GUYS GUYS GUYS I NEED YOU TO KNOW THIS

Hating yourself is NOT a contained practice. It ALWAYS impacts other people either directly or indirectly. So LET IT GO because not only is it mean to you, it's harmful to everyone in the environment around you.

There is no way to hate without hurting others. Even if you think it's just yourself.

Hating yourself is harming others. Like, almost always. Even if you don’t mean it to.

Loving yourself enough to take care of yourself and be kind to yourself is what makes you more capable of helping others and doing good.

You’re not going to shame and hate yourself into being a better friend, a better spouse, better parent, better person, better service to the world. That’s done through love and gentleness. I promise.

And I know it’s work! There is no switch to flip that takes you magically from self-hatred, self-denial, insecurity, and depression to self-love, self care, gentleness, and joy! It takes work and, for many people, seeking outside help! But it’s worth it worth it worth it, not just for you, but for everyone around you.

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love help self love kindness helping you matter Hate okay love you guys love yourself love you <3 LOVE YOU self worth helping others caring btw I love you guys so much but my love isn't a suitable replacement for your own love of yourself!!! you may not feel worth anything but folks we all feel that way and the way to change is to love yourself the way you love your loved ones there's a better way make it count

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Biggest failing of the internet is that in order to be vibing with my friends I have to actually be talking to them. I socialize like a cat I just show affection by sitting next to you. Ily but sometimes I have Nothing to say. Not a damn thing going on in my head

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enjoy :) orange hey maybe we could be friends even just friends in passing sharing an orange never to interact again up to you but I do have this lovely orange and I would like to share it with you

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its-okay-youre-adorable

4 months ago

would you put a discarded fruit sticker on my forehead in whimsical jest yes or no

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its-okay-youre-adorable

5 months ago

ahhhh my brother just informed me that he's been converting our dad to his taste in music and apparently one of his favorite songs now is sail by AWOLNATION

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adhd ? i guess family also wholesome workout add i love them both so much they're the best my dad is adorable my family is adorable sail AWOLNATION my brother and my dad are adorable together but anyway yeah my brother proceeded to show me the workout playlist he made for him and Dad and it was called “big 💪💪💪 strong💪💪💪men💪💪💪” the first song on it my hero foo fighters bro they are so ADORABLE workout playlist culture or something

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its-okay-youre-adorable

3 months ago

I was actually explaining this to a friend like "imagine things you have to do are staircases. Sometimes they just have like. So many steps. And sometimes I can get up the stairs super easy but sometimes they are really long staircases and I don't have the energy to do more than one thing because each staircase is so long and I don't know which one to pick because they both need to get done but I already know I can only pick one, tops" and he wordlessly pulled out this post

having one of those executive function days where everything is too many steps

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adhd neurodivergent and general mayhem and creative wiring upstairs solid advice well not exactly advice? but good concept I was shookethed when I learned I was not unique in this manner of thinking of it

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its-okay-youre-adorable

3 months ago

Goose and geese have tooth and teeth

and they smooch and smeech

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short post foundation stallion

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its-okay-youre-adorable

5 months ago

bringing back the interstellar fandom one cranky science nerd at a time

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