-Fakeaesthetic
BPD-Fakephysical/FP-Fakephysical | BPD-Fakeemotional/FP-Fakeemotional
BPD-Faketertiary/FP-Faketertiary | BPD-Fakeattractional/FP-Fakeattractional
[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light pink, purple and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a green heart tilted 90 degrees counterclockwise.]
Being polyamorous in regards of queerplatonic attraction and/or relationships.
Colors based on queerplatonic flag, asexual flag, aromantic flag an polyamorous flag. The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the yellow stands for platonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the light pink stands for queerplatonic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships, the purple stands for asexuality, and/or non-sexual relationships and the green heart stands for aromantic individuals, aromantic/non-romantic attraction, affection, love and/or relationships.
Not every qpr is necessarily a non-sexual relationship and of course not everyone who is in a qpr is ace or aro. Also not everyone in a qpr experiences love since there are loveless aros in a qpr. These are just common experiences that are included in the flag meaning, these aren’t the only way to be in a qpr or to experience queerplatonic attraction. The queerplatonic experience can’t be simpified like that, there is not the one “right” way to be in a qpr or experience queerplatonic attraction, like with any queer identity the experiences of everyone are differnt. (All of that obviously also applies to alterous attraction and relationships)
[image ID: a flag with 3 stripes in the colors light gray, red and dark purple. On the left side is a light yellow triangle and a light pink heart tilted 90 degrees counterclockwise.]
Being polyamorous in regards of alterous attraction and/or relationships.
Colors based on alterous flag and polyamorous flag.
The dark purple stands for the united non-monogamous community, the other colors are the colors of the alterous flag and represent alterous attraction, affection, love and/or relationships.
Original Flags [link]
(plus shiny versions)
If you have'nt seen my first post here[link] is my first post about this.
Most of these omni flags[link] were my reference for the different attraction types, however I already posted my omniqueerplatonic version on here and also for the alterous flag I chose a different blue tone.
This post includes diasapph, diachillean and sapphillean.
For all orientations this will be the order of the flags: sexual, romantic, platonic, alterous, sensual, aesthetic and queerplatonic. The last flag is omnioriented[link] which is a label for when all of your attraction types are the same. So for example when someone is pansexual, panromantic, panplatonic, panqueerplatonic, pansensual, etc. they are omnioriented pan.
[Discriptor for all flags: All flags are their usual colors but have in additional stripes on the top and bottom. These are the colors: sexual purple, romantic green, platonic yellow, queerplatonic has four additional stripes where the two outer ones are light pink and the other two are light yellow, alterous light blue, sensual orange, aesthetic pink, omnioriented has also four additional stipes, the outer ones are black and the other are pink.]
Pt. 1 including bi, pan and poly is here[link]
Pt. 2 including omni, homo and hetero is here[link]
Pt. 3 including different lesbian flags is here [link]
Pt. 4 including two gay flags and turian is here[link]
Pt. 5 including sapphic, achillean and diamoric is here[link]
this is pt. 6
Pt. 7 including sapphilliamoric, gai and strayt is here[link]
Pt. 8 including three enbian versions is here[link]
Pt. 9 including neptunic, uranic and saturnic is here[link]
Pt. 10 including abro, abroflux and biflux is here[link]
Pt. 11 including panflux, polyflux and omniflux is here[here]
Pt. 12 including inclusive lesbian, vincian and questioning is here[link]
Pt. 13 including homoflexible, lesbiflexible and gayflexible is here[link]
Pt. 14 including three versions of heteroflexible is here[link]
Pt. 15 including two straightbian versions and lesboy is here[link]
Pt. 16 including two straightcian versions and turigirl is here[link]
Pt. 17 including gaybian, gayhet/straightgay and heterogaybian/ straightlaurian is here[link]
Pt. 18 including stellian, lunian and solian is here[link]
[No image ID yet] NebulasexualLoverboy | NebularomanticLoverboy | NebularoseLoverboy/NebularoaceLoverboy NebulalterousLoverboy | NebulaplatonicLoverboy | NebulasensualLoverboy NebulasensualLoverboy alternate version | NebulaestheticLoverboy | NebulaqueerplatonicLoverboy NebulaphysicalLoverboy | NebulaemotionalLoverboy | NebulatertiaryLoverboy [Aspect]Loverboy is a (neuro)gender under the loverboy [link] system where one's gender is a [Aspect] Loverboy. Since the nebula attractions are exclusive to neurodivergent and these genders are linked to said nebula attractions these genders are exclusive to neurodivergent people, too. A post with all of these Nebula- flags is linked down below. Credit to @ryanyflags as he did most of the flags and their post with the all of these flags gave me the idea to do this! nebulasexual flag (source) nebularomantic flag (source) nebularose/nebularoace flag (source) nebulasensual (source)
It's 2025, why are we still circulating the idea of a "gender trinary?"
I don’t believe that the gender spectrum is a trinary and never claimed so. If you are referring to terms like “atrinary” these terms are saying that there is more than female, male and neutral. I Can you explain where I did promote the idea of a gender trinary because I really don’t see that in any of my content.
A Xenogender that falls under the Aliengender subtype ; a gender related to being an alien and being silly/gender related to aliens and being silly/silliness . This gender was coined with otherkin (specifically alienkin) in mind but it's not otherkin exclusive .
[/ID: The Sillyaliengender flag. The flag has twelve stripes. The order of the stripes is a repeating semicircle pattern of deep blue which overlaps muted indigo, dark-ish aqua, a repeating semicircle pattern of turquoise which overlaps light almost-neon green, and white. The flag then mirrors the same pattern for the bottom half. In the middle of the flag is a light almost-neon green alien emoji, it has blue-ish green eyes and a dark blue-ish green outline. /End ID]
[/ID: The Sillyaliengender flag. The flag has twelve stripes. The order of the stripes is a repeating semicircle pattern of deep blue which overlaps muted indigo, dark-ish aqua, a repeating semicircle pattern of turquoise which overlaps light almost-neon green, and white. The flag then mirrors the same pattern for the bottom half. /End ID]
Coined by ;; Venus & Kirby (Horror sys) !!
嫌 - coin a gender related to the moon in some way!
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Panaliengender is when one experiences all aliengenders it’s possible for them to be.
Panstargender is when one experiences all stargenders it’s possible for them to be.
(two versions based on two different Genderspace flags)
Pangenderspace is when one experiences all space relatred genders it’s possible for them to be.
(plus shiny versions)
he/xe | 20yo | autistic and ADHDPart of an OSDD systemFeel free to use my terms and flags. Credit is not needed but appreciated.No DNI, just don’t be a dick or I’ll block you.
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