[sp Success Story] He's Back, Lmao

[sp success story] he's back, lmao

the reason why i got into the law of assumption in the first place was because of this man.

the circumstances:

he initiated separation (but pretty sure i manifested it)

1 month later, he got a girlfriend

removed me from all social media

literally told me to back off when i asked how he was doing during no contact

11 months later, he's come back and parrotted to me all of the assumptions i had of him while we were in no contact.

"but dream4jk, why did it take so long?"

because i wasn't disciplined enough.

i know a lot of people think that all law of assumption bloggers have their shit together and can easily get what they want.

and they're right, but sometimes, having human reason and ego take effect before master manifestor does.

what i did "wrong"

i buried my feelings about sp and our situation for months.

this resulted in me having breakdowns down the line, even half a year into the separation.

me disregarding what i felt about the situation made me more attached to his return and to him, because i literally did not let myself grieve before trying to accept the situation as it is.

getting rid of the old story involves accepting the situation for what it is (something you manifested) and forgiving it and yourself for letting it happen.

i also got stuck on "trying" to manifest him back when i literally could've just assumed that he was back.

i constantly felt inadequate just cause i saw no movement with him, and i made that my reality.

what helped me pull him in

i worked on myself for months to try and accept the situation as it is.

a month before he reached out, mutuals of ours started telling me about his life recently and it gave me a new perspective on who he is now - he's no longer someone i knew.

all of the previous story that i knew of him were thrown out the window. i was basically handed a silver platter of him becoming a blank canvas for me to grace my work on (my new assumptions of him)

finally, 3 days before he reached out, i promised to myself that i will get him back and will be really fucking disciplined about it.

every time i thought of him, i redirected the thoughts into a small action that he "already did" - follow me on social media.

i remained in this story and remained calm, just trusting that all of it already happened.

he then reached out by reconnecting on more than 1 social media platform, and ended up telling me im a dream partner. he is now single.

he has made amends and attempts to try to get on my good side, initiating long ass conversations. not to mention praising me so much, probably more than he did when we were initially together.

circumstances don't matter. the perception of time doesn't matter

your perception of what you experience is the only thing that matters.

don't make the same mistakes i did.

be compassionate to yourself while staying disciplined in what it is that you want.

you want it right? stop chasing after it. you wouldn't chase it if it was already yours.

We already have our dream life, babes!

Moving with love, dream4jk đŸŒŒ

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2 months ago

THISSS!!!!!!!

Today, I had a realization that shifting is real. It's the very essence of existence. Since the beginning of this year, I have had a feeling that I had so many lives before and I am living so many lives right now. Maybe with a different name, with a different face. I feel like I have all the things that I crave. I am someone's beloved somewhere, I am living my best university life somewhere else or maybe somewhere I am someone's little beloved daughter, still playing with dolls inside a pillow fort. All of these are happening now at this very moment. I feel like shifting is the most real thing in this dream which we're calling reality. And my desired reality that I want to live--- it also exists somewhere in this Great Cosmic Design. I do not need any validation right now to tell me whether it's real or not because I know it is.

this. this is it !!!!!! this is the entire thing. you’ve cracked the code, pulled back the curtain, stared god in the face and winked. shifting isn’t some far-off, unattainable thing. it’s happening. right now. always. you are already living every version of yourself that you’ve ever dreamed of, every iteration, every possibility, all at once.

you are someone’s beloved. you are laughing in a university library, sunlight in your hair. you are curled up in a pillow fort, safe and small and loved. it’s all real. it’s all yours. you don’t need permission. you don’t need proof. you just are.

1 month ago

a message to all the maladaptive dreamers out there who say the law “doesn’t work” because they’ve “felt it real” for years but never saw results:

you weren’t living in the end, you were fantasizing about the end. there’s a difference. daydreaming, dissociating, and creating elaborate mental movies won’t change your reality unless you identify as the version of you who already has it. the law isn’t activated by desperation or escapism. it’s activated by conviction, embodiment, and self-concept.

you can spend hours feeling it in a dream, but if you wake up and still believe you’re not that person, you’re reaffirming lack. fantasizing is not assuming. pretending is not becoming.

and that’s the real core of it, it will always come back to identity. if you keep calling yourself a “maladaptive dreamer,” someone who escapes into fantasy to cope with a reality you don’t like, you’re reaffirming the exact version of you that doesn’t have what you want. it’s not just a habit, it’s a self-concept. and as long as you stay attached to that identity, you’re choosing to live in a faraway lalaland where the desire always feels close
 but never quite yours.

you didn’t “do it wrong,” you just weren’t doing the law. the law of assumption is not maladaptive dreaming. maladaptive dreaming is a legitimate condition, a compulsive, often isolating cycle that has deeply affected so many people’s lives. and i say this with so much love, because i’ve been there too. i know what it’s like to get lost in your mind for hours, to feel safer in a fantasy than in your own body, to cling to imagined realities because the present felt unbearable. but you have to stop. no one is going to save you. you are the only one who can decide to come home to yourself.

the law asks you to assume the identity of the version of you who has it. maladaptive dreaming keeps you stuck in the identity of someone who’s always trying to get there. it’s not about cutting off your imagination, it’s about using it consciously, with discipline, with intention, with love. not to escape your life, but to create it.

stop calling yourself a maladaptive dreamer. stop diagnosing yourself with an identity that keeps your desires far away. before you ask “how do i do that?” remember what the law of assumption is about: identity creates. if you keep identifying as a maladaptive dreamer, someone who escapes or dissociates, that’s exactly what reality will reflect back.

but you have to break that loop. you can’t sit and stare at your wounds forever. i’ve shifted both physical and mental conditions just by changing my self-concept and choosing new assumptions. it’s possible. the only thing standing in your way is the story you keep telling yourself.


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2 months ago

THISSSSSSSS

you're making shifting hard

You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard

shifting is not hard. you're making it seem that way.

i used to struggle with this so much. like, i knew the law of assumption. i knew that shifting and manifesting were the same thing. i knew that reality is just my assumptions reflected back to me.

but for some reason, every time i tried to just decide i was in my DR, it felt... different.

i could easily say, "i have blue eyes," and it felt normal, even if my eyes were brown. but the second i tried to say, "i'm in my DR," my brain would go: "hmm... but are you really?" and suddenly, i'd be analyzing everything, waiting for proof, wondering if i was doing it right.

and that's where i messed up.

You're Making Shifting Hard

i was placing shifting on a pedestal

i thought shifting was bigger than other manifestations. i thought it was different. but the truth? there is no such thing as a "big" or "small" manifestation. that's literally just a label. it's an assumption.

if i assume it's "harder" to shift than to change my eye color, then guess what? that assumption becomes my reality. but if i assume they're both the same, just decisions, then shifting becomes just as easy as saying, "i have blue eyes."

You're Making Shifting Hard

checking for proof was my biggest block

the second i decided i was in my DR, i'd immediately start checking, even subconsciously.

do i feel different?

did something change?

am i there yet?

and by doing that, i was literally affirming that i wasn't there. because if i truly believed i was in my DR, why would i be checking?

like, when i wake up in the morning, i don't sit there and check if i'm still in my reality. i don't look around thinking, "is this my bed? is this my house?" i just assume it is. and because i assume it, that's what i experience.

that's exactly how shifting works.

You're Making Shifting Hard

deciding = reality

at some point, i realized i was overcomplicating everything. i was acting like shifting was some grand process, when in reality, it's literally just deciding. and once i decide, that's it. i don't need to do anything else.

when i say, "i have blue eyes," i don't sit there waiting for them to change. it just accept it as true.

when i say, "i am already in my DR," i should do the exact same thing. just accept it and move on.

no forcing. no waiting. no "trying." just knowing.

You're Making Shifting Hard

the secret? stop making it a big deal

shifting is not this rare, complicated thing.

it's not "bigger" than any other manifestation. it's not something you have to work toward. it's just a decision. and the only reason it feels different is because you assume it is.

so i stopped treating it like a big deal. i stopped looking for proof. i stopped acting like it was something separate from normal manifesting. and the moment i did that? everything clicked.

You're Making Shifting Hard

so if you're struggling...

stop checking if it's working.

stop waiting for proof and validation.

stop placing shifting on a pedestal.

just decide. accept. move on.

you're already there. that's it. no doubts, no second-guessing. just be.

You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard
You're Making Shifting Hard

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4 months ago

*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I know some of you are scared in the back of your mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†

but you don’t need to be, STOP RACING AGAINST THE CLOCK

BECAUSE TIME ISN’T REAL AND ITS DONE

*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†
*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†
*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†

some of you are gaslighting yourself to into persisting while still being scared. You’re persisting in that new body but, in the back of your mind you’re scared that it won’t come before summer because you aren’t doing anything in the 3D, what if this is all for nothing. You’re persisting in your good grades but in the back of your mind you’re like “what if this is all for nothing, i need to study to get good grades”. So you’re scared, you waver and you start to believe that you’re nothing to change your reality.

And why is this

Because stupid society has told you that in order to see a result in absolutely anything, you must work for it. In order to get money, you MUST work. In order to pass you classes you MUST study. In order for your skin to clear up you MUST do skincare. You need to do something in the 3D to set things in motion is what they tell us. And because of that you think you’re being lazy, “what if i can’t actually manifest money and actually have to work for it, what have been doing this whole time?” So you panic and start wavering. And because of that it never comes. Because you’re SO skeptical of the fact that we don’t need to even touch our 3D to get what we want. You’ve been so conditioned to think another way you can’t fathom what’s right.

But what you need to realise is that creation is finished, done. There is nothing you need to do. at all. And it doesn’t take days or weeks to adopt this new mindset just know that in this moment, creation is finished. It takes a second to flip your thoughts you just need to persist. Why are you anxiously awaiting the deadline you’ve given yourself in the back of your mind? Time isn’t real, the 3D isn’t real. The 3D doesn’t determine your experience it’s your mind

for example

if you try and persist in a new body before summer and you’re anxious that you won’t get and believe that you just “should’ve worked out” → you won’t get what you want.

if you work out but you believe that you’re “not doing enough” → you won’t get what you want

so whether you did or you did not it didn’t matter, same outcome when your mind isn’t with it.

i’ll use good grades again as an example

Lora said she persisted in her good grades fore her exam, she tried staying strong however the scary exam talk from the teachers and other people around her got in her head. In the back of her mind she’s scared that it won’t work and that “she should’ve studied”(affirmation btw). She panics and wavers and then she doesn’t get what she wants.

This is because she couldn’t understand that creation is finished. The second she wanted those good grades they were hers, if only society didn’t constantly tell her she needs to work for a result. I have many friends who study and still don’t feel confident so they fail and re affirm that “they’re just dumb”, so it doesn’t matter what you do in your 3d because it isn’t real.

Creation is done, stop being scared. “what if is all for nothing and i fail?” (affirmation) you’re allowed to feel. but counter that by telling yourself what’s true. Your innerman doesn’t experience the 3d so it doesn’t matter what you do. Saturate your mind into believing what’s true.

Your innerman doesn’t experience time, there are no deadlines to be afraid of, it’s already yours.

stop thinking you need to persist for a certain amount of time for your manifestation to be valid. You only got your head in the game and started persisting in your dream life, “i should’ve been doing this for longer” time is not real, persisting in a fact for 60 seconds is the same as persisting in a fact for 60 days.

Let’s say both Luna and Lani are both trying to have their dream body before summer break in June. Luna started persisting in January, and Lani after months of wavering decided to persist in the last week of May. Time isn’t real so, it doesn’t matter how long theyve been persisting for, both of them get what they want.

Stop panicking it’s yours. Idc what’s going on your life, even if you’re backed up against a wall it’s yours. It’s okay to feel upset and panicky but don’t indulge in those feelings anymore let them pass, cast them out with psych k, or simple visualisation and tell yourself it’s already done.

If you hop on a train from london to paris, it doesn’t matter if you’re going to eat loads of food on the train, sleep or do an exercise in the middle of the isle like a crazy person, it’s still going to end up in paris. If you persist, no matter what, you will end up having what you want. Affirm to yourself “no matter what happens, everything is done”

don’t be afraid, creation is done

there’s nothing to do, and i mean this, you don’t have to meet in the middle with the 3D. EVER

there. is. nothing. absolutely. nothing. you. need. to. do 👏👏 it’s happened already

you have that face, body, house, car, you’ve induced pure consciousness, no. matter. what.

Why would you clean a house that’s already squeaky clean, why would you need to work for something THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE. If you were 8 months pregnant would you be scared that “it’s all for nothing” and that your baby won’t come when it’s due, that you’ll wake up and your stomach just disappears?

be serious

đŸŒș🍯 stop feeling scared that something isn’t coming. you already have that thing.

*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†
*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†
*à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹† I Know Some Of You Are Scared In The Back Of Your Mind *à©ˆđ‘àŒ˜â‹†

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1 month ago

Shifting is guaranteed. I know you hear a lot of people say this, but it truly is. Nothing can stop you from shifting, not even death. The moment you found shifting and decided you want to do it, you already did. There's no hurry, no rush, you just have to wait for it to be reflected into the 3d. And it's 100% sure that it will, so sit back, get yourself a drink (coffee) and watch it come to you!

1 month ago

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7 months ago
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I got my hands on the Lens of Truth and LOOK WHAT MAGIC I’VE DISCOVERED IN THE SKY

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4 months ago

focus on the likes and not the wants

Focus On The Likes And Not The Wants
Focus On The Likes And Not The Wants

you may not want to clean your room, but you like the peace and call it brings you after

you may not want to study, but you like the confidence and satisfaction you get from being prepared

you may not not want to apologise, but you like the relief and connection that reconciliation brings

you may not want to cook, but you like the satisfaction of eating a healthy come cooked meal prepared with love

you may not want to exercise, but you like how you feel afterwards and how it makes you confident

you may not want to journal or write, but you like the reflection and calm it brings you

you may not want to step out of your comfort zone, but you like the new experiences and growth you gain from it

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