[sp success story] he's back, lmao
the reason why i got into the law of assumption in the first place was because of this man.
the circumstances:
he initiated separation (but pretty sure i manifested it)
1 month later, he got a girlfriend
removed me from all social media
literally told me to back off when i asked how he was doing during no contact
11 months later, he's come back and parrotted to me all of the assumptions i had of him while we were in no contact.
"but dream4jk, why did it take so long?"
because i wasn't disciplined enough.
i know a lot of people think that all law of assumption bloggers have their shit together and can easily get what they want.
and they're right, but sometimes, having human reason and ego take effect before master manifestor does.
what i did "wrong"
i buried my feelings about sp and our situation for months.
this resulted in me having breakdowns down the line, even half a year into the separation.
me disregarding what i felt about the situation made me more attached to his return and to him, because i literally did not let myself grieve before trying to accept the situation as it is.
getting rid of the old story involves accepting the situation for what it is (something you manifested) and forgiving it and yourself for letting it happen.
i also got stuck on "trying" to manifest him back when i literally could've just assumed that he was back.
i constantly felt inadequate just cause i saw no movement with him, and i made that my reality.
what helped me pull him in
i worked on myself for months to try and accept the situation as it is.
a month before he reached out, mutuals of ours started telling me about his life recently and it gave me a new perspective on who he is now - he's no longer someone i knew.
all of the previous story that i knew of him were thrown out the window. i was basically handed a silver platter of him becoming a blank canvas for me to grace my work on (my new assumptions of him)
finally, 3 days before he reached out, i promised to myself that i will get him back and will be really fucking disciplined about it.
every time i thought of him, i redirected the thoughts into a small action that he "already did" - follow me on social media.
i remained in this story and remained calm, just trusting that all of it already happened.
he then reached out by reconnecting on more than 1 social media platform, and ended up telling me im a dream partner. he is now single.
he has made amends and attempts to try to get on my good side, initiating long ass conversations. not to mention praising me so much, probably more than he did when we were initially together.
circumstances don't matter. the perception of time doesn't matter
your perception of what you experience is the only thing that matters.
don't make the same mistakes i did.
be compassionate to yourself while staying disciplined in what it is that you want.
you want it right? stop chasing after it. you wouldn't chase it if it was already yours.
We already have our dream life, babes!
Moving with love, dream4jk đŒ
THISSS!!!!!!!
Today, I had a realization that shifting is real. It's the very essence of existence. Since the beginning of this year, I have had a feeling that I had so many lives before and I am living so many lives right now. Maybe with a different name, with a different face. I feel like I have all the things that I crave. I am someone's beloved somewhere, I am living my best university life somewhere else or maybe somewhere I am someone's little beloved daughter, still playing with dolls inside a pillow fort. All of these are happening now at this very moment. I feel like shifting is the most real thing in this dream which we're calling reality. And my desired reality that I want to live--- it also exists somewhere in this Great Cosmic Design. I do not need any validation right now to tell me whether it's real or not because I know it is.
this. this is it !!!!!! this is the entire thing. youâve cracked the code, pulled back the curtain, stared god in the face and winked. shifting isnât some far-off, unattainable thing. itâs happening. right now. always. you are already living every version of yourself that youâve ever dreamed of, every iteration, every possibility, all at once.
you are someoneâs beloved. you are laughing in a university library, sunlight in your hair. you are curled up in a pillow fort, safe and small and loved. itâs all real. itâs all yours. you donât need permission. you donât need proof. you just are.
a message to all the maladaptive dreamers out there who say the law âdoesnât workâ because theyâve âfelt it realâ for years but never saw results:
you werenât living in the end, you were fantasizing about the end. thereâs a difference. daydreaming, dissociating, and creating elaborate mental movies wonât change your reality unless you identify as the version of you who already has it. the law isnât activated by desperation or escapism. itâs activated by conviction, embodiment, and self-concept.
you can spend hours feeling it in a dream, but if you wake up and still believe youâre not that person, youâre reaffirming lack. fantasizing is not assuming. pretending is not becoming.
and thatâs the real core of it, it will always come back to identity. if you keep calling yourself a âmaladaptive dreamer,â someone who escapes into fantasy to cope with a reality you donât like, youâre reaffirming the exact version of you that doesnât have what you want. itâs not just a habit, itâs a self-concept. and as long as you stay attached to that identity, youâre choosing to live in a faraway lalaland where the desire always feels close⊠but never quite yours.
you didnât âdo it wrong,â you just werenât doing the law. the law of assumption is not maladaptive dreaming. maladaptive dreaming is a legitimate condition, a compulsive, often isolating cycle that has deeply affected so many peopleâs lives. and i say this with so much love, because iâve been there too. i know what itâs like to get lost in your mind for hours, to feel safer in a fantasy than in your own body, to cling to imagined realities because the present felt unbearable. but you have to stop. no one is going to save you. you are the only one who can decide to come home to yourself.
the law asks you to assume the identity of the version of you who has it. maladaptive dreaming keeps you stuck in the identity of someone whoâs always trying to get there. itâs not about cutting off your imagination, itâs about using it consciously, with discipline, with intention, with love. not to escape your life, but to create it.
stop calling yourself a maladaptive dreamer. stop diagnosing yourself with an identity that keeps your desires far away. before you ask âhow do i do that?â remember what the law of assumption is about: identity creates. if you keep identifying as a maladaptive dreamer, someone who escapes or dissociates, thatâs exactly what reality will reflect back.
but you have to break that loop. you canât sit and stare at your wounds forever. iâve shifted both physical and mental conditions just by changing my self-concept and choosing new assumptions. itâs possible. the only thing standing in your way is the story you keep telling yourself.
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THISSSSSSSS
shifting is not hard. you're making it seem that way.
i used to struggle with this so much. like, i knew the law of assumption. i knew that shifting and manifesting were the same thing. i knew that reality is just my assumptions reflected back to me.
but for some reason, every time i tried to just decide i was in my DR, it felt... different.
i could easily say, "i have blue eyes," and it felt normal, even if my eyes were brown. but the second i tried to say, "i'm in my DR," my brain would go: "hmm... but are you really?" and suddenly, i'd be analyzing everything, waiting for proof, wondering if i was doing it right.
and that's where i messed up.
i thought shifting was bigger than other manifestations. i thought it was different. but the truth? there is no such thing as a "big" or "small" manifestation. that's literally just a label. it's an assumption.
if i assume it's "harder" to shift than to change my eye color, then guess what? that assumption becomes my reality. but if i assume they're both the same, just decisions, then shifting becomes just as easy as saying, "i have blue eyes."
the second i decided i was in my DR, i'd immediately start checking, even subconsciously.
do i feel different?
did something change?
am i there yet?
and by doing that, i was literally affirming that i wasn't there. because if i truly believed i was in my DR, why would i be checking?
like, when i wake up in the morning, i don't sit there and check if i'm still in my reality. i don't look around thinking, "is this my bed? is this my house?" i just assume it is. and because i assume it, that's what i experience.
that's exactly how shifting works.
at some point, i realized i was overcomplicating everything. i was acting like shifting was some grand process, when in reality, it's literally just deciding. and once i decide, that's it. i don't need to do anything else.
when i say, "i have blue eyes," i don't sit there waiting for them to change. it just accept it as true.
when i say, "i am already in my DR," i should do the exact same thing. just accept it and move on.
no forcing. no waiting. no "trying." just knowing.
shifting is not this rare, complicated thing.
it's not "bigger" than any other manifestation. it's not something you have to work toward. it's just a decision. and the only reason it feels different is because you assume it is.
so i stopped treating it like a big deal. i stopped looking for proof. i stopped acting like it was something separate from normal manifesting. and the moment i did that? everything clicked.
stop checking if it's working.
stop waiting for proof and validation.
stop placing shifting on a pedestal.
just decide. accept. move on.
you're already there. that's it. no doubts, no second-guessing. just be.
dividers by: @cafekitsune
but you donât need to be, STOP RACING AGAINST THE CLOCK
BECAUSE TIME ISNâT REAL AND ITS DONE
some of you are gaslighting yourself to into persisting while still being scared. Youâre persisting in that new body but, in the back of your mind youâre scared that it wonât come before summer because you arenât doing anything in the 3D, what if this is all for nothing. Youâre persisting in your good grades but in the back of your mind youâre like âwhat if this is all for nothing, i need to study to get good gradesâ. So youâre scared, you waver and you start to believe that youâre nothing to change your reality.
And why is this
Because stupid society has told you that in order to see a result in absolutely anything, you must work for it. In order to get money, you MUST work. In order to pass you classes you MUST study. In order for your skin to clear up you MUST do skincare. You need to do something in the 3D to set things in motion is what they tell us. And because of that you think youâre being lazy, âwhat if i canât actually manifest money and actually have to work for it, what have been doing this whole time?â So you panic and start wavering. And because of that it never comes. Because youâre SO skeptical of the fact that we donât need to even touch our 3D to get what we want. Youâve been so conditioned to think another way you canât fathom whatâs right.
But what you need to realise is that creation is finished, done. There is nothing you need to do. at all. And it doesnât take days or weeks to adopt this new mindset just know that in this moment, creation is finished. It takes a second to flip your thoughts you just need to persist. Why are you anxiously awaiting the deadline youâve given yourself in the back of your mind? Time isnât real, the 3D isnât real. The 3D doesnât determine your experience itâs your mind
for example
if you try and persist in a new body before summer and youâre anxious that you wonât get and believe that you just âshouldâve worked outâ â you wonât get what you want.
if you work out but you believe that youâre ânot doing enoughâ â you wonât get what you want
so whether you did or you did not it didnât matter, same outcome when your mind isnât with it.
iâll use good grades again as an example
Lora said she persisted in her good grades fore her exam, she tried staying strong however the scary exam talk from the teachers and other people around her got in her head. In the back of her mind sheâs scared that it wonât work and that âshe shouldâve studiedâ(affirmation btw). She panics and wavers and then she doesnât get what she wants.
This is because she couldnât understand that creation is finished. The second she wanted those good grades they were hers, if only society didnât constantly tell her she needs to work for a result. I have many friends who study and still donât feel confident so they fail and re affirm that âtheyâre just dumbâ, so it doesnât matter what you do in your 3d because it isnât real.
Creation is done, stop being scared. âwhat if is all for nothing and i fail?â (affirmation) youâre allowed to feel. but counter that by telling yourself whatâs true. Your innerman doesnât experience the 3d so it doesnât matter what you do. Saturate your mind into believing whatâs true.
Your innerman doesnât experience time, there are no deadlines to be afraid of, itâs already yours.
stop thinking you need to persist for a certain amount of time for your manifestation to be valid. You only got your head in the game and started persisting in your dream life, âi shouldâve been doing this for longerâ time is not real, persisting in a fact for 60 seconds is the same as persisting in a fact for 60 days.
Letâs say both Luna and Lani are both trying to have their dream body before summer break in June. Luna started persisting in January, and Lani after months of wavering decided to persist in the last week of May. Time isnât real so, it doesnât matter how long theyve been persisting for, both of them get what they want.
Stop panicking itâs yours. Idc whatâs going on your life, even if youâre backed up against a wall itâs yours. Itâs okay to feel upset and panicky but donât indulge in those feelings anymore let them pass, cast them out with psych k, or simple visualisation and tell yourself itâs already done.
If you hop on a train from london to paris, it doesnât matter if youâre going to eat loads of food on the train, sleep or do an exercise in the middle of the isle like a crazy person, itâs still going to end up in paris. If you persist, no matter what, you will end up having what you want. Affirm to yourself âno matter what happens, everything is doneâ
donât be afraid, creation is done
thereâs nothing to do, and i mean this, you donât have to meet in the middle with the 3D. EVER
there. is. nothing. absolutely. nothing. you. need. to. do đđ itâs happened already
you have that face, body, house, car, youâve induced pure consciousness, no. matter. what.
Why would you clean a house thatâs already squeaky clean, why would you need to work for something THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE. If you were 8 months pregnant would you be scared that âitâs all for nothingâ and that your baby wonât come when itâs due, that youâll wake up and your stomach just disappears?
be serious
Shifting is guaranteed. I know you hear a lot of people say this, but it truly is. Nothing can stop you from shifting, not even death. The moment you found shifting and decided you want to do it, you already did. There's no hurry, no rush, you just have to wait for it to be reflected into the 3d. And it's 100% sure that it will, so sit back, get yourself a drink (coffee) and watch it come to you!
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LOVELIES
I got my hands on the Lens of Truth and LOOK WHAT MAGIC IâVE DISCOVERED IN THE SKY
you may not want to clean your room, but you like the peace and call it brings you after
you may not want to study, but you like the confidence and satisfaction you get from being prepared
you may not not want to apologise, but you like the relief and connection that reconciliation brings
you may not want to cook, but you like the satisfaction of eating a healthy come cooked meal prepared with love
you may not want to exercise, but you like how you feel afterwards and how it makes you confident
you may not want to journal or write, but you like the reflection and calm it brings you
you may not want to step out of your comfort zone, but you like the new experiences and growth you gain from it
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