i made this instead of doing the things ive been "forgetting" to do
Having a black cat in my bed always comforts me because I know that the things lurking in the dark are scared of her.
it's okay if you get confused easily. it's okay if you forget things easily. it's okay if you lose track during conversation easily. it's okay if you have to ask for clarification often. it's okay if you struggle to parse information or sensory unit. you're not "playing dumb" or "doing it on purpose". it's okay to be disabled, some people just refuse to be accommodating.
one of my least favorite neurotypical customs is how long it takes to leave somewhere. My mom will be like “alright it’s time to leave” but we stay like 10 more minutes because people can’t stop talking. We get two feet before stopping again. We stand in the doorway for 5 minutes. It’s annoying and stressful and puts my brain in constant waiting mood.
being autistic and using “big words” or sounding unnatural in conversation is like. i am different from everyone else and no one really understands me, so im trying my best to communicate and be understood by using very precise and exact language even if it doesn’t “sound right” in informal settings, so that i might bridge the gap in understanding between us. but now im weird AND talk funny.
A little Grimmjow kitty! :3
My own (somewhat) lazy take on Sonic.
Your friend may desperately want to be included and may nos know how to ask. Be specific about what you wonchim co go
it will be much easier to talk about or shor something you both like to do (movies, sports, music, books, TV shows, ete).
Remember that your friend with Autism may take more time to respond than other people. It doesn't necessariv mean he or she isn’t interested.
Speak at a reasonable speed and volume.
If you see someone teasing or bullying a friend with autism, take a stand and tell the person that it's not cool.
if your friend with autism is doing something inappropriate, it’s OK to tell him nicely. Just make sure to also tell him what the right thing to do is becouse he mov not know
Your friend may be very uncomfortable in certoin situations or places (crowds, noisy areas, etc.). Ask if he or she is ok.
Your friend is just a kid like you who needs a little help. Accept his or her differences and respect strengths ust as vou would for any friend.
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A weird cat Sanji.
QSMP : "We have determined that the Quesadilla residents are ready for a government"
Philza: *gets lied to about the island being safe* *has huge feds hq in his front lawn*
English Autistic Transmasc Pansexual - ‘01 - Pronouns: Any - Aries / Year of the Snake - Hobbies: Drawing, Reading, Writing, Daydreaming & Crocheting - “Constantly Distracted” is my middle name - Current Hyper-fixations: COD: MW2, Transformers
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