So This Happened :

girlie you can't give up you don't have the mansion with a secret library yet

It was better when we had hope

Feb 04, '22: notes- my saviour. truly.

greek mythology is just an elaborate game of fuck marry kill

Teach boys about periods

My mother also talked about periods to my brothers.

When I first got mine I had terrible cramps. Crippling cramps. I once was camping with my family and a few of my big brother’s friends when my period came. My cramps were so bad that my mom gave me a full pain killer ( I was 13 and before that she only gave me pills cut in half).

I literally laid down on my parents’ air mattress and cried in pain for an hour before the pill kicked in.

My brothers friend came in to the big tent and I was just curled up and sobbing. Now, I was quite the tomboy and was known to rough house with my brothers and their friends and made sure I wasnt seen as just “a little girl.” So my brother’s friend was confused to see me openly weeping in the fetal position (seriously, these were the worst cramps I have had in my life. My vision went white). He asked what was wrong with me.

My big brother stood up immediately and suggested a nice long hike. During this hike I am sure he had a pretty awkward conversation with his friend explaining menstrual cramps, because when they got back the pain pill had (mostly) kicked in and I was sitting up at a table when my brother’s friend sheepishly asked me if I was feeling better. I said I was better, and he said good.

When we made s'mores that night my brother and his friend kept me well supplied with chocolate.

Making sure sons know as much about periods and menstruation as daughters makes them better brothers, better sons better fathers, and better men. A man that understands a period will not lightly accuse a woman of “being on her period” if the woman is in an argument.

Raise better sons Teach them about normal bodily functions.

Whenever there is some scandal and the person apologizes there are always a significant number of people wanting to continue the callout, for whom the apology is never sufficient. When pressed on it, they'll advert to some absurdly specific element of something covered in the general apology. No apology is sufficient. Of course, this is because they're not really interested in ameliorating anything ever. They're interested in being outraged and getting points for cheap dunks. This is no way to live as a social creature among other social creatures. Everyone wrongs other people and makes mistakes, and it is dangerous and deeply destructive when a significant group of people decides that wrongs can never be forgiven.

"The snake which cannot cast its skin has to die. As well the minds which are prevented from changing their opinions; they cease to be mind."

-Friedrich Nietzsche

I'M DYING if you put bangtan in jimins house they'll interact with his cat (kookie kinda fights it lol) but YOONGI SITS ON THE CAT TREE ITSELF I CAN'T